Guest guest Posted May 6, 2008 Report Share Posted May 6, 2008 Sher, I'm so very sorry I miss read your statement! I have lost so many people to this dreaded disease, maybe I just get caught up in the past. I remember a friend who had the same birthday as mine and they gave us a huge cake and as we were blowing out the candles,he whispered he knew this was his last. I sill pray for him and the others every day and my anger at Reagan comes up like bile in my throat. They did nothing for so long, that people died who should not have! Please forgive me, for I would never want to add to your pain! That is part of the reason you don't see me on line often. I don't want to hurt anyone and I know I am opinionated. I try to shut up and keep it light, but as you see I am not always successful! Please know that I love you and will continue to pray for both of you! Again I ask your forgiveness, TerrySher Bauman wrote: Ter...Yes you are wrong wrong wrong. I said I loathe his choices....what mother could approve? I do not loathe him! Don't be too quick to judge me either Ter. You know nothing about my family............. I know you mean well. Just as you do not like your son's choices, you still love him. Mama-Sher, age 69.IPF 3/06, NSIP 4/08 OR. Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: Sher's son Oh my dear friend, I know the pain of a mother worrying about a sick child. My oldest son has MS. Doesn't matter what it is, just that we can not kiss the boo boo and make it better any more. The thing that pained me the most, was that it sounded as if you have placed the blame on him! My heart hurts if I am right. Doesn't your Bible say, "Judge not, least yee be judged"? The only thing any of us can truly be, is who we truly are. I will pray for him and even harder for you. Let go of all that stuff and let him die knowing your love transcends all places that could possibly add that foolish guilt to his life. I'm sending him much love. I've lost many friends and many patients from aids, and those that were made to feel guilt suffered the most. If I have it wrong, or I'm out of line, just tell me. This came from my heart! Terry Sher Bauman <bofuswbcable (DOT) net> wrote: My son, Chip, is not doing well. He is 44 and dying from AIDS.... 3 surgeries in three weeks, and is not coming around this time. He has been sooo sick sooo many times and yet survives. I'm not confident this time of his survival. I of course loathe what his choices brought into all our lives and the pain we all live with today........ Not very cheerful news but it's part of my everyday life right now................. Mama-Sher, age 69.IPF 3/06, NSIP 4/08 OR. Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Terry Pennisi 11/07 IPF Nevada Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Terry Pennisi 11/07 IPF Nevada Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 6, 2008 Report Share Posted May 6, 2008 Ter...of course you are "forgiven"....family's have disagreements and we settle them. I know you would not say anything to cause intentional pain. I, like you, often speak my mind and sometimes I regret how it comes out. We're ok..... Mama-Sher, age 69.IPF 3/06, NSIP 4/08 OR. Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Re: Sher's son Oh my dear friend, I know the pain of a mother worrying about a sick child. My oldest son has MS. Doesn't matter what it is, just that we can not kiss the boo boo and make it better any more. The thing that pained me the most, was that it sounded as if you have placed the blame on him! My heart hurts if I am right. Doesn't your Bible say, "Judge not, least yee be judged"? The only thing any of us can truly be, is who we truly are. I will pray for him and even harder for you. Let go of all that stuff and let him die knowing your love transcends all places that could possibly add that foolish guilt to his life. I'm sending him much love. I've lost many friends and many patients from aids, and those that were made to feel guilt suffered the most. If I have it wrong, or I'm out of line, just tell me. This came from my heart! Terry Sher Bauman <bofuswbcable (DOT) net> wrote: My son, Chip, is not doing well. He is 44 and dying from AIDS.... 3 surgeries in three weeks, and is not coming around this time. He has been sooo sick sooo many times and yet survives. I'm not confident this time of his survival. I of course loathe what his choices brought into all our lives and the pain we all live with today........ Not very cheerful news but it's part of my everyday life right now................. Mama-Sher, age 69.IPF 3/06, NSIP 4/08 OR. Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! Terry Pennisi 11/07 IPF Nevada Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Terry Pennisi 11/07 IPF Nevada Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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