Guest guest Posted February 2, 2011 Report Share Posted February 2, 2011 So yesterday was grandnada's birthday. This is my nada's nada. Due to my nada's huge hermit walls, I have no idea what happened to her as a child to make her the way she is, but I have had enough clues to know that grandnada & my grandpa weren't very nice to nada. Anyway, grandnada was always very good to me. I do love her, even though she has said some things that have upset me. Example: She would want to go shopping & out to lunch, insist on buying me something & then buying me lunch & then tell relatives that I was bleeding her dry money wise. Thanks. So when I went NC with nada, I had to go NC with grandnada too. Well, I do miss her and wish I could have called or sent her a card for her b.day. But I know she'd just run to nada & give her my phone number or address or what city I live in if I sent the card without return address. It's had me thinking a lot about both nada & grandnada. I even had weird dream about nada last night. Usually nada is nice to me in my dreams, but I do remember her being much more blatantly cruel, though I can't recall the dream now. Just the generally feeling I had about it when I woke up mid-sleep to use the bathroom. Anyway, just thought I'd sort of lament here about missing grandnada some. Mia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2011 Report Share Posted February 4, 2011 Hi Mia, I'm sorry you miss her. But based on your description it sounds like you're better off NC. But I think it's perfectly appropriate to remember her on her birthday. Maybe you could write her a letter you don't send? > > So yesterday was grandnada's birthday. This is my nada's nada. Due > to my nada's huge hermit walls, I have no idea what happened to her as > a child to make her the way she is, but I have had enough clues to > know that grandnada & my grandpa weren't very nice to nada. > > Anyway, grandnada was always very good to me. I do love her, even > though she has said some things that have upset me. Example: She would > want to go shopping & out to lunch, insist on buying me something & > then buying me lunch & then tell relatives that I was bleeding her dry > money wise. Thanks. > > So when I went NC with nada, I had to go NC with grandnada too. Well, > I do miss her and wish I could have called or sent her a card for her > b.day. But I know she'd just run to nada & give her my phone number > or address or what city I live in if I sent the card without return > address. > > It's had me thinking a lot about both nada & grandnada. I even had > weird dream about nada last night. Usually nada is nice to me in my > dreams, but I do remember her being much more blatantly cruel, though > I can't recall the dream now. Just the generally feeling I had about > it when I woke up mid-sleep to use the bathroom. > > Anyway, just thought I'd sort of lament here about missing grandnada some. > > Mia > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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