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I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with her

right afterwards.

This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to April

or maybe longer.

This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing since

before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear " from

my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life... tired

of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and ultimately

by fate/life/whatever.

I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

student.

Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

nursing. I'm so scared.

Mia

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Good luck good luck good luck, plenty of good luck headed your way. I

sincerely hope that everything will yet work out (((hugs)))

Let us know how your meeting goes, tomorrow :)

>

>

> I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with

> her

> right afterwards.

>

> This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

> every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

>

> Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

> readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

> meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to April

> or maybe longer.

>

> This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

> medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing since

> before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear " from

> my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

>

> And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

> student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

> get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

>

> I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

> clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

> didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

>

> God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life... tired

> of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and ultimately

> by fate/life/whatever.

>

> I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

> I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> student.

>

> Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> nursing. I'm so scared.

>

> Mia

>

>

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Good luck honey, hugs!

Do something nice for yourself for Valentines day

On Mon, Feb 14, 2011 at 6:07 PM, Holly Byers

wrote:

> Good luck good luck good luck, plenty of good luck headed your way. I

> sincerely hope that everything will yet work out (((hugs)))

>

> Let us know how your meeting goes, tomorrow :)

>

>

>

> >

> >

> > I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> > appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with

> > her

> > right afterwards.

> >

> > This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

> > every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> > I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

> >

> > Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

> > readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

> > meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to

> April

> > or maybe longer.

> >

> > This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

> > medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing

> since

> > before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear "

> from

> > my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

> >

> > And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

> > student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

> > get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

> >

> > I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

> > clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

> > didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

> >

> > God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life...

> tired

> > of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and

> ultimately

> > by fate/life/whatever.

> >

> > I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

> > I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> > also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> > student.

> >

> > Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> > nursing. I'm so scared.

> >

> > Mia

> >

> >

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Adding my best wishes that it all works out tomorrow!

You had medical circumstances that were beyond your control.

Please don't ever say that you weren't meant for this life--((((You were meant

for this life))))) I am hoping for the best for you...

>

> I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with her

> right afterwards.

>

> This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

> every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

>

> Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

> readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

> meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to April

> or maybe longer.

>

> This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

> medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing since

> before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear " from

> my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

>

> And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

> student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

> get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

>

> I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

> clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

> didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

>

> God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life... tired

> of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and ultimately

> by fate/life/whatever.

>

> I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

> I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> student.

>

> Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> nursing. I'm so scared.

>

> Mia

>

>

>

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Mia,

It's going to be okay. Don't allow yourself to catastrophize and panic. You will

be great in your meeting. You will stay calm and contact your student loan

guarantor and discuss your options with them. I know exactly how you're

panicking right now because I do it too. So, just calm down, you've already

determined what your course of action will be, so there is no need to panic. You

will be alright. Do not feel guilty or ashamed or whatever--you had to deal with

things in your life and there is nothing wrong with that. Your life is YOUR path

and journey and it does not have to be as fast or as straight or as whatever as

anyone else's.

I have faith in you that you will impress this head nurse lady tomorrow. Don't

think of it as a roadblock. It's just a thing. It's just a detail.

Lots of warm loving vibes coming your way!

>

> I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with her

> right afterwards.

>

> This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

> every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

>

> Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

> readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

> meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to April

> or maybe longer.

>

> This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

> medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing since

> before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear " from

> my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

>

> And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

> student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

> get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

>

> I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

> clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

> didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

>

> God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life... tired

> of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and ultimately

> by fate/life/whatever.

>

> I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

> I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> student.

>

> Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> nursing. I'm so scared.

>

> Mia

>

>

>

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Thanks all. I'll let you know what happens tomorrow. The head of nursing

knows me and likes me, but if classes are full, classes are full. I think I

will stop in after all my appointments & talk to fin aid. Can't hurt.

Ty again. Still scared to death.

Mia

>

>

> Mia,

>

> It's going to be okay. Don't allow yourself to catastrophize and panic. You

> will be great in your meeting. You will stay calm and contact your student

> loan guarantor and discuss your options with them. I know exactly how you're

> panicking right now because I do it too. So, just calm down, you've already

> determined what your course of action will be, so there is no need to panic.

> You will be alright. Do not feel guilty or ashamed or whatever--you had to

> deal with things in your life and there is nothing wrong with that. Your

> life is YOUR path and journey and it does not have to be as fast or as

> straight or as whatever as anyone else's.

>

> I have faith in you that you will impress this head nurse lady tomorrow.

> Don't think of it as a roadblock. It's just a thing. It's just a detail.

>

> Lots of warm loving vibes coming your way!

>

>

>

>

> >

> > I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> > appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with

> her

> > right afterwards.

> >

> > This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

> > every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> > I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

> >

> > Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

> > readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

> > meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to

> April

> > or maybe longer.

> >

> > This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

> > medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing

> since

> > before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear "

> from

> > my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

> >

> > And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

> > student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

> > get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

> >

> > I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

> > clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

> > didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

> >

> > God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life...

> tired

> > of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and

> ultimately

> > by fate/life/whatever.

> >

> > I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

> > I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> > also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> > student.

> >

> > Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> > nursing. I'm so scared.

> >

> > Mia

> >

> >

> >

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Breathe, Mia.

Yes, deferments are not hard to get.

Medical deferments , especially when you are still going to continue

education are not hard to get.

If they do hold you accountable for pmnts, you can get very reduced

pmnts, and get them stopped altogether when you restart school, so maybe

you have a couple payments come due. And you get them deferred.

Again, breathe kid.

If you can t get in class in March, buy the books and get ahead on your

reading till you are.

Doug

>

> I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

> appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then

with her

> right afterwards.

>

> This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new

students

> every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

> I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

>

> Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that

no

> readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they

didn't

> meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to

April

> or maybe longer.

>

> This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due

to

> medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing

since

> before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear "

from

> my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

>

> And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is

up,

> student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I

can't

> get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

>

> I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm

" all

> clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID

and

> didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

>

> God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life...

tired

> of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and

ultimately

> by fate/life/whatever.

>

> I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program

tomorrow.

> I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

> also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

> student.

>

> Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

> nursing. I'm so scared.

>

> Mia

>

>

>

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Yes you should be able to have your student loans deferred if you explain the

circumstances. If not, maybe you could get some gen eds out of the way or take

a couple classes that interest you, just for fun.

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Sent: Mon, February 14, 2011 7:03:38 PM

Subject: Trying not to freak out

I just got a call from readmission lady at school to remind me of my

appointments tomorrow with the head of the nursing program and then with her

right afterwards.

This is an accelerated program, so they are always enrolling new students

every month (1 class a month program). It's HARD work... trust me. Yet

I've maintained a 4.0 GPA.

Anyway, readmission lady says that she just got an email stating that no

readmissions to be accepted for March. They're full, and if they didn't

meet with head of nursing program before 11th, well, have to wait to April

or maybe longer.

This sucks ass. First of all, I have been sitting out for 4 months due to

medical reasons. Secondly, I had my appointment with head of nursing since

before the 11th and thirdly, I had to wait till I had the " all clear " from

my doctor which I couldn't get until today.

And the kicker... if I don't get back into classes before 6 months is up,

student loans come rolling in & then I am shit out of luck. So if I can't

get in by April... I think I'm seriously screwed.

I don't know if I can apply for deferment on loans now because I'm " all

clear " . I don't know if they can defer them longer since I was STUPID and

didn't apply for deferement while I was waiting to have surgery, etc.

God I am so nervous. I feel like I wasn't meant for this damn life... tired

of road blocks. Tired of dreams getting shit on... by nada, and ultimately

by fate/life/whatever.

I shouldn't get so upset until I talk to the head of my program tomorrow.

I'm going to plead with her if I have to. This was a medical reason...

also, for fear of sounding selfish or stuck up... come on! I'm a 4.0

student.

Ugh. Send some seriously good vibes. My apt. is at 11am with head of

nursing. I'm so scared.

Mia

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Mia, I hope everything went OK! I would freak out about this,too, if it were

me.

However, as several have pointed out, most of the time deferments are easy to

get. (The reason for this is they know they will get more by adding the

deferred amount to the balance of your loan.)

I'm sure it will all work out. Please let us know!

--.

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Thanks & all! It went great, I'm due to start back on March 1st, yay!

Now I have to go do my FASFA. I had a fin. aid apt. today, but since I

still need to do my FASFA and have some scholarship money coming in, they

are having me come back next week to readjust. Felt kind of bad about sort

of wasting his time, but he was super nice.

The readmission woman is also wonderful. I really feel lucky and blessed

right now. I have a whole lot of people from the school in my cheering

section, my dad's family, my fiance & his family & you guys too! Thanks for

ALL the support I get here. My only hope is that I've been able to give

back in return =)

I feel revived, invigorated & motivated. I remember now why I want to be a

nurse: To help people & to try & help improve the human condition. I don't

know that I ever really forgot that, but when you get sucked into your own

black hole of depression & darkness... well, it's good to see the light

again ;-)

Mia

>

>

> Mia, I hope everything went OK! I would freak out about this,too, if it

> were me.

>

> However, as several have pointed out, most of the time deferments are easy

> to get. (The reason for this is they know they will get more by adding the

> deferred amount to the balance of your loan.)

>

> I'm sure it will all work out. Please let us know!

>

> --.

>

>

>

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