Something I remember my father saying.....

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about my nada. They divorced when I was around 11 years old. Anyway, he say

that she had a " black heart. " I really didn't understand it much then, but I

sure do now. My dad didn't deserve what she put him through. Horrible!

Annie

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Oh gosh, yes, Annie! My poor father, too! Divorce involving a BPD is so awful

for everyone. I was 13 and the court drama went one for years. Both my brother

and I are out of the house and grown, my nada had been remarried for years (she

cheated on my father with step-nada which resulted in the divorce and she some

how managaed to make her affair my father's fault, too) and my father has been

remarried for 15 years, too. However, my nada's obsession about my father is

creepy. I do not understand it. She wants as much information about him as

possible and she will use any excuse to call him. I am sure my step-mother

loves it. Somewhere in my nada's mind she has decided that my father has no

right to be angry with her over the things that have happened over the years.

It's insane.

If anyone is dealing with divorce involving a bpd, check out this website:

www.thepsychoexwife.com

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> about my nada. They divorced when I was around 11 years old. Anyway, he say

that she had a " black heart. " I really didn't understand it much then, but I

sure do now. My dad didn't deserve what she put him through. Horrible!

> Annie

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Yep, I remember being awakened in the middle of the night with my nada screaming

at my poor dad! It happened a lot and it was scary! My sis and I would be

crying in our beds. She had no regard for her children. Just kept ranting.

Annie

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> > about my nada. They divorced when I was around 11 years old. Anyway, he

say that she had a " black heart. " I really didn't understand it much then, but

I sure do now. My dad didn't deserve what she put him through. Horrible!

> > Annie

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Ahhh! Karly, Thanks for that link! My fiance's ex is likely uBPD and I am

digging this site. Been browsing it for about an hour now lol. Just wanted

to say thanks =)

Mia

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> Oh gosh, yes, Annie! My poor father, too! Divorce involving a BPD is so

> awful for everyone. I was 13 and the court drama went one for years. Both my

> brother and I are out of the house and grown, my nada had been remarried for

> years (she cheated on my father with step-nada which resulted in the divorce

> and she some how managaed to make her affair my father's fault, too) and my

> father has been remarried for 15 years, too. However, my nada's obsession

> about my father is creepy. I do not understand it. She wants as much

> information about him as possible and she will use any excuse to call him. I

> am sure my step-mother loves it. Somewhere in my nada's mind she has decided

> that my father has no right to be angry with her over the things that have

> happened over the years. It's insane.

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> If anyone is dealing with divorce involving a bpd, check out this website:

> www.thepsychoexwife.com

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> > about my nada. They divorced when I was around 11 years old. Anyway, he

> say that she had a " black heart. " I really didn't understand it much then,

> but I sure do now. My dad didn't deserve what she put him through. Horrible!

> > Annie

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