Guest guest Posted March 2, 2011 Report Share Posted March 2, 2011 I wonder if this has ever happened to you guys. Yesterday my nada did it twice in the space of thirty minutes. I was talking about my couldnt-care-less apartment manager and she said, Joe was just that way, remember how he just wanted to read a book and not help the customers? JOE, was my ex-bf who I dated for three years, that was something about him I shared with her at the time. Joe hasn't been in my life for *twenty* years. Then she does it again. I'm about the same problem and she free associates it again and she says...you know Jeff thought you were overreacting about stuff like that. AGAIN, it wasn't really related, Jeff was my ex-bf who hasn't been in the picture for over ten years, who she only met *once*. Yet she feels like she can just bring them up as if she had relationships with them or was there when the memories happened that she is referring too. It makes me realize that she may have been far more enmeshed or trying to live vicariously through my dating life than I ever realized at the time. Back then I foolishly shared a lot more details about my life and those in it, and she *remembers* all those details now and feels free to bring them up as if they are hers. It creeps me out. Maybe that Grey Gardens movie is till just getting to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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