Guest guest Posted March 12, 2011 Report Share Posted March 12, 2011 So, fiance's likely uBPD ex wife... is pregnant. I occasionally post here about issues we have trying to deal with her, how she neglects the kids, has a filthy house, etc... and now she's spawning again. My poor 11 year old step daughter doesn't need another child to raise (she is " parentified child " as it is because she has to take care of her 4 year old brother). Ugh ugh & ugh. Why oh why do people like this seem to have an uncanny ability & such ease of getting pregnant? And then, good people who desperately want a child and who could provide a child with a loving home simply can't! More Ughs from me! NOW she says she's going to get a job. I guess the father wants nothing to do with her or the baby because he wanted her to abort, but she wants to have it. Fiance is hopeful she'll get her sh** together, but I'm reluctant to think so! I guess the only good of it is that she told him she has quit drinking. I sure as hell hope so, but I'm sure as soon as she's home from hospital she'll be right back on that bottle. Yes, I'm being cynical. I just don't expect this to change a damn thing and I'm also worried about my two future step kiddos, especially step daughter. She should not have to raise her brother, let alone another baby. God help us, god help the kids and god help that poor baby. Oy Vey! >.< Mia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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