Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 This is one of the worst ones I've seen. http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html\ ..csp?page=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 Yikes. One trend I'm seeing is...Why do people claim that being abused gives them a reason to abuse others? So we would be more likely to forgive them? Hell, no, that isn't going to happen. We all have to make a choice--we could choose to continue the cycle of abuse, or we could choose to get help and stop with the effing abuse already. She chose the wrong answer. On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 3:39 PM, Girlscout Cowboy < girlscout.cowboy@...> wrote: > > > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. > http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/<http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76\ /napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1> > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 I'm with you Holly! On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 2:46 PM, Holly Byers wrote: > Yikes. > > One trend I'm seeing is...Why do people claim that being abused gives them > a > reason to abuse others? So we would be more likely to forgive them? > > Hell, no, that isn't going to happen. We all have to make a choice--we > could > choose to continue the cycle of abuse, or we could choose to get help and > stop with the effing abuse already. > > She chose the wrong answer. > > On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 3:39 PM, Girlscout Cowboy < > girlscout.cowboy@...> wrote: > > > > > > > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. > > http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/<http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/ > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1<http://www.sltrib.com/\ sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1> > > > > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 That woman is a POS. I hope she rots in jail. oh dear lord This is one of the worst ones I've seen. http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html\ ..csp?page=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 My therapist told me she once worked with sex offenders and one excuse in therapy they were never allowed to use was that they were abused. Re: oh dear lord Yikes. One trend I'm seeing is...Why do people claim that being abused gives them a eason to abuse others? So we would be more likely to forgive them? Hell, no, that isn't going to happen. We all have to make a choice--we could hoose to continue the cycle of abuse, or we could choose to get help and top with the effing abuse already. She chose the wrong answer. On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 3:39 PM, Girlscout Cowboy < irlscout.cowboy@...> wrote: > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/<http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76\ /napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1> 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 I don't know, according to this woman's comments, she says that she has become the perpetrator of the abuse and that she wants help because she doesn't want to hurt anyone. Not excusing her abusive behavior in any way, or saying that should create leniency, but I can appreciate that she seems to be taking responsibility for her own actions. She didn't say: I was abused so what I did is okay. She was saying, in my opinion: I was abused and therefore I do these bad things and hurt other people, and I don't want to do those things, I know what I did is wrong, I want help to stop doing those things. I didn't see her denying her own responsibility. She even admits that her own release from prison isn't going to change anything. What she did was reprehensible, and she should serve the whole 20 years for it. But I think she is in a lot of pain too, and it would serve us as a society to see that she gets help while in prison so she can become a healthy and safe and productive member of society. And never be allowed to have kids again though. > > > > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. > http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/<http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76\ /napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1> > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 More and more I just see people as damaged packages of pain. When I meet someone new I don't get to know them, I try to figure out what their pain is, how they were damaged, and most important - what do I need to do to protect myself from them. This woman seems like a mega pack of pain. But what she did is sickening. Reminds me of the book A Child Called It. > > > I don't know, according to this woman's comments, she says that she has > become the perpetrator of the abuse and that she wants help because she > doesn't want to hurt anyone. > > Not excusing her abusive behavior in any way, or saying that should create > leniency, but I can appreciate that she seems to be taking responsibility > for her own actions. She didn't say: I was abused so what I did is okay. She > was saying, in my opinion: I was abused and therefore I do these bad things > and hurt other people, and I don't want to do those things, I know what I > did is wrong, I want help to stop doing those things. I didn't see her > denying her own responsibility. She even admits that her own release from > prison isn't going to change anything. > > What she did was reprehensible, and she should serve the whole 20 years for > it. But I think she is in a lot of pain too, and it would serve us as a > society to see that she gets help while in prison so she can become a > healthy and safe and productive member of society. And never be allowed to > have kids again though. > > > > > > > > > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. > > http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/<http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/ > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1<http://www.sltrib.com/\ sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1> > > > > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 15, 2011 Report Share Posted March 15, 2011 girlscout, You nailed it! There's no reason to abuse others, for any reason. Our life is determined by the choices we make. We all make poor choices thru out our life, but we're supposed to learn from them. Treat others the way you would like to be treated. if you are being abused or disrespected, turn you head, walk away. Choices, choices............know when to walk away from abuse. We've all suffered it; no one is perfect............It's smart to learn and know when to walk away. Laurie In a message dated 3/15/2011 5:05:02 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, girlscout.cowboy@... writes: I'm with you Holly! On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 2:46 PM, Holly Byers <_hollymichellebyers@..._ (mailto:hollymichellebyers@...) >wrote: > Yikes. > > One trend I'm seeing is...Why do people claim that being abused gives them > a > reason to abuse others? So we would be more likely to forgive them? > > Hell, no, that isn't going to happen. We all have to make a choice--we > could > choose to continue the cycle of abuse, or we could choose to get help and > stop with the effing abuse already. > > She chose the wrong answer. > > On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 3:39 PM, Girlscout Cowboy < > _girlscout.cowboy@..._ (mailto:girlscout.cowboy@...) > wrote: > > > > > > > This is one of the worst ones I've seen. > > _http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/_ (http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/) <_http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/_ (http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/) > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1<_http://www.sltrib.com\ /sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page= 1_ (http://www.sltrib.com/sltrib/home/51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.htm\ l.csp?page=1) > > > > > 51436679-76/napolitano-taylor-child-abuse.html.csp?page=1 > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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