nada sent a letter - Advice?

[Guest guest]

Whoops--this tagged onto another post. I meant to start a new thread!

I've been NC for more than two years now. I have VERY limited email contact with

fada. (He never had more than two words for me my whole life and now he's

emailing once a week, desperate for a reply. But that's another story.)

I opened it without thinking. I haven't read it, and am pretty sure I don't want

to. Thanks to those blessed years of NC, I don't think I'll trigger like I used

to. On the other hand, I don't need the drama.

I'm tempted to return it with " I didn't read this. No need to send these in the

future. Thanks. "

Any advice?

Now that it's on my kitchen table, I feel like I've kinda lost my ability to

think about it clearly.

Thanks,

Karla

p.s. I did something really cool last Saturday in my new career. She probably

mailed it that day. How the HECK do they always know????

[Guest guest]

Yes they know. I like your response, but I'm of the group that any response

is reinforcing to them. But I really like it.

On Tue, Mar 15, 2011 at 5:50 PM, kyjohnson40days

wrote:

>

>

> Whoops--this tagged onto another post. I meant to start a new thread!

>

> I've been NC for more than two years now. I have VERY limited email contact

> with fada. (He never had more than two words for me my whole life and now

> he's emailing once a week, desperate for a reply. But that's another story.)

>

> I opened it without thinking. I haven't read it, and am pretty sure I don't

> want to. Thanks to those blessed years of NC, I don't think I'll trigger

> like I used to. On the other hand, I don't need the drama.

>

> I'm tempted to return it with " I didn't read this. No need to send these in

> the future. Thanks. "

>

> Any advice?

>

> Now that it's on my kitchen table, I feel like I've kinda lost my ability

> to think about it clearly.

>

> Thanks,

> Karla

>

> p.s. I did something really cool last Saturday in my new career. She

> probably

> mailed it that day. How the HECK do they always know????

>

>

>