Guest guest Posted March 18, 2011 Report Share Posted March 18, 2011 Thank you for the kind words of encouragement. Health issues are dfinitely a game my nada plays. It has become predictable now : if there is a big family event,like a wedding ,a family Christmas party etc.. you can bet she will have some physical complaint or complain so much about the location of the event or the weather or the time or whatever to turn the attention to herself.( she almost ruined both my daughters weddings).She calls me about 15 times a day and insists on knowing my schedule for every minute of the day.If I don't tell her, she has a fit and calls my daughters or my friends to find out what I am doing and why did I try to hide it from her! ( I am a grandmother!!!).It seems the more people do for her, the more she rages against them.People who try to stay away or be neutral,she tries to charm and people fall for it.They tell me how lovely and nice my nada is .It's hard for me not to tell them the truth.She lives in a lovely assisted living place. I have tried to suggest she gets involved in some of the activities (so she stops bugging me) she hates everything and everybody,has no friends,hates the people,hates the food,hates the climate.Don't bpd's see that they are their own worst ennemy? I guess it is time to stop hoping that something will click in her mind and that she could enjoy the little time she has left if only her attitude could change.How I wish there was a pill for this disease! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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