Mother in hospital - falow up

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Hello guys!

You might want to know how my nada " trip " to mental hospital ended.

For those who didn't follow..short summary.

My waif Nada went from bad to worst last November ( psychically and mentally) ,

tried to manipulate me into taking care for her (under her conditions of

course), was calling thousands times every day...

I had enough, set some boundaries - one call every Saturday ( she didn't respect

that . I said to her she should start with therapy ( for her psychical condition

and for other problems like diabetes) she did do but there where no effects

because she lied to me ant to therapist and doctor)

She tried to manipulate everybody to get me where she wanted me to be....and

when she found out it didn't work she tried to make (fake) suicide.She called me

that she took a lot of pils, I told her that it is her life, she can do

whatever she wanted to do with it, I'm not professional to handel with this and

called an ambulance to go to her place. She agreed to go to hospital ( she was

in very bad condition at that time) She than manipulated all the hospital even

professional stuff (nurses called me at evening to bring something she didn't

really need..ect) , I reported them and it stopped. She manipulated her

psyshiatrist ( he doesn't have a clue about borderline) I reported him to his

boss and told him I won't cooperate, because they don't treat her borderline

disorder professional and that they can deal with her manipulation by themselves

that I would not play by her rules not even if they want me too. After that they

pay special attention to her. She asked me to sell her house and put her in a

nursery home that she is not capable of living by herself anymore, I told her

ok, but we should made this legal , that she has to go to layer with me and put

her wishes on paper legally..... and of course she didn't because it was just

her way to bring me into the game and closer to her.

It took some time and a lot of battles before she finally realized that she had

no escape anymore that she can not make me do anything I don't want to and that

she is the only person who is in charge for herself. She than start with

recovery (at least she finnaliy take the medicine for depression, diabeits

regular) and before a month she was realised from hospital. She is almost

normal and in much better condition. She doesn't fake anymore how bad is with

her ( worst than it really is) , she doesn't call me anymore, she accepted one

call a week, she still is strange , veird lady...but it is manable to be with

her ( at least once in a while)

The battle was tough and ugly...but it was worth. It sure is better for them and

for us if we don't play their games anymore and stop the craziness and

manipulatin

yenaine