Several generations

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Well here it is! I am hooked for 24 hrs. to a heart monitor because of

palpitations which I know are caused by stress caused by you know who!!

Reading about other nadas also affecting their grandchildren reminded me of my

recent experience: My daughter was expecting her second child (the baby is now 4

months old)

and throughout the pregnancy my nada would tell her what a terrible idea it was

to have another child, " children are such a bother,they destroy your life! " ( I

am her only child! it makes me feel really good!) What a wonderful encouragement

to my daughter who was so excited and joyous about expecting her second child.

Both my daughters have been strong enough to cut down their contacts with nada

to a strict minimum.They know she is poison. They will not allow her to affect

their children in the same way.I know that as she did with my daughters, she

will try to exercise her negative influence on them,up to the point wher they

are old enough to resist,which sends her into one of her rages.They will not

allow her to perpetuate this pattern, neither will I.

[Guest guest]

That is so weird! My mom had something similar (I forget what it was called)

and finally the doctor figured out it was stress. (no doubt 'cause of my

fada).

I bet that in general that dealing with a BPD is hard on our hearts.

I'm so glad you raised such strong daughters

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> Well here it is! I am hooked for 24 hrs. to a heart monitor because of

> palpitations which I know are caused by stress caused by you know who!!

> Reading about other nadas also affecting their grandchildren reminded me of

> my recent experience: My daughter was expecting her second child (the baby

> is now 4 months old)

> and throughout the pregnancy my nada would tell her what a terrible idea it

> was to have another child, " children are such a bother,they destroy your

> life! " ( I am her only child! it makes me feel really good!) What a

> wonderful encouragement to my daughter who was so excited and joyous about

> expecting her second child.

> Both my daughters have been strong enough to cut down their contacts with

> nada to a strict minimum.They know she is poison. They will not allow her to

> affect their children in the same way.I know that as she did with my

> daughters, she will try to exercise her negative influence on them,up to the

> point wher they are old enough to resist,which sends her into one of her

> rages.They will not allow her to perpetuate this pattern, neither will I.

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