Guest guest Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? Just had to share.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 Wow, I think that gets the " most intrusive, most entitled " award of the week. Well, at least your therapist now has first-hand knowledge of just exactly how intrusive, demanding, and entitled your nada behaves, and how she treats you. It seems to me that to your nada you are not an adult who is equal to her. You do not have equal rights with her, you do not have feelings, you do not need to be treated with respect: instead you are an object she owns, her possession, and you are " stealing " yourself from her. She wants her possession back. Maybe now that your therapist has had first hand experience with your nada the bulldozer, your therapist can be even more helpful to you. If not, then, maybe find a therapist who is experienced and successful with treating the adult survivors of child abuse, or those who have PTSD. -Annie > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > Just had to share.... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 GAME ON! Again, the beauty of this board... YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Nada has called my therapist, tried to get her license pulled, tried to get her fired when the therapist refused to talk to her, etc. etc. All of which she shared with me on my Birthday a 2 years ago during my son' football game in front of a group of parent friends. Oh yeah! Your Nada has upped the ante here ~ be prepared for more! However... and is is a HUGE bonus... your therapist can see Nada clearly for what she is ... if there was EVER a tiny sliver of doubt in her mind.... it's GONE! That means all the energy and help goes on you 150%!!!! Congrats on have a Nada that ABSOLUTELY crazy! It helps a lot to get through it all when there is NO doubt anywhere in your mind or those assisting you! Lynnette > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > Just had to share.... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 Oh Annie, I had to laugh..., I post my response before I read yours. Pretty funny. Peace. Lynnette > > > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > > > Just had to share.... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2011 Report Share Posted June 3, 2011 Oh my goodness - you are DEFINITELY not alone! My nada used to call my therapists and pump them for information. When I was hospitalized for an eating disorder and depression, she'd call my psychiatrist, therapist AND the nursing staff and pump them for info and harangue them. One time she called the pay phone in the unit (the one for the patients) and this really depressed, quiet, sweet young man answered, and she started asking him very pointed questions about me, and he was really taken aback and upset, and he was speechless, and she started screaming and cursing at him, and he got so freaked out he burst out crying, ran for a nurse and handed the phone to her. And he was really upset for a while afterwards. They banned my mother from calling the staff. They couldn't ban her from calling the pay phone but during a meeting between patients and staff they brought up the subject of my mother's phone calls and talked to the patients about how to deal with them. It was around that time I stopped all phone contact with my mother On Fri, Jun 3, 2011 at 1:19 PM, yp_lynnette_cameron_park < h_l_maston@...> wrote: > > > GAME ON! > > Again, the beauty of this board... YOU ARE NOT ALONE! > > Nada has called my therapist, tried to get her license pulled, tried to get > her fired when the therapist refused to talk to her, etc. etc. All of which > she shared with me on my Birthday a 2 years ago during my son' football game > in front of a group of parent friends. > > Oh yeah! Your Nada has upped the ante here ~ be prepared for more! > > However... and is is a HUGE bonus... your therapist can see Nada clearly > for what she is ... if there was EVER a tiny sliver of doubt in her mind.... > it's GONE! That means all the energy and help goes on you 150%!!!! > > Congrats on have a Nada that ABSOLUTELY crazy! It helps a lot to get > through it all when there is NO doubt anywhere in your mind or those > assisting you! > > Lynnette > > > > > > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work > phone. I needed that. > > > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada > had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her > medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive > than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some > empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > > > Just had to share.... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2011 Report Share Posted June 4, 2011 Holy crap, how did she get that information?? Did your t tell her to bugger off? I am so sorry; how awful. Your mother is stalking you. > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > Just had to share.... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2011 Report Share Posted June 4, 2011 I agree, calling 's therapist is shading over into stalking behaviors. I hope you can get some relief from this, , I know how frustrating and stressful and even scary it can be to be relentlessly badgered by someone you don't want any contact with. -Annie > > > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > > > Just had to share.... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2011 Report Share Posted June 4, 2011 Thank you for all the support. I really appreciate how helpful it is that I can come here when I'm feeling overwhelmed and alone. ________________________________ To: WTOAdultChildren1 Sent: Saturday, June 4, 2011 12:44 PM Subject: Re: Nada called my therapist!  I agree, calling 's therapist is shading over into stalking behaviors. I hope you can get some relief from this, , I know how frustrating and stressful and even scary it can be to be relentlessly badgered by someone you don't want any contact with. -Annie > > > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > > > Just had to share.... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 4, 2011 Report Share Posted June 4, 2011 Wow. Seriously? That's crazy! I've been worried about my mom trying to contact my therapist, since her full name appears on my statements and my mom likes to look at my bank account online. And knowing my mom, once she has a name she can do a scary amount of digging to get info; she's well practiced in searching through the internet and public records. =/ Like the others have said, at least now your therapist has gotten a first hand look at what your nada is like! Hopefully she'll be able to help you even better. -Kate > > Thank you to everyone for the support regarding her calls to my work phone. I needed that. > > Yesterday, instead of nada calling me at work, my therapist called. Nada had called her office, to tell her that I was not contacting her about her medical problems!! I'm sorry, but does it get any more frickin' intrusive than that?!?! Of course my therapist was very nice about it, offering some empathy over the phone... but wow, REALLY nada??? > > Just had to share.... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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