Switching Directions Constantly

[Guest guest]

Whoa- a comment in another post lit this one up for me- Is this a bpd thing?

My boss does this constantly. When I call her on it, because I can't figure out

what the f--k I'm supposed to actually DO - she will either say she's " just

brainstorming " and accuse me of " stopping the flow of good ideas " or she flips

out and gaslights- i.e. tries to convince me I just am not capable of

understanding.

(for a while she almost had me convinced that there was something wrong with my

perceptions/thinking) arg!

Thoughts, anyone?

[Guest guest]

Oh yeah, she's pulling a number on you. If you doubt it at all, ask yourself how

you feel after those meetings. I'm guessing " diminished " is your answer.

She's trying to keep you in your 'place' by discrediting you and dismissing your

input. What a BITCH.

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> Whoa- a comment in another post lit this one up for me- Is this a bpd thing?

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> My boss does this constantly. When I call her on it, because I can't figure

out what the f--k I'm supposed to actually DO - she will either say she's " just

brainstorming " and accuse me of " stopping the flow of good ideas " or she flips

out and gaslights- i.e. tries to convince me I just am not capable of

understanding.

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> (for a while she almost had me convinced that there was something wrong with

my perceptions/thinking) arg!

>

> Thoughts, anyone?

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