Can I please NOT attract any more PD people in my life?

[Guest guest]

What a DRAMA filled weekend.

We had to terminate a professional relationship with someone on Thursday with

which we had no contracts or anything. I had a half-way personal relationship

with them, mainly on an email/text level and friend referral.

This person immediately attacked us. I would have never guessed PD from them,

but the reason I terminated the relationship was because they made me so uneasy

and uncomfortable.

Obviously, I was sensing their PD and the need to flee on a subconscious level.

Our family was attacked by this person, who went from panic/abandonment, to

paranoid ideations, and then harrassing emails, phone calls all day yesterday

saying we owed insane amounts of money for services they never provided.

After I started having contractions being stressed about it all (I'm only 4

months pregnant) my husband told them to stop contacting me, deal with him, and

per their statement on the phone had told us we owed no more money and they

could not bill us for services previously written as " no charge " and services

not provided.

This person, who I thought was also a friend, then wrote and said she never

wanted any member of our family to contact them again or to ever see us again.

WOW. Just floored. The entire DAY was filled with this harassment and drama and

I was upset about it all day. It was only today when I was able to get my mind

on something else and decompress that I realized the glaring BPD/PD traits.

I am just SO SO SO grateful to God for giving me the direction to flee from this

person, even though I couldn't' put my finger on it. I knew something was amiss

and ran.

I will recover from the blow yesterday but would have never recovered had I let

them stay in our lives.

WILL I ALWAYS attract looney toons in my life?? Can I lose the magnet?

[Guest guest]

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> WILL I ALWAYS attract looney toons in my life?? Can I lose the magnet?

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I hear ya, sister. I hear ya. Sometimes all we can do is figure it out after

the fact and back out as quickly as we can. I hope you and baby are okay.

Eliza

[Guest guest]

Soo sorry sounds awful. Pick up the book " safe people " when you can, it

helps

On Sat, Oct 8, 2011 at 7:06 PM, eliza92@... <

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> I hear ya, sister. I hear ya. Sometimes all we can do is figure it out

> after the fact and back out as quickly as we can. I hope you and baby are

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[Guest guest]

That is awesome that you listened to your instinct / your subconscious, and

decided to cut ties with someone who sure enough did try to cause you big

problems due to their pd-like behaviors. My own feelings is that each encounter

helps us trust our own instincts /intuition /subconscious /gut feelings more and

more; the world is filled with Cluster B individuals, more than the official

estimates state (seems to me, anyway) so its in our best interest to just be

observant and cautious about allowing ourselves to trust just anyone. Good for

you, and I'm sure your instincts are better honed now and will serve you well RE

the next pd individual you encounter.

-Annie

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> What a DRAMA filled weekend.

>

> We had to terminate a professional relationship with someone on Thursday with

which we had no contracts or anything. I had a half-way personal relationship

with them, mainly on an email/text level and friend referral.

>

> This person immediately attacked us. I would have never guessed PD from them,

but the reason I terminated the relationship was because they made me so uneasy

and uncomfortable.

>

> Obviously, I was sensing their PD and the need to flee on a subconscious

level.

>

> Our family was attacked by this person, who went from panic/abandonment, to

paranoid ideations, and then harrassing emails, phone calls all day yesterday

saying we owed insane amounts of money for services they never provided.

>

> After I started having contractions being stressed about it all (I'm only 4

months pregnant) my husband told them to stop contacting me, deal with him, and

per their statement on the phone had told us we owed no more money and they

could not bill us for services previously written as " no charge " and services

not provided.

>

> This person, who I thought was also a friend, then wrote and said she never

wanted any member of our family to contact them again or to ever see us again.

>

>

> WOW. Just floored. The entire DAY was filled with this harassment and drama

and I was upset about it all day. It was only today when I was able to get my

mind on something else and decompress that I realized the glaring BPD/PD traits.

>

> I am just SO SO SO grateful to God for giving me the direction to flee from

this person, even though I couldn't' put my finger on it. I knew something was

amiss and ran.

>

> I will recover from the blow yesterday but would have never recovered had I

let them stay in our lives.

>

> WILL I ALWAYS attract looney toons in my life?? Can I lose the magnet?

>

[Guest guest]

Ugh seriously! I know how you feel! And good for you for listening, and for

running the other way. It could've been much uglier if this person had gotten

even more involved in your life.

Take care, and best wishes with your pregnancy!

Fiona

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> What a DRAMA filled weekend.

>

> We had to terminate a professional relationship with someone on Thursday with

which we had no contracts or anything. I had a half-way personal relationship

with them, mainly on an email/text level and friend referral.

>

> This person immediately attacked us. I would have never guessed PD from them,

but the reason I terminated the relationship was because they made me so uneasy

and uncomfortable.

>

> Obviously, I was sensing their PD and the need to flee on a subconscious

level.

>

> Our family was attacked by this person, who went from panic/abandonment, to

paranoid ideations, and then harrassing emails, phone calls all day yesterday

saying we owed insane amounts of money for services they never provided.

>

> After I started having contractions being stressed about it all (I'm only 4

months pregnant) my husband told them to stop contacting me, deal with him, and

per their statement on the phone had told us we owed no more money and they

could not bill us for services previously written as " no charge " and services

not provided.

>

> This person, who I thought was also a friend, then wrote and said she never

wanted any member of our family to contact them again or to ever see us again.

>

>

> WOW. Just floored. The entire DAY was filled with this harassment and drama

and I was upset about it all day. It was only today when I was able to get my

mind on something else and decompress that I realized the glaring BPD/PD traits.

>

> I am just SO SO SO grateful to God for giving me the direction to flee from

this person, even though I couldn't' put my finger on it. I knew something was

amiss and ran.

>

> I will recover from the blow yesterday but would have never recovered had I

let them stay in our lives.

>

> WILL I ALWAYS attract looney toons in my life?? Can I lose the magnet?

>