Guest guest Posted October 17, 2010 Report Share Posted October 17, 2010 Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2010 Report Share Posted October 17, 2010 That's s understandable, Akiba. I applaud you for trying to keep things on an even keel for Robbin. And, it helps you to keep your stress level down. hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: mserslife Sent: Sun, October 17, 2010 10:22:08 AMSubject: comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2010 Report Share Posted October 17, 2010 I don't forgive him, I don't trust him, and I haven't forgotten any of the nasty, evil things he has done to Robbin or to me, but he IS Robbin's dad, and like Judge Judy says...you chose to have a baby with that man... I feel sorry for the latest victim, this one and I never talked, so she will be totally blindsided when he leaves her. At least all the others and I were friends, in a strange way, and talked, so they KNEW what he did and what he was, this one is, as Rob himself put it, very naieve... ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2010 Report Share Posted October 17, 2010 I'm sure the others never believed he would do it to them. But at least they had some warning, huh?hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Sun, October 17, 2010 11:40:13 AMSubject: Re: comment I don't forgive him, I don't trust him, and I haven't forgotten any of the nasty, evil things he has done to Robbin or to me, but he IS Robbin's dad, and like Judge Judy says...you chose to have a baby with that man... I feel sorry for the latest victim, this one and I never talked, so she will be totally blindsided when he leaves her. At least all the others and I were friends, in a strange way, and talked, so they KNEW what he did and what he was, this one is, as Rob himself put it, very naieve... ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 17, 2010 Report Share Posted October 17, 2010 No, of course they didn't believe...they were in denial until the moment they saw him packing and driving away. As I was the first time. And as I no longer will ever be...I know his m.o. now, I sensed he was preparing to leave when he started with the "I miss...um...people down there"'s...sure sign that he's ready to bolt... ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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