Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Kate, Good for you. You got over a huge hurdle and hopefully it will go smoothly or relatively smooth from now on. You are in my prayers. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rothschildkate@...Sent: Wed, 27 Oct 2010 08:45:27 -0700 (PDT)To: mserslife Subject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Send any screenshot to your friends in seconds... Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Try IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com for FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 smoke and prayers going up for you , your situation, and your kids God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 10:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Good for you Hun, I know you were dreading that, I am glad you got it over with and he didn't hit the roof. Now just take it one step at a time. I'd approach the kids individually, one at a time, and ask them what they would think about mommy and daddy separating, then "gentle" them into it. Start with the oldest, so you have the feedback to help you with the youngest. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Kate, I am wishing you all the very best here.......... i know just how very hard it is........ Things will be strained, but you willlll get over it, in time......... HUGS Jen told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 9.0.864 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3222 - Release Date: 10/27/10 02:34:00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Kate, I've been wondering if you told him or not. How did you feel when he asked what he could do? I'm sorry both of you are going through this but I'm glad you are taking steps toward a happier life for you.love you! SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 8:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 HUGS!! im proud of you sweetie. one step at a time.i beleive in you. you guys are in my prayers SHALONDA "Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything" Subject: Re: told himTo: MSersLife Date: Wednesday, October 27, 2010, 11:54 AM smoke and prayers going up for you , your situation, and your kids God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 10:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you so much, nne. I so do needthe prayers.bless you,love, KateTo: mserslife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 11:47:53 AMSubject: RE: told him Kate, Good for you. You got over a huge hurdle and hopefully it will go smoothly or relatively smooth from now on. You are in my prayers. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com -----Original Message-----From: rothschildkate@...Sent: Wed, 27 Oct 2010 08:45:27 -0700 (PDT)To: mserslife Subject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Send any screenshot to your friends in seconds... Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Try IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com for FREE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Anne,That means SO much to me; I covet your prayers.love, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 11:54:05 AMSubject: Re: told him smoke and prayers going up for you , your situation, and your kids God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 10:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you, Akiba. I appreciate you and your words.I do need to take baby steps. Your thought about dealingwith the kids sounds like it may be a good idea. Will run itby my therapist.love, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 12:38:06 PMSubject: Re: told him Good for you Hun, I know you were dreading that, I am glad you got it over with and he didn't hit the roof. Now just take it one step at a time. I'd approach the kids individually, one at a time, and ask them what they would think about mommy and daddy separating, then "gentle" them into it. Start with the oldest, so you have the feedback to help you with the youngest. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you, Jen. Thank you for your well wishes, itmeans the world to me,hugs, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 12:55:51 PMSubject: Re: told him Kate, I am wishing you all the very best here.......... i know just how very hard it is........ Things will be strained, but you willlll get over it, in time......... HUGS Jen told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 9.0.864 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3222 - Release Date: 10/27/10 02:34:00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thanks, Sharon. I felt...I guess sorry for him when he asked that, but at the same time, I need to remain solid and firm. I DO think, hope, and pray that it will be a happier life for not just me, but the children as well. They've been pretty miserable also.love to you my friend,KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 2:15:25 PMSubject: Re: told him Kate, I've been wondering if you told him or not. How did you feel when he asked what he could do? I'm sorry both of you are going through this but I'm glad you are taking steps toward a happier life for you.love you! SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 8:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2010 Report Share Posted October 27, 2010 Thank you for saying you are proud of me, Shalonda.That means so much to me. And yes, just tiny steps;one foot after the other. Thanks for believing in me.And, thanks for the prayers,love, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 2:39:41 PMSubject: Re: told him HUGS!! im proud of you sweetie. one step at a time.i beleive in you. you guys are in my prayers SHALONDA "Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything" Subject: Re: told himTo: MSersLife Date: Wednesday, October 27, 2010, 11:54 AM smoke and prayers going up for you , your situation, and your kids God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, October 27, 2010 10:45:27 AMSubject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2010 Report Share Posted October 30, 2010 Hi, Kate: I've been trying to reply to your post for a couple days but Hotmail wasn't displaying the REPLY button for some reason. Sorry to learn that things didn't work out for Lloyd and you. But, I'm certain you've made the right decision. And, I hope things go well for you and the children.Dan U dao_nguu@... To: MSersLife From: rothschildkate@...Date: Wed, 27 Oct 2010 08:45:27 -0700Subject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 30, 2010 Report Share Posted October 30, 2010 Thanks, Dan,This means a lot to me. I need all the support I can get.He's digging his heels in and telling me he won't sign anypapers...so I have to ask my lawyer about that.I hope the kids are not too devastated. But as it is, kidshave no respect for him and don't want to be around him.Thanks.KateTo: mserslife Sent: Sat, October 30, 2010 11:48:36 AMSubject: RE: told him Hi, Kate: I've been trying to reply to your post for a couple days but Hotmail wasn't displaying the REPLY button for some reason. Sorry to learn that things didn't work out for Lloyd and you. But, I'm certain you've made the right decision. And, I hope things go well for you and the children.Dan U dao_nguu@... To: MSersLife From: rothschildkate@...Date: Wed, 27 Oct 2010 08:45:27 -0700Subject: told him Hi all...well, yesterday I told Lloyd that I would be filing for divorce. It doens't feel real at all to me that I finally took the plunge. He kept saying--I don't want to divorce. I told him I've been miserable for a long time; he asked what he could do. I told him it was the point of no return. He didn't hit the roof as I though he would. It is very strained now of course. Not sure when I'll tell the kids...just wanted to share this with you all...love, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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