Shalonda and spacey......(was) Re: Kate..divorce

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I hadn't noticed you were spacey, Shalonda, until Kate mentioned it. I get spacey too. I used to think it was only from my meds but I've been off those meds for over a year now. I finally realized I am just spacey from MS. What makes you spacey?How's your brother doing? I remember he came to visit you. Isn't he stationed in England or am I remembering wrong?hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered

flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010 10:31:59 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce

I keep praying this is what God wants me to do. I don't think God wants me to be miserable, or the kids to be unhappy as well. I'll try and have faith.Spacey from what?Thanks for all the hugs sweetie, I need them!Hugs back to you,KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010

9:10:09 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce

you're welcome. I havee never been through it myself,but i've been on the sideline w/ a few friends. Just have faith--god wont take u to something,he cant bring you through....or something like that im spacey today! Remember why you're doing it,its gonna be o.k sweetie. HUGS....HUGS....HUGS.....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

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It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate