Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

[Guest guest]

I don't really know specifics,but stress makes it verrryyy noticable. itsalot on my plate,the great new place i found is a huge issue,he acting all weird abouting renting it out. so staying put is seeming like a huge reality and im bummed. I dont know whats going on-some days Ms is not a issue,others its the only force in my world. I dont wanna go back on crab drugs or novantrone so im trying to work something out but geezz its hard somedays. I swear all while i was on my own in MD i didnt feel disabled/ handicap but living back here i feel it everyday. Everybodiesfave line is"if u need anything just call"BULLCRAP!! i've been asking for a mth to go reg at the ymca,check my reg to vote,take dog to vet--couldnt vote today,missed deadline for y and princess is a mess...ok had to vent....

Yes kevin is in england he's eploying in few wks, for 4mths. but visit went great,he just had 29th bday,he's the best bro. ever!! Sorry....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Do you drive, Shalonda? I used to drive but since my car wreck in '02 I'm not allowed behind the wheel. I was all spacey that day and that caused the wreck because I wasn't thinking clear. Anyway, not driving has been a huge thing for me. I want to go places and can't. I have to wait until someone can take me and they are all busy with work and stuff. I get so sad because I can't get away from this house.Now about voting! It won't help you for this election but get on permanent early voting or whatever it's called in your state. I get my ballot in the mail several weeks before the election and can fill it out when I feel like it then just mail it back. It has helped immensely. Sending you big understanding hugs! SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010 7:48:47 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

I don't really know specifics,but stress makes it verrryyy noticable. itsalot on my plate,the great new place i found is a huge issue,he acting all weird abouting renting it out. so staying put is seeming like a huge reality and im bummed. I dont know whats going on-some days Ms is not a issue,others its the only force in my world. I dont wanna go back on crab drugs or novantrone so im trying to work something out but geezz its hard somedays. I swear all while i was on my own in MD i didnt feel disabled/ handicap but living back here i feel it everyday. Everybodiesfave line is"if u need anything just call"BULLCRAP!! i've been asking for a mth to go reg at the ymca,check my reg to vote,take dog to vet--couldnt vote today,missed deadline for y and princess is a mess...ok had to vent....

Yes kevin is in england he's eploying in few wks, for 4mths. but visit went great,he just had 29th bday,he's the best bro. ever!! Sorry....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

i'll def get on the early voting thing. Since my accidet in '04 not anymore either. It just irritates me to no end. I'm the one everyone calls for everything but its always a rreason i get screwed. I just got lead on lady that pick me up for gas money,ill look into that. Thanks for the hugs and understanding sweetie. I got mad so i made grilled pork chops,sweet potato casserole,green beans corn muffins and brownies....mmmmm!!! G'nite.....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Wow, Shalonda; that's quite a spread!And you didn'tinvite us!What was your accident in 04?If you don't mind measking?hugs to you,KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010 11:49:18 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and

spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

i'll def get on the early voting thing. Since my accidet in '04 not anymore either. It just irritates me to no end. I'm the one everyone calls for everything but its always a rreason i get screwed. I just got lead on lady that pick me up for gas money,ill look into that. Thanks for the hugs and understanding sweetie. I got mad so i made grilled pork chops,sweet potato casserole,green beans corn muffins and brownies....mmmmm!!! G'nite.....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

LOL,it felt great. I went to culinary school but i stopped baking/cake decorating when MimSy got crazy. I had car accident that triggered my symptoms that when i started using cane now my rollie(walker). Being in kitchen relaxes me,no matter what changes ms throws at me it cant take my degree,my knowlede,my love of the kitchen. I just had to adapt now im the princess of shortcuts & 30 min. meals!! hahaha

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Wow, your meal sounds wonderful! You made that meal because you were mad?!? I want to be at your house the next time you get mad! lol How do you make your sweet potato casserole?hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010 8:49:18 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

i'll def get on the early voting thing. Since my accidet in '04 not anymore either. It just irritates me to no end. I'm the one everyone calls for everything but its always a rreason i get screwed. I just got lead on lady that pick me up for gas money,ill look into that. Thanks for the hugs and understanding sweetie. I got mad so i made grilled pork chops,sweet potato casserole,green beans corn muffins and brownies....mmmmm!!! G'nite.....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Its crazy i know but it really relaxes me....I cheated last nite i used a can. iT WAS SW. POT. CASS. BY GLORY I JUST ADDED SYRUP BUTTER and sugar then i topped it w/ crushed honey bunches of oat bunches cereal. Normally i roast sw. ppots,skin then mash w/ syrup,butter,br. sugar,cinn,egg bake it then top w/ nuts and cinn.

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

I meant to ask about Shalonda's accident too but got sidelined by the food! SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, November 3, 2010 4:35:46 AMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

Wow, Shalonda; that's quite a spread!And you didn'tinvite us!What was your accident in 04?If you don't mind measking?hugs to you,KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Tue, November 2, 2010 11:49:18 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and

spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

i'll def get on the early voting thing. Since my accidet in '04 not anymore either. It just irritates me to no end. I'm the one everyone calls for everything but its always a rreason i get screwed. I just got lead on lady that pick me up for gas money,ill look into that. Thanks for the hugs and understanding sweetie. I got mad so i made grilled pork chops,sweet potato casserole,green beans corn muffins and brownies....mmmmm!!! G'nite.....

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Yeah, Londa, sis, you can come here and get mad!

~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

-- Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

thanks girl,I was hott!! The more i kept thinking bout it i would just add something to the menu....its cheaper than therapy!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate.divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

HAHAHA i was in car accident,it woke up the MimSy and its been up ever since. A dumb guy was on way to Kenny Chesny concert--he came out of hidden drive in his bigboy p/up truck and threw my little escort hatchback across road into a tree. I was 2min from my apt!! Boo on him

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Wow, owwie! I am glad you are ok, you coulda been murgatroided!!! Killdeded even!!! And for Kenny Chesney? Say it ain't so, sis!

~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

-- Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Shalonda when the did the accident happen? I must be missing emails. Prayers that you get better.

Hugs

nne

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Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

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[Guest guest]

Hey marianne, it was in '04 thanks anyways,i need well wishes always!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

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[Guest guest]

Thats all the dummy talked about,that i was making him late!! It was funny in retrospect? cus they were trying to get me out car and i kept threatening to kick his a*%^!! the paramedic couldnt quit laughing sis.......

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

YOU were making HIM late??? Who hit WHO? I think HE made himself late! *sheesh*! Idjit!

~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

-- Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

What injuries did you receive? SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, November 3, 2010 11:05:09 AMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

HAHAHA i was in car accident,it woke up the MimSy and its been up ever since. A dumb guy was on way to Kenny Chesny concert--he came out of hidden drive in his bigboy p/up truck and threw my little escort hatchback across road into a tree. I was 2min from my apt!! Boo on him

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

I was sore as crap a few days,initially i had glass in my eyes/ears but thats all. My biggiw was it caused the calm MS to go bananas...I used to function as before diagnosis. Right after accident i used wheelchair,that wasnt a part of my plan so i refused it after few days. Which is why im nuts--from all the falls! lol... my balance is too wonky for the quad cane so we settled on the rollie!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

Wow, Shalonda, I'm so impressed!Where did you go to culinary school?I am so sorry about your car accident.I guess I didn't know you needed a walker.Keep cooking and baking! You're like ourMS Ray! Delish...love, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, November 3, 2010 8:35:08

AMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

LOL,it felt great. I went to culinary school but i stopped baking/cake decorating when MimSy got crazy. I had car accident that triggered my symptoms that when i started using cane now my rollie(walker). Being in kitchen relaxes me,no matter what changes ms throws at me it cant take my degree,my knowlede,my love of the kitchen. I just had to adapt now im the princess of shortcuts & 30 min. meals!! hahaha

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

I'm glad your injuries weren't worse, especially since you had to deal with the MS afterwards. When I had my big rollover wreck in '02 the doctors were surprised it didn't cause a huge big MS flare. Odd, huh? In the wreck I broke my neck, had my scalp torn off (they stapled it back on), head injury, cuts/gashes galore... but no big MS flare up.big hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or

defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, November 3, 2010 5:12:05 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

I was sore as crap a few days,initially i had glass in my eyes/ears but thats all. My biggiw was it caused the calm MS to go bananas...I used to function as before diagnosis. Right after accident i used wheelchair,that wasnt a part of my plan so i refused it after few days. Which is why im nuts--from all the falls! lol... my balance is too wonky for the quad cane so we settled on the rollie!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

With as seriously as you were injured.. how would anybody have been

able to tell if you went into a flare?

You'd be zonked from the pain meds.. so fatigue wouldn't show.. You

already had all sorts of new pain.. so that wouldn't show.. Any new

numbness could be contributed to the broken neck or the other cuts

and gashes even the head injury.. So that wouldn't show either..

I am just so tremendously happy that you came through it all.. and

are still here to look after us all..

But the stress of yesterday and today.. or me allowing myself to be

stressed out because the Karmic Wheel hasn't hit her in the head

yet.. won't hit me for a couple of days.. then I'll pay for it..for

sure..

HUGS

|)onna

I'm glad your injuries weren't worse,

especially since you had to deal with the MS afterwards. 

When I had my big rollover wreck in '02 the doctors were

surprised it didn't cause a huge big MS flare.  Odd, huh?  In

the wreck I broke my neck, had my scalp torn off (they stapled

it back on), head injury, cuts/gashes galore... but no big MS

flare up.

big hugs

 

Sharon

This email is a natural hand made product.

The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its

individual character and beauty and in no way are to be

considered flaws or defects.

 

 

From:

shalonda frederick

To:

MSersLife

Sent: Wed,

November 3, 2010 5:12:05 PM

Subject:

Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re:

Kate..divorce

I was sore as

crap a few days,initially i had glass in my

eyes/ears but thats all. My biggiw was it caused the

calm MS to go bananas...I used to function as before

diagnosis. Right after accident i used

wheelchair,that wasnt a part of my plan so i refused

it after few days. Which is why im nuts--from all

the falls!  lol... my balance is too wonky for the

quad cane so we settled on the rollie!!

SHALONDA 

"Me

+ God's grace & forgiveness can

overcome any & everything"

From: Kate

Rothschild

Subject: Re:

Kate..divorce

To:

MSersLife

Date: Monday,

November 1,

2010, 6:00 PM

 

Wow, Jen,

can't believe

you wrote

about this

just

today...as

it is today

that I

contacted the

lawyer, first

by email. Then

he

called me. On

my cell phone,

as it is

private...We're

going to

get the ball

rolling---he

is going to

file in court

and get what

he

called an

index #. From

there, he has

120 days to

serve him

papers. I am

really worried

about that. I

hope we can

arrange

to have him

served when

the kids are

at school, and

he is home

from work;

which is hard

to coordinate,

as he works 5

to 7 days

 a week. My

anxiety level

is through the

roof! I'm just

freaking out

about how he

is going to

respond...

He bought me a

dozen red

roses

yesterday, and

wanted to give

me

a neck massage

which I turned

down a number

of times, as

he didn't

want to take

no for an

answer. I

think he's

starting to

realize I mean

business this

time...

I need to

start sleeping

on the couch

though to

really give

him the

message. He

had offered

to, but crept

back into bed

saying the

couch was too

uncomfortable

for him. Poor

him.

I'm trying to

take one

minute at a

time, and one

hour at a

time. I take

this all very

seriously. I

don't

completely

think he does.

Thanks for

listening to

me vent!

love, Kate

From:

Jen Hunter

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Mon, November

1, 2010

9:57:23 AM

Subject:

Re:

Kate..divorce

 



Kate,

 

I

know how hard

it is to

believe this

right now, but

you will get

through this

and so will

your

husband....

It

takes time and

effort, but it

is worth it in

the long run

if it makes

you

happier....

 

Jen H

 

-----

Original

Message -----

From:

Kate

Rothschild

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Saturday,

October 16,

2010 5:05 PM

Subject:

Re:

stuff

It's

good for me,

Jen,

to hear

stories of

folks such as

yourself, that

has survived a

divorce. I

just don't

know how

I am going to

get through

it. I think

I'll handle

it better than

my husband

will. I think

he will

dissolve into

tears and then

rant and rave

as well.

Thanks for

sharing your

story,

hugs,

Kate

 

[Guest guest]

Wow sharon------thats massive!! U are a walking testament to God and the can-do,will-do mentality!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

I went to Pennsylvania Culinary Institute. HAHAHA Im trying I love Cooking,Im queen of invent-a-meal dinners girl!!

HUGS>>>>>>>>

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

[Guest guest]

I had never thought of it like that. I guess it would have been hard to know if I was in a flare:) I was on Avonex at that time and the hospital had to give me my shots while I was there. hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, November 4, 2010 9:51:52 AMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

With as seriously as you were injured.. how would anybody have been

able to tell if you went into a flare?

You'd be zonked from the pain meds.. so fatigue wouldn't show.. You

already had all sorts of new pain.. so that wouldn't show.. Any new

numbness could be contributed to the broken neck or the other cuts

and gashes even the head injury.. So that wouldn't show either..

I am just so tremendously happy that you came through it all.. and

are still here to look after us all..

But the stress of yesterday and today.. or me allowing myself to be

stressed out because the Karmic Wheel hasn't hit her in the head

yet.. won't hit me for a couple of days.. then I'll pay for it..for

sure..

HUGS

|)onna

I'm glad your injuries weren't worse,

especially since you had to deal with the MS afterwards.

When I had my big rollover wreck in '02 the doctors were

surprised it didn't cause a huge big MS flare. Odd, huh? In

the wreck I broke my neck, had my scalp torn off (they stapled

it back on), head injury, cuts/gashes galore... but no big MS

flare up.

big hugs

Sharon

This email is a natural hand made product.

The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its

individual character and beauty and in no way are to be

considered flaws or defects.

From:

shalonda frederick

To:

MSersLife

Sent: Wed,

November 3, 2010 5:12:05 PM

Subject:

Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re:

Kate..divorce

I was sore as

crap a few days,initially i had glass in my

eyes/ears but thats all. My biggiw was it caused the

calm MS to go bananas...I used to function as before

diagnosis. Right after accident i used

wheelchair,that wasnt a part of my plan so i refused

it after few days. Which is why im nuts--from all

the falls! lol... my balance is too wonky for the

quad cane so we settled on the rollie!!

SHALONDA

"Me

+ God's grace & forgiveness can

overcome any & everything"

From: Kate

Rothschild

Subject: Re:

Kate..divorce

To:

MSersLife

Date: Monday,

November 1,

2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen,

can't believe

you wrote

about this

just

today...as

it is today

that I

contacted the

lawyer, first

by email. Then

he

called me. On

my cell phone,

as it is

private...We're

going to

get the ball

rolling---he

is going to

file in court

and get what

he

called an

index #. From

there, he has

120 days to

serve him

papers. I am

really worried

about that. I

hope we can

arrange

to have him

served when

the kids are

at school, and

he is home

from work;

which is hard

to coordinate,

as he works 5

to 7 days

a week. My

anxiety level

is through the

roof! I'm just

freaking out

about how he

is going to

respond...

He bought me a

dozen red

roses

yesterday, and

wanted to give

me

a neck massage

which I turned

down a number

of times, as

he didn't

want to take

no for an

answer. I

think he's

starting to

realize I mean

business this

time...

I need to

start sleeping

on the couch

though to

really give

him the

message. He

had offered

to, but crept

back into bed

saying the

couch was too

uncomfortable

for him. Poor

him.

I'm trying to

take one

minute at a

time, and one

hour at a

time. I take

this all very

seriously. I

don't

completely

think he does.

Thanks for

listening to

me vent!

love, Kate

From:

Jen Hunter

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Mon, November

1, 2010

9:57:23 AM

Subject:

Re:

Kate..divorce



Kate,

I

know how hard

it is to

believe this

right now, but

you will get

through this

and so will

your

husband....

It

takes time and

effort, but it

is worth it in

the long run

if it makes

you

happier....

Jen H

-----

Original

Message -----

From:

Kate

Rothschild

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Saturday,

October 16,

2010 5:05 PM

Subject:

Re:

stuff

It's

good for me,

Jen,

to hear

stories of

folks such as

yourself, that

has survived a

divorce. I

just don't

know how

I am going to

get through

it. I think

I'll handle

it better than

my husband

will. I think

he will

dissolve into

tears and then

rant and rave

as well.

Thanks for

sharing your

story,

hugs,

Kate

[Guest guest]

I know:) I thank God every single day for my life. SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, November 4, 2010 1:38:16 PMSubject: Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

Wow sharon------thats massive!! U are a walking testament to God and the can-do,will-do mentality!!

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

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It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate