Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re: Kate..divorce

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It could

very well be that the Avonex prevented a flare during that time

as well..

I was right about the stress hitting me a day or so after the

fact.. I got up yesterday, miserable, and aching, so I just laid

back down and went back to sleep.. Got up once to let the

puppies out to pee, though they hadn't even asked to go out all

day.. Felt like I was coming down with the flu.. I'm going to

try and "push" past the craving to lay back down to sleep again

today though..

Hope today finds you well..

HUGS

|)onna

I had never thought of it like that. I guess

it would have been hard to know if I was in a flare:) I was on

Avonex at that time and the hospital had to give me my shots

while I was there.

hugs

Sharon

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From:

|)onna

To:

MSersLife

Sent: Thu,

November 4, 2010 9:51:52 AM

Subject:

Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re:

Kate..divorce

With as seriously as you were injured.. how would anybody

have been able to tell if you went into a flare?

You'd be zonked from the pain meds.. so fatigue wouldn't

show.. You already had all sorts of new pain.. so that

wouldn't show.. Any new numbness could be contributed to the

broken neck or the other cuts and gashes even the head

injury.. So that wouldn't show either..

I am just so tremendously happy that you came through it

all.. and are still here to look after us all..

But the stress of yesterday and today.. or me allowing

myself to be stressed out because the Karmic Wheel hasn't

hit her in the head yet.. won't hit me for a couple of

days.. then I'll pay for it..for sure..

HUGS

|)onna

I'm glad your

injuries weren't worse, especially since you had to deal

with the MS afterwards.

When I had my big rollover wreck in '02 the doctors were

surprised it didn't cause a huge big MS flare. Odd,

huh? In the wreck I broke my neck, had my scalp torn

off (they stapled it back on), head injury, cuts/gashes

galore... but no big MS flare up.

big hugs

Sharon

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From:

shalonda frederick

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Wed, November 3, 2010 5:12:05 PM

Subject:

Re: Shalonda and spacey..SHARON....(was) Re:

Kate..divorce

I was

sore as crap a few days,initially i had

glass in my eyes/ears but thats all. My

biggiw was it caused the calm MS to go

bananas...I used to function as before

diagnosis. Right after accident i used

wheelchair,that wasnt a part of my plan so i

refused it after few days. Which is why im

nuts--from all the falls! lol... my balance

is too wonky for the quad cane so we settled

on the rollie!!

SHALONDA

"Me

+ God's grace & forgiveness

can overcome any & everything"

From: Kate

Rothschild

Subject: Re:

Kate..divorce

To: MSersLife

Date: Monday,

November 1,

2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen,

can't believe

you wrote

about this

just

today...as

it is today

that I

contacted the

lawyer, first

by email. Then

he

called me. On

my cell phone,

as it is

private...We're

going to

get the ball

rolling---he

is going to

file in court

and get what

he

called an

index #. From

there, he has

120 days to

serve him

papers. I am

really worried

about that. I

hope we can

arrange

to have him

served when

the kids are

at school, and

he is home

from work;

which is hard

to coordinate,

as he works 5

to 7 days

a week. My

anxiety level

is through the

roof! I'm just

freaking out

about how he

is going to

respond...

He bought me a

dozen red

roses

yesterday, and

wanted to give

me

a neck massage

which I turned

down a number

of times, as

he didn't

want to take

no for an

answer. I

think he's

starting to

realize I mean

business this

time...

I need to

start sleeping

on the couch

though to

really give

him the

message. He

had offered

to, but crept

back into bed

saying the

couch was too

uncomfortable

for him. Poor

him.

I'm trying to

take one

minute at a

time, and one

hour at a

time. I take

this all very

seriously. I

don't

completely

think he does.

Thanks for

listening to

me vent!

love, Kate

From:

Jen Hunter

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Mon, November

1, 2010

9:57:23 AM

Subject:

Re:

Kate..divorce



Kate,

I

know how hard

it is to

believe this

right now, but

you will get

through this

and so will

your

husband....

It

takes time and

effort, but it

is worth it in

the long run

if it makes

you

happier....

Jen

H

-----

Original

Message -----

From:

Kate

Rothschild

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Saturday,

October 16,

2010 5:05 PM

Subject:

Re:

stuff

It's

good for me,

Jen,

to hear

stories of

folks such as

yourself, that

has survived a

divorce. I

just don't

know how

I am going to

get through

it. I think

I'll handle

it better than

my husband

will. I think

he will

dissolve into

tears and then

rant and rave

as well.

Thanks for

sharing your

story,

hugs,

Kate

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LOL

Shalonda

You're Queen of invent-a-meal.. I'm Queen of..

"Can-we-order-out-please?"...

HUGS

|)onna

I went to Pennsylvania Culinary Institute. HAHAHA Im

trying I love Cooking,Im queen of invent-a-meal dinners

girl!!

HUGS>>>>>>>>

SHALONDA

"Me

+ God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any

& everything"

From: Kate

Rothschild

Subject: Re:

Kate..divorce

To:

MSersLife

Date: Monday,

November 1,

2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen,

can't believe

you wrote

about this

just

today...as

it is today

that I

contacted the

lawyer, first

by email. Then

he

called me. On

my cell phone,

as it is

private...We're

going to

get the ball

rolling---he

is going to

file in court

and get what

he

called an

index #. From

there, he has

120 days to

serve him

papers. I am

really worried

about that. I

hope we can

arrange

to have him

served when

the kids are

at school, and

he is home

from work;

which is hard

to coordinate,

as he works 5

to 7 days

a week. My

anxiety level

is through the

roof! I'm just

freaking out

about how he

is going to

respond...

He bought me a

dozen red

roses

yesterday, and

wanted to give

me

a neck massage

which I turned

down a number

of times, as

he didn't

want to take

no for an

answer. I

think he's

starting to

realize I mean

business this

time...

I need to

start sleeping

on the couch

though to

really give

him the

message. He

had offered

to, but crept

back into bed

saying the

couch was too

uncomfortable

for him. Poor

him.

I'm trying to

take one

minute at a

time, and one

hour at a

time. I take

this all very

seriously. I

don't

completely

think he does.

Thanks for

listening to

me vent!

love, Kate

From:

Jen Hunter

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Mon, November

1, 2010

9:57:23 AM

Subject:

Re:

Kate..divorce



Kate,

I

know how hard

it is to

believe this

right now, but

you will get

through this

and so will

your

husband....

It

takes time and

effort, but it

is worth it in

the long run

if it makes

you

happier....

Jen

H

-----

Original

Message -----

From:

Kate Rothschild

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Saturday,

October 16,

2010 5:05 PM

Subject:

Re:

stuff

It's

good for me,

Jen,

to hear

stories of

folks such as

yourself, that

has survived a

divorce. I

just don't

know how

I am going to

get through

it. I think

I'll handle

it better than

my husband

will. I think

he will

dissolve into

tears and then

rant and rave

as well.

Thanks for

sharing your

story,

hugs,

Kate

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hahaha ok donna!! I swear its therapy. The george fornan grill isw my best bud~besides you guys!! Tonite i'd doing lil round steak? i marinated in italian dreessing,baked potatos,some kinda frozen vegs,strawberry daquiris!! mmm.....my best friend stopping over to hang!!! I even made princess some rice

IM ON A ROLL SWEETIE.....LOL

SHALONDA

"Me + God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any & everything"

Subject: Re: Kate..divorceTo: MSersLife Date: Monday, November 1, 2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen, can't believe you wrote about this just today...asit is today that I contacted the lawyer, first by email. Then hecalled me. On my cell phone, as it is private...We're going toget the ball rolling---he is going to file in court and get what hecalled an index #. From there, he has 120 days to serve himpapers. I am really worried about that. I hope we can arrangeto have him served when the kids are at school, and he is homefrom work; which is hard to coordinate, as he works 5 to 7 days a week. My anxiety level is through the roof! I'm just freaking outabout how he is going to respond...He bought me a dozen red roses yesterday, and wanted to give mea neck massage which I turned down a number of times, as he didn't want to take no for an answer. I think he's starting to realize I meanbusiness this time...I need to start sleeping on the couch though to really give him the message. He

had offered to, but crept back into bed saying the couch was too uncomfortable for him. Poor him.I'm trying to take one minute at a time, and one hour at a time. I take this all very seriously. I don't completely think he does.Thanks for listening to me vent!love, Kate

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 1, 2010 9:57:23 AMSubject: Re: Kate..divorce



Kate,

I know how hard it is to believe this right now, but you will get through this and so will your husband....

It takes time and effort, but it is worth it in the long run if it makes you happier....

Jen H

Re: stuff

It's good for me, Jen,to hear stories of folks such as yourself, thathas survived a divorce. I just don't know howI am going to get through it. I think I'll handleit better than my husband will. I think he willdissolve into tears and then rant and rave as well.Thanks for sharing your story,hugs,Kate

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Shalonda,

I would sooooooo love to be doing the cooking around here, even

though I'm not too fond of it, I CAN cook.. learned from the

best.. my mom.. the X & youngest NEVER looked starved.. I'd

so love to be able to play the housewife thing for .. ya

know.. have dinner ready when he gets home.. (but it's partially

his fault for spoiling me, and not allowing or expecting me to

cook for him that made me lazy).. But now.. it's a matter of how

safely can I access the stove without either burning myself.. or

the house.. If the insurance company would have authorized the

lift.. I'd be able to do the cooking..

We have a Foreman.. actually two.. one big.. one small (the bank

was giving those out with new accounts when I was working, so

all of the people in the office got one).. does dogs or

burgers on the little one.. fish, burgers, dogs and more on the

big one when he has to feed more than just he & I...

Oh.. and I'd love to have a Daquiri.. or a ooooohhhhh... the

thing made with Tequila..and salt lining the rim of the glass..

Margarita.. that's it.. but alas and alack.. the most I'm

allowed is a glass of wine every great once in a awhile ('s

afraid of the med/booze mix.. even the wine.. and I have to NOT

take any of my meds if the Christmas Party is at the Spanish

restaurant where they make their own Sangria and I expect to

have a glass or two)..

Another thing I had to give up.. though I wasn't much of a

drinker to start with.. I do enjoy a glass of Reunite Red on ice

every once in a while.. (not a big fan of expensive wines)...

HUGS

|)onna

hahaha ok donna!! I swear its therapy.

The george fornan grill isw my best bud~besides you

guys!! Tonite i'd doing lil round steak? i marinated

in italian dreessing,baked potatos,some kinda frozen

vegs,strawberry daquiris!! mmm.....my best friend

stopping over to hang!!! I even made princess some

rice

IM ON A ROLL SWEETIE.....LOL

SHALONDA

"Me

+ God's grace & forgiveness can overcome any

& everything"

From: Kate

Rothschild

Subject: Re:

Kate..divorce

To: MSersLife

Date: Monday,

November 1,

2010, 6:00 PM

Wow, Jen,

can't believe

you wrote

about this

just

today...as

it is today

that I

contacted the

lawyer, first

by email. Then

he

called me. On

my cell phone,

as it is

private...We're

going to

get the ball

rolling---he

is going to

file in court

and get what

he

called an

index #. From

there, he has

120 days to

serve him

papers. I am

really worried

about that. I

hope we can

arrange

to have him

served when

the kids are

at school, and

he is home

from work;

which is hard

to coordinate,

as he works 5

to 7 days

a week. My

anxiety level

is through the

roof! I'm just

freaking out

about how he

is going to

respond...

He bought me a

dozen red

roses

yesterday, and

wanted to give

me

a neck massage

which I turned

down a number

of times, as

he didn't

want to take

no for an

answer. I

think he's

starting to

realize I mean

business this

time...

I need to

start sleeping

on the couch

though to

really give

him the

message. He

had offered

to, but crept

back into bed

saying the

couch was too

uncomfortable

for him. Poor

him.

I'm trying to

take one

minute at a

time, and one

hour at a

time. I take

this all very

seriously. I

don't

completely

think he does.

Thanks for

listening to

me vent!

love, Kate

From:

Jen Hunter

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Mon, November

1, 2010

9:57:23 AM

Subject:

Re:

Kate..divorce



Kate,

I

know how hard

it is to

believe this

right now, but

you will get

through this

and so will

your

husband....

It

takes time and

effort, but it

is worth it in

the long run

if it makes

you

happier....

Jen

H

-----

Original

Message -----

From:

Kate Rothschild

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Saturday,

October 16,

2010 5:05 PM

Subject:

Re:

stuff

It's

good for me,

Jen,

to hear

stories of

folks such as

yourself, that

has survived a

divorce. I

just don't

know how

I am going to

get through

it. I think

I'll handle

it better than

my husband

will. I think

he will

dissolve into

tears and then

rant and rave

as well.

Thanks for

sharing your

story,

hugs,

Kate

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