Guest guest Posted November 4, 2010 Report Share Posted November 4, 2010 Akiba, Oh yes, I totally get this, I do.......This has been in my thoughts recently too. My ideas on life and quality and love and hate etc have changed in the past couple of months. I absolutely and totally HATE my ex husband, and my children do as well (which had nothing at all to do with me, it is something they have discovered on their own) but you are so right, you never know what a month, a year, down the road might bring.......I feel lucky at least that I was diagnosed when my boys are 15 and 16. They would stay with their step father, most definately. They are all very close.......But there may come a time when Robbin needs his father. You are a smart woman......I commend you! Jen H comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 9.0.862 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3202 - Release Date: 10/17/10 02:33:00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 4, 2010 Report Share Posted November 4, 2010 Thanks. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- Re: comment...Akiba Akiba, Oh yes, I totally get this, I do.......This has been in my thoughts recently too. My ideas on life and quality and love and hate etc have changed in the past couple of months. I absolutely and totally HATE my ex husband, and my children do as well (which had nothing at all to do with me, it is something they have discovered on their own) but you are so right, you never know what a month, a year, down the road might bring.......I feel lucky at least that I was diagnosed when my boys are 15 and 16. They would stay with their step father, most definately. They are all very close.......But there may come a time when Robbin needs his father. You are a smart woman......I commend you! Jen H comment Some of you might be wondering why I am determined to play nice with the cad. There is a good reason for that. It boils down to two letters...M and S. And one name. Robbin. We all know how unpredictable it can be, and while mine has been behaving itself, it can, without warning, go in the opposite direction. So, I play "nice" with Rob because if anything happens to ME, Robbin won't have anyone else, and I don't want him being raised by someone he hates. NOT that I am expecting anything to happen, but like I said, with MS you can never tell, there are no insurance policies that cover the unexpected, if you know what I mean. I know Robbin "has" Rita, Rob's sister, but even though she is doing well right now, she has CF and just had a double lung transplant and her hubby ALSO has MS, so who knows how long they would be able to care for him? So there really is only Rob to take over if I am incapacitated. That is why I don't want Robbin to hate his dad. Yes, I am fine now, and have no reason to think that I will not continue to be fine for a long long time and no reason to think I will not go on to live a good, long, relatively healthy life. But things happen, and I just want to know that Robbin will be taken care of if something does. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 9.0.862 / Virus Database: 271.1.1/3202 - Release Date: 10/17/10 02:33:00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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