Re: So livid I could spit nails!

[Guest guest]

Crap...gotta love family, huh? If you feel like getting even, contact local papers about this. Then, your state lottery commission as this falls under lottery fraud...let the government take care of her.

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I am about to go on a rant.. so

bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to

vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet

another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I

knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a

boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing

well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album..

sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put

up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and

posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one

picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the

pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a

Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in

his " prison " orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying

$500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone..

they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip

ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his

winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant

$1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could

put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a

great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I

did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his

biological father (who was in his life the whole way through,

even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging

funds to help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called

to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for

awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred..

BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad

and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few

hundred myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that

the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there

was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her

daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since

they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her

last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the

account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it..

(Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small

bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them

suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have

been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand

due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to

save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred

of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her

creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how

stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to

start making any payments to me until after the first of the

year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on

headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO

now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything..

getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much

daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those

commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we

needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe

buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a

pizza delivered every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or

sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave

brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also

working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to

how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza

shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic

Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of

this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion

" Prom " .. and had read about the several different Halloween

parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off

the most was the gown she wore to this dress up " Prom " .. which

wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his " bling " and fancy 3 piece

suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her

facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she

misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your

nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another

" don't give a shit pill " and space out for awhile..

[Guest guest]

How crappy, Donna. I don't know what else to say. I can't believe this! Do you think the police would do anything to make her come up with the money? You should at least call them. What does your brother say about all of this? Lousy, lousy, lousy. AND criminal as well!big hugs to you sweetie SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or

defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, November 4, 2010 8:48:29 AMSubject: So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a rant.. so

bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to

vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet

another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I

knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a

boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing

well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album..

sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put

up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and

posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one

picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the

pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a

Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in

his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying

$500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone..

they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip

ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his

winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant

$1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could

put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a

great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I

did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his

biological father (who was in his life the whole way through,

even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging

funds to help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called

to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for

awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred..

BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad

and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few

hundred myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that

the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there

was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her

daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since

they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her

last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the

account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it..

(Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small

bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them

suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have

been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand

due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to

save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred

of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her

creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how

stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to

start making any payments to me until after the first of the

year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on

headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO

now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything..

getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much

daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those

commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we

needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe

buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a

pizza delivered every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or

sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave

brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also

working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to

how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza

shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic

Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of

this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion

"Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween

parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off

the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which

wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece

suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her

facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she

misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your

nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another

"don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

[Guest guest]

It does fall under lottery fraud.. but the two boys that put their

heads together to come up with the idea of the strip tickets would

most likely get into trouble as well.. and they don't deserve that

in the least.. their intentions were good.. and they figured that

his Uncle would be a safe place to leave the money they raised..

I haven't told those guys yet, what brother and she did.. course I'm

not even sure my brother knows that she kept the money.. cause I

haven't talked to him.. I never get to talk to him when I call..

he's never home.. (supposedly)..

Almost posted once a thief always a thief as my status on facebook

though.. LOL.. fact is I do also believe (paranoid as it sounds)

that she's trying to make me look bad by posting this "You'll always

be remembered Bud" and crap on her facebook.. because I didn't post

anything on his birthday.. but facebook isn't the place to wail out

my feelings with the way I was feeling on his birthday..

Wish I were mobile.. cause I'd be cutting some tires tonight..

that's for certain.. If I could only run..

HUGS

|)onna

Crap...gotta love family, huh? If you feel like getting even,

contact local papers about this. Then, your state lottery

commission as this falls under lottery fraud...let the government

take care of her.

www.laurabeaudin.com --NOT just another

blog!

http://practical-homeschooling.org

On Thu, Nov 4, 2010 at 9:48 AM, |)onna

wrote:

 

I am about to

go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's

okay to bypass.. I just need to vent

somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter

(who is yet another cousin) who had a

C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they

would post the outcome.. already knew the baby

was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's

healthy and mom is doing well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws

photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what

was in the album she just put up.. The Bitch

(and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and

posted them on her facebook.. I know this

because the one picture I edited and cut out

everybody else that was in the pictures,

because he was standing like he was posing for

a Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a

picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie

by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him...

okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket

type deal.. paying $500 to the winner..

leaving $500 to go toward his headstone.. they

wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner

of the strip ticket was also a friend of

Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to

the coffers for his headstone.. which meant

$1,000.00 more that I could put toward his

headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance

that I could put toward his headstone.. that

extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and

also allowed me to design the stone that I

did.. it's not a regular stone by any means..

as well as his biological father (who was in

his life the whole way through, even though we

never married).. and his step-dad pledging

funds to help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my

sister-in-law called to tell me it was there..

I asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until

I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to

over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35

hundred, and figured that between his dad and

step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to

add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the

stone..

When the time came for me to collect the

thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed

to be holding onto, I suspected there was

going to be trouble.. She said that she had

put it in her daughter's savings account for

safe keeping.. and that since they finally

decided to get married (brother and she).. her

last name wasn't the same as it was when she

opened the account.. so she might have a bit

of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very

very small community with a local small bank..

everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case

of them suspecting her identity).. The money

did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone,

should have been December of last year.. I had

saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still

thinking that I had given her plenty of time

to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I

would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she

claimed that her creditors froze the assets..

(in her daughter's account? how stupid does

she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able

to start making any payments to me until after

the first of the year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's

commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11

hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm

struggling with everything.. past due on

everything.. getting daily phone calls from

places I owe money (pretty much daily.. cause

the payments are late).. because those

commissions, though sometimes not much.. were

the extra we needed to pay the bills on time..

and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of

shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a

pizza delivered every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny

from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't

have a house payment.. dad gave brother the

pizza business before mom died.. brother is

also working outside the pizza shop as well --

we won't go in to how laziness destroyed my

parents business -- and the pizza shop is

actually in a HUGE building that used to be a

Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the

back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a

American Legion "Prom".. and had read about

the several different Halloween parties

they've attended.. but the thing that pissed

me off the most was the gown she wore to this

dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my

brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece

suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and

puts them on her facebook as if they were her

own.. claiming how much she misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've

stolen your nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go

take another "don't give a shit pill" and

space out for awhile..

[Guest guest]

I doubt that the police would do anything, and especially not in

Fayette County.. They were the same guys, who when called and told

that my 1st X had been at my place, with a gun, that he held to my

forehead, violating his PFA.. would NOT come out or go out and pick

him up.. cause he wasn't there right that minute..

Haven't talked to my brother at all since this started.. he never

seems to be home when I call.. and never calls back either.. I did

tell my dad, who lives next door.. and of course he doesn't want to

hear anything bad about his "golden" child.. so that doesn't help

either..

I'm thinking.. studying.. planning.. considering all my options..

none of which I've come up with, that will prevent Bud's two best

friends (they were like brothers, and usually inseparable) from

being hurt by it all.. I don't want to see the boys hurt (listen to

me.. boys.. these are men in their 30's and I still consider them

boys)..

Of course I still can't believe she actually has a set of balls the

size that she does that she friended me on facebook!.. LOL...

Oh.. and I actually have two facebooks.. just haven't decided which

one to keep and which one to get rid of..

HUGS

|)onna

How crappy, Donna. I don't know what else to

say. I can't believe this! Do you think the police would do

anything to make her come up with the money? You should at

least call them. What does your brother say about all of this?

Lousy, lousy, lousy. AND criminal as well!

big hugs to you sweetie

Sharon

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|)onna

To:

MSersLife

Sent: Thu,

November 4, 2010 8:48:29 AM

Subject:

So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a

rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass..

I just need to vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is

yet another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday

afternoon. I knew they would post the outcome..

already knew the baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine

there.. he's healthy and mom is doing well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo

album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the

album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole

MY pictures of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I

know this because the one picture I edited and cut out

everybody else that was in the pictures, because he

was standing like he was posing for a Catalog shot..

and of course the other was a picture of him in his

"prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type

deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go

toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that, I

didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was also a

friend of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to

the coffers for his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00

more that I could put toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I

could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was

going to be a great help, and also allowed me to

design the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone

by any means.. as well as his biological father (who

was in his life the whole way through, even though we

never married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to

help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my

sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I asked

her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was ready to

pay for the stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45

hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured

that between his dad and step-dad it would be enough..

even if I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for

the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand

dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding

onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble.. She

said that she had put it in her daughter's savings

account for safe keeping.. and that since they finally

decided to get married (brother and she).. her last

name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the

account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting

it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a

local small bank.. everybody knows everybody so it

wasn't a case of them suspecting her identity).. The

money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should

have been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of

the 2 grand due, but still thinking that I had given

her plenty of time to save up the thousand that she'd

spent, I would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed

that her creditors froze the assets.. (in her

daughter's account? how stupid does she think I

am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making any

payments to me until after the first of the year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's

commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred

balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling with

everything.. past due on everything.. getting daily

phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much

daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those

commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the

extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and

possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when

needed.. underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered

every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from

brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house

payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business before

mom died.. brother is also working outside the pizza

shop as well -- we won't go in to how laziness

destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza shop is

actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic

Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the

upstairs of this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American

Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several

different Halloween parties they've attended.. but the

thing that pissed me off the most was the gown she

wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap..

and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece suit..

that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts

them on her facebook as if they were her own..

claiming how much she misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen

your nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take

another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for

awhile..

[Guest guest]

Oh wow...................I don't even know WHAT to say here............My heart is breaking for you guys over this.....the NERVE. No, I do not know HOW she can possibly live with herself. And stealing the photos from Facebook??? UNspeakable!!!!!

I hope you are able to calm yourself down and I hope you can get this money owed to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If I could, I'd be spitting nails for you too. This is terrible.......EVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!

HUGS

Jen H

So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing well..My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone.. I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his biological father (who was in his life the whole way through, even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for the stone as well..When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the stone.. When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due.. Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making any payments to me until after the first of the year.. Haven't seen a penny....In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything.. getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every now and then.. All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building... THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she misses him..How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your nephew's headstone money????Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

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[Guest guest]

Thanks Jen

It does help to know that I'm not the only one who would be livid

about this.. one of the photos is one that I posted on facebook...

the other one.. may have come from his memorial website.. who

knows.. maybe I even sent them to her shortly after he died.. but

they are still "MY" photos..

What I have to do now.. is find some part of Bud, in me.. cause he'd

have said.. "Let it go Mom.. Let it go".. Just not sure how he did

that kind of thing.. Must have been something he inherited from his

dad.. LOL

HUGS

|)onna

Oh wow...................I don't

even know WHAT to say here............My heart is breaking for

you guys over this.....the NERVE. No, I do not know HOW she

can possibly live with herself. And stealing the photos from

Facebook??? UNspeakable!!!!!

I hope you are able to calm

yourself down and I hope you can get this money owed to

you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If I could, I'd be spitting nails

for you too. This is terrible.......EVIL!!!!!!!!!!!!

HUGS

Jen H

So livid

I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a rant..

so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just

need to vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet

another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I

knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby

was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom

is doing well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo

album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album

she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures

of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I know this

because the one picture I edited and cut out everybody

else that was in the pictures, because he was standing

like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the

other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie

by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal..

paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his

headstone.. they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The

winner of the strip ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and

contributed his winnings back to the coffers for his

headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put

toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I

could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was

going to be a great help, and also allowed me to design

the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone by any

means.. as well as his biological father (who was in his

life the whole way through, even though we never

married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for

the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law

called to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto

it for awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone...

HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45

hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that

between his dad and step-dad it would be enough.. even if

I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars

that the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I

suspected there was going to be trouble.. She said that

she had put it in her daughter's savings account for safe

keeping.. and that since they finally decided to get

married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't the same

as it was when she opened the account.. so she might have

a bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very

small community with a local small bank.. everybody knows

everybody so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her

identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have

been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2

grand due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty

of time to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would

have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that

her creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's

account? how stupid does she think I am?)... and she

wouldn't be able to start making any payments to me until

after the first of the year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions

on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left..

SOOOO now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on

everything.. getting daily phone calls from places I owe

money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments are late)..

because those commissions, though sometimes not much..

were the extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and

possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed..

underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every now and

then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother

or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad

gave brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother

is also working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't

go in to how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and

the pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to

be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4

of the upstairs of this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion

"Prom".. and had read about the several different

Halloween parties they've attended.. but the thing that

pissed me off the most was the gown she wore to this dress

up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his

"bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't come from

Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on

her facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much

she misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your

nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another

"don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

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Hi Donna,...I'm sorry you are having to deal with this, and over a very sensitive issue. I hadn't heard about your son Bud's passing, but I feel deeply sad for you. As far as your SIL, I have one too that for different reasons seems to think she can say and do stuff to me and thinks it doesn't effect me. If I was to say anything about it she would tell me I was just being too sensitive. Its gotten to the point where I don't even want to be around her, and that causes problems between my hubby and me. [its his sister] I just don't understand why families do these things to each other? I guess thats why there are so many support groups because its where we find people who understand and have our back.

If theres any way I can help, let me know, and I'll keep you in my prayers too.

Hugs and Love, Jackie

May the peace of God be with you...the love of Jesus enfold you...and the Spirit of Christ fill you.

Subject: So livid I could spit nails!To: MSersLife Date: Thursday, November 4, 2010, 8:48 AM

I am about to go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing well..My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...BUT..

two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone.. I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his biological father (who was in his life the whole way through, even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for the stone as well..When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the stone.. When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of

the 2 grand due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due.. Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making any payments to me until after the first of the year.. Haven't seen a penny....In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything.. getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every

now and then.. All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building... THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she misses

him..How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your nephew's headstone money????Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

[Guest guest]

Wow, Donna, I'm speechless (I know, I know, since when is Akiba EVER speechless?) Well this managed. Like the song says (paraphrased) Beelzebub has a special place put aside for HER.

I pray she has an epiphany and comes to her senses and delivers the money WITH INTEREST. The photos? Hypocrisy at it's finest, my dear. It WILL catch up to her.

~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

-- So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing well..My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone.. I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his biological father (who was in his life the whole way through, even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for the stone as well..When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the stone.. When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due.. Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making any payments to me until after the first of the year.. Haven't seen a penny....In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything.. getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every now and then.. All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building... THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she misses him..How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your nephew's headstone money????Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

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Oh my!! How do people live with themselves when they do something like this? All I can say is it will catch up to them some day. I am so sorry this has happened. You are in my prayers.

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-----Original Message-----From: donnaisalwayz@...Sent: Thu, 04 Nov 2010 11:48:29 -0400To: mserslife Subject: So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing well..My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone.. I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his biological father (who was in his life the whole way through, even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for the stone as well..When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for the stone.. When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due.. Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making any payments to me until after the first of the year.. Haven't seen a penny....In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything.. getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every now and then.. All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building... THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she misses him..How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your nephew's headstone money????Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..

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Oh

Jackie...

Thank you for your support. Bud died on May 30, 2006 in a car

accident. Took me awhile to finally decide on what I wanted the

memorial of his life to be.. Something that everyone who visited

him would know that every part of that stone reflected something

of his life, not just his name and dates..

Oh, but I understand where you are coming from in the situation

with yours... had a similar situation with my eventually-2-b-X's

family.. and he, thought I was being too sensitive to the little

slights and digs that happened.. but they did happen.. and yes

my not wanting to be around his brothers and sisters caused

problems between us (Until I left him the first time.. then

trying to be dutiful upon my return, he paid closed attention to

what was going on.. and realized I wasn't too paranoid.. he took

me home immediately.. before the festivities were complete)..

My brother, on the other hand, well.. he allows her to lead him

around completely by the nose.. so she calls all the shots in

their house.. and she handles the money.. soooo...

And I am happy there are support groups and that all of my

family here are the types of peoples they are.. cause it

certainly does help to know someone somewhere has my back

through all of this..

Love you guys much

HUGS

|)onna

Hi Donna,...I'm sorry you are having

to deal with this, and over a very sensitive issue. I

hadn't heard about your son Bud's passing, but I feel

deeply sad for you. As far as your SIL, I have one too

that for different reasons seems to think she can say

and do stuff to me and thinks it doesn't effect me. If

I was to say anything about it she would tell me I was

just being too sensitive. Its gotten to the point

where I don't even want to be around her, and that

causes problems between my hubby and me. [its his

sister] I just don't understand why families do these

things to each other? I guess thats why there are so

many support groups because its where we find people

who understand and have our back.

If theres any way I can help, let me

know, and I'll keep you in my prayers too.

Hugs

and Love, Jackie

May the peace

of God be with you...

the love of Jesus enfold

you...

and the Spirit of Christ

fill you.

Subject: So livid I could spit nails!

To: MSersLife

Date: Thursday, November 4, 2010, 8:48 AM

I am about to go

on a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay

to bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter

(who is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section

yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the

outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy..

Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom

is doing well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws

photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was

in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and

she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them

on her facebook.. I know this because the one

picture I edited and cut out everybody else that

was in the pictures, because he was standing

like he was posing for a Catalog shot.. and of

course the other was a picture of him in his

"prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda

figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him...

okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type

deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500

to go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do

that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip

ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and

contributed his winnings back to the coffers for

his headstone.. which meant $1,000.00 more that

I could put toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance

that I could put toward his headstone.. that

extra $1,000 was going to be a great help, and

also allowed me to design the stone that I did..

it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well

as his biological father (who was in his life

the whole way through, even though we never

married).. and his step-dad pledging funds to

help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my

sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I

asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I

was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over

45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and

figured that between his dad and step-dad it

would be enough.. even if I had to add a few

hundred myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the

thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed to

be holding onto, I suspected there was going to

be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her

daughter's savings account for safe keeping..

and that since they finally decided to get

married (brother and she).. her last name wasn't

the same as it was when she opened the account..

so she might have a bit of trouble getting it..

(Now.. fact is.. very very small community with

a local small bank.. everybody knows everybody

so it wasn't a case of them suspecting her

identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone,

should have been December of last year.. I had

saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still

thinking that I had given her plenty of time to

save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would

have 19 hundred of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she

claimed that her creditors froze the assets..

(in her daughter's account? how stupid does she

think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to

start making any payments to me until after the

first of the year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's

commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11

hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling

with everything.. past due on everything..

getting daily phone calls from places I owe

money (pretty much daily.. cause the payments

are late).. because those commissions, though

sometimes not much.. were the extra we needed to

pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know..

maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed..

underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered every

now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny

from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have

a house payment.. dad gave brother the pizza

business before mom died.. brother is also

working outside the pizza shop as well -- we

won't go in to how laziness destroyed my parents

business -- and the pizza shop is actually in a

HUGE building that used to be a Catholic

Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of

the upstairs of this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American

Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several

different Halloween parties they've attended..

but the thing that pissed me off the most was

the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom"..

which wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his

"bling" and fancy 3 piece suit.. that didn't

come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and

puts them on her facebook as if they were her

own.. claiming how much she misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've

stolen your nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go

take another "don't give a shit pill" and space

out for awhile..

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Well maybe

she will.. somehow I doubt it though.. and yes someday her

comeuppance will come along.. one can always hope for an

epiphany..

HUGS

|)onna

Wow, Donna, I'm speechless (I know, I know, since

when is Akiba EVER speechless?) Well this

managed. Like the song says (paraphrased) Beelzebub

has a special place put aside for HER.

I pray she has an epiphany and comes to her

senses and delivers the money WITH INTEREST. The

photos? Hypocrisy at it's finest, my dear. It WILL

catch up to her.

~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

-------Original

Message-------

From:

|)onna

Date:

11/4/2010 11:48:32 AM

To:

MSersLife

Subject:

So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to

go on a rant.. so bypass if you choose..

it's okay to bypass.. I just need to vent

somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter

(who is yet another cousin) who had a

C-Section yesterday afternoon. I knew they

would post the outcome.. already knew the

baby was a boy.. Everyone was fine there..

he's healthy and mom is doing well..

My younger son, commented on my

Sister-in-Laws photo album.. sooo.. I had to

check out what was in the album she just put

up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY

pictures of Bud and posted them on her

facebook.. I know this because the one

picture I edited and cut out everybody else

that was in the pictures, because he was

standing like he was posing for a Catalog

shot.. and of course the other was a picture

of him in his "prison" orange hoodie by his

life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses

him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket

type deal.. paying $500 to the winner..

leaving $500 to go toward his headstone..

they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The

winner of the strip ticket was also a friend

of Bud's, and contributed his winnings back

to the coffers for his headstone.. which

meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward

his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his

insurance that I could put toward his

headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to

be a great help, and also allowed me to

design the stone that I did.. it's not a

regular stone by any means.. as well as his

biological father (who was in his life the

whole way through, even though we never

married).. and his step-dad pledging funds

to help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my

sister-in-law called to tell me it was

there.. I asked her to hang onto it for

awhile, until I was ready to pay for the

stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to

over 45 hundred.. BUT I already had 35

hundred, and figured that between his dad

and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I

had to add a few hundred myself.. to pay for

the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the

thousand dollars that the bitch was supposed

to be holding onto, I suspected there was

going to be trouble.. She said that she had

put it in her daughter's savings account for

safe keeping.. and that since they finally

decided to get married (brother and she)..

her last name wasn't the same as it was when

she opened the account.. so she might have a

bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is..

very very small community with a local small

bank.. everybody knows everybody so it

wasn't a case of them suspecting her

identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the

stone, should have been December of last

year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand due,

but still thinking that I had given her

plenty of time to save up the thousand that

she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred of the

2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time

she claimed that her creditors froze the

assets.. (in her daughter's account? how

stupid does she think I am?)... and she

wouldn't be able to start making any

payments to me until after the first of the

year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept

's commissions on headstone sales to

cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO

now I'm struggling with everything.. past

due on everything.. getting daily phone

calls from places I owe money (pretty much

daily.. cause the payments are late)..

because those commissions, though sometimes

not much.. were the extra we needed to pay

the bills on time.. and possibly ya know..

maybe buy a pair of shoes when needed..

underwear.. maybe have a pizza delivered

every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny

from brother or sister-in-law.. they don't

have a house payment.. dad gave brother the

pizza business before mom died.. brother is

also working outside the pizza shop as well

-- we won't go in to how laziness destroyed

my parents business -- and the pizza shop is

actually in a HUGE building that used to be

a Catholic Church.. and his apartment is the

back 3/4 of the upstairs of this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a

American Legion "Prom".. and had read about

the several different Halloween parties

they've attended.. but the thing that pissed

me off the most was the gown she wore to

this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't cheap..

and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3

piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall

Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son

and puts them on her facebook as if they

were her own.. claiming how much she misses

him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when

you've stolen your nephew's headstone

money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go

take another "don't give a shit pill" and

space out for awhile..

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nne

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Oh my!! How do people live with themselves when they do

something like this? All I can say is it will catch up to them

some day. I am so sorry this has happened. You are in my

prayers.

Hugs

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So livid I could spit nails!

I am about to go on

a rant.. so bypass if you choose.. it's okay to

bypass.. I just need to vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who

is yet another cousin) who had a C-Section

yesterday afternoon. I knew they would post the

outcome.. already knew the baby was a boy..

Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is

doing well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws

photo album.. sooo.. I had to check out what was

in the album she just put up.. The Bitch (and she

is) stole MY pictures of Bud and posted them on

her facebook.. I know this because the one picture

I edited and cut out everybody else that was in

the pictures, because he was standing like he was

posing for a Catalog shot.. and of course the

other was a picture of him in his "prison" orange

hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him...

okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type

deal.. paying $500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to

go toward his headstone.. they wanted to do that,

I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip ticket was

also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his

winnings back to the coffers for his headstone..

which meant $1,000.00 more that I could put toward

his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance

that I could put toward his headstone.. that extra

$1,000 was going to be a great help, and also

allowed me to design the stone that I did.. it's

not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his

biological father (who was in his life the whole

way through, even though we never married).. and

his step-dad pledging funds to help pay for the

stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my

sister-in-law called to tell me it was there.. I

asked her to hang onto it for awhile, until I was

ready to pay for the stone... HUGE MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45

hundred.. BUT I already had 35 hundred, and

figured that between his dad and step-dad it would

be enough.. even if I had to add a few hundred

myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand

dollars that the bitch was supposed to be holding

onto, I suspected there was going to be trouble..

She said that she had put it in her daughter's

savings account for safe keeping.. and that since

they finally decided to get married (brother and

she).. her last name wasn't the same as it was

when she opened the account.. so she might have a

bit of trouble getting it.. (Now.. fact is.. very

very small community with a local small bank..

everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of

them suspecting her identity).. The money did not

appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone,

should have been December of last year.. I had

saved $900 of the 2 grand due, but still thinking

that I had given her plenty of time to save up the

thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred

of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she

claimed that her creditors froze the assets.. (in

her daughter's account? how stupid does she think

I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to start making

any payments to me until after the first of the

year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's

commissions on headstone sales to cover the 11

hundred balance left.. SOOOO now I'm struggling

with everything.. past due on everything.. getting

daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty

much daily.. cause the payments are late)..

because those commissions, though sometimes not

much.. were the extra we needed to pay the bills

on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe buy a pair

of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a

pizza delivered every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from

brother or sister-in-law.. they don't have a house

payment.. dad gave brother the pizza business

before mom died.. brother is also working outside

the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to how

laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the

pizza shop is actually in a HUGE building that

used to be a Catholic Church.. and his apartment

is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of this

building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American

Legion "Prom".. and had read about the several

different Halloween parties they've attended.. but

the thing that pissed me off the most was the gown

she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which wasn't

cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3

piece suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts

them on her facebook as if they were her own..

claiming how much she misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've

stolen your nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take

another "don't give a shit pill" and space out for

awhile..

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