So livid I could spit nails!

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I am about to go on a rant.. so

bypass if you choose.. it's okay to bypass.. I just need to

vent somewhere..

I just went to check on my cousin's daughter (who is yet

another cousin) who had a C-Section yesterday afternoon. I

knew they would post the outcome.. already knew the baby was a

boy.. Everyone was fine there.. he's healthy and mom is doing

well..

My younger son, commented on my Sister-in-Laws photo album..

sooo.. I had to check out what was in the album she just put

up.. The Bitch (and she is) stole MY pictures of Bud and

posted them on her facebook.. I know this because the one

picture I edited and cut out everybody else that was in the

pictures, because he was standing like he was posing for a

Catalog shot.. and of course the other was a picture of him in

his "prison" orange hoodie by his life size Yoda figure..

And she's claiming how badly she misses him... okay...

BUT.. two of his friends ran a strip ticket type deal.. paying

$500 to the winner.. leaving $500 to go toward his headstone..

they wanted to do that, I didn't ask.. The winner of the strip

ticket was also a friend of Bud's, and contributed his

winnings back to the coffers for his headstone.. which meant

$1,000.00 more that I could put toward his headstone..

I had about 25 hundred left from his insurance that I could

put toward his headstone.. that extra $1,000 was going to be a

great help, and also allowed me to design the stone that I

did.. it's not a regular stone by any means.. as well as his

biological father (who was in his life the whole way through,

even though we never married).. and his step-dad pledging

funds to help pay for the stone as well..

When the boy's ticket money was there, my sister-in-law called

to tell me it was there.. I asked her to hang onto it for

awhile, until I was ready to pay for the stone... HUGE

MISTAKE!!!!!

When I was finished.. his monument came to over 45 hundred..

BUT I already had 35 hundred, and figured that between his dad

and step-dad it would be enough.. even if I had to add a few

hundred myself.. to pay for the stone..

When the time came for me to collect the thousand dollars that

the bitch was supposed to be holding onto, I suspected there

was going to be trouble.. She said that she had put it in her

daughter's savings account for safe keeping.. and that since

they finally decided to get married (brother and she).. her

last name wasn't the same as it was when she opened the

account.. so she might have a bit of trouble getting it..

(Now.. fact is.. very very small community with a local small

bank.. everybody knows everybody so it wasn't a case of them

suspecting her identity).. The money did not appear...

When it came time for me to pay off the stone, should have

been December of last year.. I had saved $900 of the 2 grand

due, but still thinking that I had given her plenty of time to

save up the thousand that she'd spent, I would have 19 hundred

of the 2 thousand due..

Called her on the phone again.. This time she claimed that her

creditors froze the assets.. (in her daughter's account? how

stupid does she think I am?)... and she wouldn't be able to

start making any payments to me until after the first of the

year..

Haven't seen a penny....

In the meantime, agreed to accept 's commissions on

headstone sales to cover the 11 hundred balance left.. SOOOO

now I'm struggling with everything.. past due on everything..

getting daily phone calls from places I owe money (pretty much

daily.. cause the payments are late).. because those

commissions, though sometimes not much.. were the extra we

needed to pay the bills on time.. and possibly ya know.. maybe

buy a pair of shoes when needed.. underwear.. maybe have a

pizza delivered every now and then..

All the while.. I still haven't seen a penny from brother or

sister-in-law.. they don't have a house payment.. dad gave

brother the pizza business before mom died.. brother is also

working outside the pizza shop as well -- we won't go in to

how laziness destroyed my parents business -- and the pizza

shop is actually in a HUGE building that used to be a Catholic

Church.. and his apartment is the back 3/4 of the upstairs of

this building...

THEN I see pictures of them attending a American Legion

"Prom".. and had read about the several different Halloween

parties they've attended.. but the thing that pissed me off

the most was the gown she wore to this dress up "Prom".. which

wasn't cheap.. and my brother in his "bling" and fancy 3 piece

suit.. that didn't come from Mall Mart...

and then she steals MY pictures of MY son and puts them on her

facebook as if they were her own.. claiming how much she

misses him..

How the hell do you sleep at night when you've stolen your

nephew's headstone money????

Okay.. my rant is finished.. I'm going to go take another

"don't give a shit pill" and space out for awhile..