Re: Update on horse situation.

[Guest guest]

I'm glad to hear that you got your horse safely away from your

nada. Hopefully things will go smoothly now and she'll leave

you alone.

At 11:36 AM 06/16/2011 Terri Axtell wrote:

>I had the police escort my horse and I off of the property.

>

>NADA dumped my stuff on the driveway and that was that.

>She disowned me so we are NC.

>

>I'm ok with this, at least for now.

--

Katrina

[Guest guest]

Me too: I'm glad to hear that this issue RE your horse is all settled, that you

now have your horse safely in your care at a new place and he's in no danger of

mistreatment or neglect from your mother.

Its not uncommon for those with personality disorder to engage in

passive-aggressive behaviors to " get even " when they feel thwarted or

disrespected, including really psychotic acts. There is a whole thread at

bpdfamily.com about " mysterious pet deaths " , posts by adult kids of bpd parents

whose pets would mysteriously vanish or die gruesome deaths. It seems that some

bpds will either treat their pet(s) like the Golden Child (spoiled, indulged and

can do no wrong) or the pets are " scapegoated " , mistreated, and there is a

revolving door of new pets that in their turn mysteriously vanish or sicken and

die unusually young, or are neglected to death.

It is sad that our parents have this serious mental illness; sometimes the only

option is No Contact to prevent further abuse.

-Annie

> >I had the police escort my horse and I off of the property.

> >

> >NADA dumped my stuff on the driveway and that was that.

> >She disowned me so we are NC.

> >

> >I'm ok with this, at least for now.

>

> --

> Katrina

>

[Guest guest]

And your horse is moved and safe--this must certainly be a big relief. You are

safe, too. Time to focus on your growth and be shed of nada.

>

> I had the police escort my horse and I off of the property.

>

> NADA dumped my stuff on the driveway and that was that.

> She disowned me so we are NC.

>

> I'm ok with this, at least for now.

>

>