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a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed feelings that I

am finally getting out of my system. I don't have any expectations. I just feel

like I want support and to be heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read

it. but I want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background on who people

are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I just wanted to put this out

there because it is all an attempt to heal,and I feel like I need my say for

once. and I am not very good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people

who have hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

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I think this is a great idea. I journal almost everyday & that is how I deal

with feelings & emotions that no one else seems to understand. I have a place

where my journal is kept - not secret, but out of sight. I just found out my

mother found & read my journal. She finally threw it up in my face in our last

battle & told me to quit writing lies about her. Well, first, they are not lies

& second, I have never felt so violated! This is my home, my personal journal &

then she takes it upon herself to read it. I am kind of glad she picked a page

that was all about her even though she does not believe it.

>

> a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed feelings that

I am finally getting out of my system. I don't have any expectations. I just

feel like I want support and to be heard and so far I have not invited anyone to

read it. but I want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

> I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background on who people

are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I just wanted to put this out

there because it is all an attempt to heal,and I feel like I need my say for

once. and I am not very good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people

who have hurt me.

>

> http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

>

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That's why I can't keep a journal. Maybe I should blog online.

Steph

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I think this is a great idea. I journal almost everyday & that

is how I deal with feelings & emotions that no one else seems to

understand. I have a place where my journal is kept - not

secret, but out of sight. I just found out my mother found &

read my journal. She finally threw it up in my face in our last

battle & told me to quit writing lies about her. Well, first,

they are not lies & second, I have never felt so violated! This

is my home, my personal journal & then she takes it upon herself

to read it. I am kind of glad she picked a page that was all

about her even though she does not believe it.

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

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The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

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I'd wanted to do the same but wont. i'm paranoid nada or dada or

siblings will find it.

Great blog!

Steph

my blog

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

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I too have been to paranoid about keeping a physical journal. but I recently

got an ipad, and started writing in it-- I can password protect it so no one can

gain access. also it fits into my purse so I take it with me everywhere and can

write when I feel the need to. I also have all my books on it, including all

the BP books, so I can reference what I need to... (no, I don't work for Apple

;-) but it really works for me.

~Debbie

>

> I'd wanted to do the same but wont. i'm paranoid nada or dada or

> siblings will find it.

> Great blog!

> Steph

>

>

> my blog

>

> a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

> feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

> have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to be

> heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

> want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

> I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

> on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

> just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt to

> heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

> good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who have

> hurt me.

>

> http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

>

>

>

> ------------------------------------

>

> **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

> NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

>

> To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

>

> Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

> Groups Links

>

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Hi Deb,

Can you get those bpd books as an ebook?

I'd love to do this. Where would I get them?

I'd thought about creating a blog and password protecting it.

But I'd also like people to be able to comment on my blog, so I

can be heard.

Steph

my blog

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe .

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

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I can't access your blog. Want me to sign in to blogger. Is

this right?

Steph

my blog

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe .

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and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

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Steph, I get them from itunes.

>

> I'd wanted to do the same but wont. i'm paranoid nada or dada

> or

> siblings will find it.

> Great blog!

> Steph

>

>

> my blog

>

> a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

> feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

> have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

> be

> heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

> want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

> I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

> on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

> just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

> to

> heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

> good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

> have

> hurt me.

>

> http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

>

>

>

> ------------------------------------

>

> **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @ DO

> NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

>

> To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

>

> Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

> Groups Links

>

>

>

>

>

> ------------------------------------

>

> **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

> NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

>

> To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

>

> Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

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I think that is what you need to do. I was unsure if I needed to give the link

to individual e-mails. I like the blog because a private blog requires and

e-mail from me with a link. it is pretty safe. especially from my Nada who is

very resistant to technology.honestly if anyone else in the family saw I would

not mind. they might not completely understand it, but i am not the only one who

has been hurt.

>

> I'd wanted to do the same but wont. i'm paranoid nada or dada

> or

> siblings will find it.

> Great blog!

> Steph

>

>

> my blog

>

> a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

> feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

> have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

> be

> heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

> want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

> I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

> on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

> just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

> to

> heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

> good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

> have

> hurt me.

>

> http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

>

>

>

> ------------------------------------

>

> **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @ DO

> NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

>

> To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

>

> Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

> Groups Links

>

>

>

>

>

> ------------------------------------

>

> **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

> NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

>

> To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

>

> Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

> Groups Links

>

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So are they audio books?

Which ones did you get?

feel free to email me off list.

Steph

my blog

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my

unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any

background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but

I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @ DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe .

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and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

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Actually the blog is password protected. Google said i dont have

permission to view it.

Steph

my blog

a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my

unexpressed

feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to

be

heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any

background

on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but

I

just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt

to

heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who

have

hurt me.

http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @ DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

Groups Links

------------------------------------

**This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO

NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

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I've been checking out some information about the new app called iaWriter? It's

only about nine bucks and I just got my extended keyboard for my apple desk top

and am now using my wireless keyboard for my Ipad. i don't mind using a

keyboard, but I really dislike the physical act of " writing " I have been seeing

things so freaking clearly and having so many moments where I just think...why

couldn't I have realized this when I was twenty? Something about the combination

of my husbands passing and me STILL having to deal with nada and all her crap.

She had me upset, but I have been able to choose to let all that nasty ick go

and just be and not hold onto it. I don't know why I am being afforded such

grace and peace about stuff, and I know I'll have rough days, but I want to have

a way to look back at this point in my life and remember my frame of mind.

carla

> >

> > I'd wanted to do the same but wont. i'm paranoid nada or dada or

> > siblings will find it.

> > Great blog!

> > Steph

> >

> >

> > my blog

> >

> > a couple months ago I started a blog it is all of my unexpressed

> > feelings that I am finally getting out of my system. I don't

> > have any expectations. I just feel like I want support and to be

> > heard and so far I have not invited anyone to read it. but I

> > want to invite all of you just for my own validation.

> > I wrote much of it for myself, so I don't provide any background

> > on who people are etc, so it might be a little confusing. but I

> > just wanted to put this out there because it is all an attempt to

> > heal,and I feel like I need my say for once. and I am not very

> > good at rebelling, so this is a rebellion against people who have

> > hurt me.

> >

> > http://meikjn-ssb.blogspot.com/

> >

> >

> >

> > ------------------------------------

> >

> > **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book

> > The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder:

> > New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at

> > www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @ DO

> > NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST.

> >

> > To unsub from this list, send a blank email to

> > WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe

> >

> > Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, "

> > and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find)Yahoo!

> > Groups Links

> >

>

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