Re: i need to vent - Sunspot

[Guest guest]

" After the death of my father, I invited my Nada to accompany me on the

artshow circuit, with the caveat she cease telling my peers and competitors

embaressing childhood stories about me, and refrain from calling me by a

detested childhood nickname. She told me she wasn't my mother, didn't love

me, never wanted to hear from myself, spouse or her only grandchild, again,

and dumped me 1000 miles from my home. I havent heard from her since. "

Sunspot, that is bewildering that your nada couldn't simply respect your

boundaries and enjoy a very important part of your life. Instead, she decided

to take her ball and go home. What a bully!

Maybe it's the best thing that could've happened, you know?

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> > sounds like both your parents are bpd, I envy you for being able to play

> > the piano, I can't even do chopsticks. Just relax and enjoy, once

> > something stops being fun for you its time to quit, and you've come too far

> > for that.

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[Guest guest]

You know, , I think you're right.

She is a bully! Interesting. She has always accused everyone else of being

a bully, when she herself is, in fact, the consummate emotional thug.

Thanks for the perspective! Sunspot:)

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> " After the death of my father, I invited my Nada to accompany me on the

> artshow circuit, with the caveat she cease telling my peers and competitors

> embaressing childhood stories about me, and refrain from calling me by a

> detested childhood nickname. She told me she wasn't my mother, didn't love

> me, never wanted to hear from myself, spouse or her only grandchild, again,

> and dumped me 1000 miles from my home. I havent heard from her since. "

>

> Sunspot, that is bewildering that your nada couldn't simply respect your

> boundaries and enjoy a very important part of your life. Instead, she

> decided to take her ball and go home. What a bully!

>

> Maybe it's the best thing that could've happened, you know?

>

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> > > sounds like both your parents are bpd, I envy you for being able to

> play

> > > the piano, I can't even do chopsticks. Just relax and enjoy, once

> > > something stops being fun for you its time to quit, and you've come

> too far

> > > for that.

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