Nada fogging me & sis again

[Guest guest]

I honestly am so tired of all this.

Nada ignores me, won't call, won't talk to me unless its a quick question about

the grandkids or to ambush me about old grievances. Barely any communication.

She's afraid of me, I get that, because I *see* her.

So now that I am almost 'settled' with being shut out of her life, all of a

sudden she hands an amaryllis package to my sister and asks her to pass it on to

me. As it I matter to her. I don't want her damn flower. I don't want my sis in

the middle, allowing herself to be nada's pawn.

My sister says " it's just a flower " but we all know its FOG. This stupid stuff

just drives me crazy. Here I sit, again, feeling all the emotions roll up that

want to choke me. Over a $5 flower.

[Guest guest]

Hi, Echo

When is a gift, not a gift? When its given by a Nada!

Remember, its not the gift, its the thought that counts. You know what she

was thinking when she sent the plant to you through your sister, thus the

poor little flower ceases to be a flower, at all, and has become part of

" the great fog machine " in Nadas head. Through the magic of spite, guilt,

vindictiveness and revenge, Nadas have the power to transmogrify even

seemingly harmless and benign plant-life into objects of fear, grief and

pain..

Re-gift the dang thing! Drop it off at a nursing home! He He, pick up

brochures while your there, consider it a scouting expedition for Nadas

future!

Best of Luck, Sunspot

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> I honestly am so tired of all this.

>

> Nada ignores me, won't call, won't talk to me unless its a quick question

> about the grandkids or to ambush me about old grievances. Barely any

> communication. She's afraid of me, I get that, because I *see* her.

>

> So now that I am almost 'settled' with being shut out of her life, all of

> a sudden she hands an amaryllis package to my sister and asks her to pass

> it on to me. As it I matter to her. I don't want her damn flower. I don't

> want my sis in the middle, allowing herself to be nada's pawn.

>

> My sister says " it's just a flower " but we all know its FOG. This stupid

> stuff just drives me crazy. Here I sit, again, feeling all the emotions

> roll up that want to choke me. Over a $5 flower.

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hugs, Echo...

I know, I'm in a stage now where I think the only way to relate to nada is to be

superficial and keep it superficial. I don't have energy for anything else.

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> I honestly am so tired of all this.

>

> Nada ignores me, won't call, won't talk to me unless its a quick question

about the grandkids or to ambush me about old grievances. Barely any

communication. She's afraid of me, I get that, because I *see* her.

>

> So now that I am almost 'settled' with being shut out of her life, all of a

sudden she hands an amaryllis package to my sister and asks her to pass it on to

me. As it I matter to her. I don't want her damn flower. I don't want my sis in

the middle, allowing herself to be nada's pawn.

>

> My sister says " it's just a flower " but we all know its FOG. This stupid stuff

just drives me crazy. Here I sit, again, feeling all the emotions roll up that

want to choke me. Over a $5 flower.

>

[Guest guest]

Breathe, kid. Breathe.

Yea, its FOG.

Tell sis, please don t agree to do that. It is unfair of mom to put you

in the middle like that. You should refuse, but if you don t, I will, so

it will not matter. Do what you want with the flower, but I don t want

it.

AS you say, FOG. We all know that the equivalence for Nada, is like I

gave you a flower, so you should put up with 5 years of my shit, and by

the way, buy me a car.

Breathe, kid. Breathe.

Doug

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> I honestly am so tired of all this.

>

> Nada ignores me, won't call, won't talk to me unless its a quick

question about the grandkids or to ambush me about old grievances.

Barely any communication. She's afraid of me, I get that, because I

*see* her.

>

> So now that I am almost 'settled' with being shut out of her life, all

of a sudden she hands an amaryllis package to my sister and asks her to

pass it on to me. As it I matter to her. I don't want her damn flower. I

don't want my sis in the middle, allowing herself to be nada's pawn.

>

> My sister says " it's just a flower " but we all know its FOG. This

stupid stuff just drives me crazy. Here I sit, again, feeling all the

emotions roll up that want to choke me. Over a $5 flower.

>

[Guest guest]

Ditto Doug.