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Wow Akiba. First off ((((big hugs)))) you have done a very brave thing!! Good luck.Secondly, this could have been something I would have written to my ex husband, only I was the one to leave, and I took my boys with me. I wasn't financially able to carry on the mortgage, no question there, I needed my husbands money. But I left him, regardless. LIke you said, I was on my own....but i had always been on my own, even when we were living together! I was SO DONE with it all, and wanted a better life for all of us. Over time, my boys cut him out of their lives. But nevertheless, it STILL broke my heart that he was such a let down after we split (as I knew he would be), every time he did something, or DIDN"T do something, it killed me a little inside - for them. But I am telling you Akiba......they are the BEST boys a mother could ask for and I truly believe they are the way they are, because I left. I don't think they would be who they are if I had stayed. And you can bet the same for your Robbin!!!!!!!!! In the end, it will be better for him. It's hard and it sucks...but it WILL be ok.I was VERY lucky to fall in love with a wonderful man and the boys couldn't ask for a better role model and Wayne HAS shaped who they are now (we have been together for, what, 7 years this Christmas). Having that positive male in their lives, as well as my Dad, has been huge for them. I couldn't be any luckier......And none of all the wonderful things that have happened to me in the past 7 yrs, never would have happened if I hadn't taken the road I chose...................My heart is with you love!! jen h To: MSersLife From: akyba@...Date: Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:27:03 -0500Subject: Rob got the boot (wasRe: n has wheels! To Jackie and group) This is what I wrote him: Rob, all I was basically asking is that you replace what you use, and that is what you have been costing me (and more). If you can't see that as fair, then I am sorry for you. Life is not free. You have cost me (and Robbin) way too much (not just financially but emotionally as well), and you think it is all "owed" you. It isn't. I will be looking into taking you to court for child support, that is my only option. And no, you will not be taking Robbin anywhere, he does not want to be with you. I have to tell him over and over to NOT hate you. If you had not lied to him, hurt his mom, and most of all, let him down SO MANY times, he might not hate you, but you have. It has been your choice to do so and that is the consequences. His emotions are his own.I wish you a happy life. Elsewhere.  And when he wrote me and said "you are on your own" this was my reply: I have always been on my own, the one who seems to need someone to live off of is you. Sad, that. Maybe some day you will take responsibility for your life. Robbin doesn't want you here, you have hurt him and let him down too many times. I have seen it over and over and it breaks my heart to see him want to believe in you and get let down again and again. You just never seem to live up to anyone's expectations except your own.  ~*~Hugs------- From: I got tired of  From: |)onnaDate: 11/21/2010 1:46:51 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: |)onna Ok, Ihttp://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and groupNor would anyone be able to lift mine! Hugs from Jackie in Oregon --- On SatSo your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car. From: n : -- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/ -- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Well, for the sake of family, I am going to play nice with him. Right now he is staying at his moms, but he is paving the way to come back ON MY TERMS. He is agreeing to pay what I asked. I think his family has a LOT to do with that lol...I forwarded my emails to his sister so she could see for herself that I WAS being fair and what his answers were. I don't mind him being around, we live fairly separate lives even when he IS here, and he's good for the occasional ride to the store. And if is willing to pull his weight, well, let him. He's gotta live somewhere and it IS better for Robbin if we're all nice to each other.

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

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I agree Akiba, it is better for Robbin if you are all nice to eacother. My hubby and his ex wife and USUALLY nice to eachother. He can't STAND her, but you'd never know it. But she is lucky to have an ex who is more involved with their childs life than most fathers are, and my step daughter spends almost as much time here as she does at her Moms. Jen H To: MSersLife From: akyba@...Date: Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:30:24 -0500Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........ Well, for the sake of family, I am going to play nice with him. Right now he is staying at his moms, but he is paving the way to come back ON MY TERMS. He is agreeing to pay what I asked. I think his family has a LOT to do with that lol...I forwarded my emails to his sister so she could see for herself that I WAS being fair and what his answers were. I don't mind him being around, we live fairly separate lives even when he IS here, and he's good for the occasional ride to the store. And if is willing to pull his weight, well, let him. He's gotta live somewhere and it IS better for Robbin if we're all nice to each other.  ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php-------Original Message------- From: Jen HunterDate: 11/23/2010 5:19:45 PMTo: mserslife Subject: Dear Akiba........ Wow Akiba. First off ((((big hugs)))) you have done a very brave thing!! Good luck.Secondly, this could have been something I would have written to my ex husband, only I was the one to leave, and I took my boys with me. I wasn't financially able to carry on the mortgage, no question there, I needed my husbands money. But I left him, regardless. LIke you said, I was on my own....but i had always been on my own, even when we were living together! I was SO DONE with it all, and wanted a better life for all of us. Over time, my boys cut him out of their lives. But nevertheless, it STILL broke my heart that he was such a let down after we split (as I knew he would be), every time he did something, or DIDN"T do something, it killed me a little inside - for them. But I am telling you Akiba......they are the BEST boys a mother could ask for and I truly believe they are the way they are, because I left. I don't think they would be who they are if I had stayed. And you can bet the same for your Robbin!!!!!!!!! In the end, it will be better for him. It's hard and it sucks...but it WILL be ok.I was VERY lucky to fall in love with a wonderful man and the boys couldn't ask for a better role model and Wayne HAS shaped who they are now (we have been together for, what, 7 years this Christmas). Having that positive male in their lives, as well as my Dad, has been huge for them. I couldn't be any luckier......And none of all the wonderful things that have happened to me in the past 7 yrs, never would have happened if I hadn't taken the road I chose...................My heart is with you love!! jen h To: MSersLife From: akyba@...Date: Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:27:03 -0500Subject: Rob got the boot (wasRe: n has wheels! To Jackie and group) This is what I wrote him: Rob, all I was basically asking is that you replace what you use, and that is what you have been costing me (and more). If you can't see that as fair, then I am sorry for you. Life is not free. You have cost me (and Robbin) way too much (not just financially but emotionally as well), and you think it is all "owed" you. It isn't. I will be looking into taking you to court for child support, that is my only option. And no, you will not be taking Robbin anywhere, he does not want to be with you. I have to tell him over and over to NOT hate you. If you had not lied to him, hurt his mom, and most of all, let him down SO MANY times, he might not hate you, but you have. It has been your choice to do so and that is the consequences. His emotions are his own.I wish you a happy life. Elsewhere.  And when he wrote me and said "you are on your own" this was my reply: I have always been on my own, the one who seems to need someone to live off of is you. Sad, that. Maybe some day you will take responsibility for your life. Robbin doesn't want you here, you have hurt him and let him down too many times. I have seen it over and over and it breaks my heart to see him want to believe in you and get let down again and again. You just never seem to live up to anyone's expectations except your own.  ~*~Hugs------- From: I got tired of  From: |)onnaDate: 11/21/2010 1:46:51 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: |)onna Ok, Ihttp://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and groupNor would anyone be able to lift mine! Hugs from Jackie in Oregon --- On Sat So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car. From: n : -- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/ -- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Jen

I always was and always will be a strong proponent of the 'BE

NICE TO EACH OTHER!" way of life between two people who have a

child together..

First off, because at one point in time you cared about each

other enough to MAKE that child..

But MORE IMPORTANTLY.. the only person who is truly hurt by all

the crap that two adults can throw at each other.. is the KID!

HUGS

|)onna

I agree Akiba, it is better for Robbin if you are all nice to

eacother. My hubby and his ex wife and USUALLY nice to eachother.

He can't STAND her, but you'd never know it. But she is lucky to

have an ex who is more involved with their childs life than most

fathers are, and my step daughter spends almost as much time here

as she does at her Moms.

Jen H

To: MSersLife

From: akyba@...

Date: Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:30:24 -0500

Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Well, for the sake of family, I am going to

play nice with him. Right now he is staying at

his moms, but he is paving the way to come

back ON MY TERMS. He is agreeing to pay what I

asked. I think his family has a LOT to do with

that lol...I forwarded my emails to his sister

so she could see for herself that I WAS being

fair and what his answers were. I don't mind

him being around, we live fairly separate

lives even when he IS here, and he's good for

the occasional ride to the store. And if is

willing to pull his weight, well, let him.

He's gotta live somewhere and it IS better for

Robbin if we're all nice to each other.



~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-------Original

Message-------

From:

Jen

Hunter

Date:

11/23/2010 5:19:45 PM

To:

mserslife

Subject:

Dear Akiba........

Wow Akiba. First off ((((big hugs)))) you

have done a very brave thing!! Good luck.

Secondly, this could have been something I

would have written to my ex husband, only I

was the one to leave, and I took my boys

with me. I wasn't financially able to carry

on the mortgage, no question there, I needed

my husbands money. But I left him,

regardless. LIke you said, I was on my

own....but i had always been on my own, even

when we were living together! I was SO DONE

with it all, and wanted a better life for

all of us. Over time, my boys cut him out of

their lives. But nevertheless, it STILL

broke my heart that he was such a let down

after we split (as I knew he would be),

every time he did something, or DIDN"T do

something, it killed me a little inside -

for them. But I am telling you

Akiba......they are the BEST boys a mother

could ask for and I truly believe they are

the way they are, because I left. I don't

think they would be who they are if I had

stayed. And you can bet the same for your

Robbin!!!!!!!!! In the end, it will be

better for him. It's hard and it sucks...but

it WILL be ok.

I was VERY lucky to fall in love with a

wonderful man and the boys couldn't ask for

a better role model and Wayne HAS shaped who

they are now (we have been together for,

what, 7 years this Christmas). Having that

positive male in their lives, as well as my

Dad, has been huge for them. I couldn't be

any luckier......And none of all the

wonderful things that have happened to me in

the past 7 yrs, never would have happened if

I hadn't taken the road I

chose...................

My heart is with you love!!

jen h

To: MSersLife

From: akyba@...

Date: Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:27:03 -0500

Subject: Rob got the boot (wasRe:

n has wheels! To Jackie and group)

This

is what I wrote him:

Rob, all I was

basically asking is

that you replace what

you use, and that is

what you have been

costing me (and more).

If you can't see that

as fair, then I am

sorry for you. Life

is not free. You have

cost me (and Robbin)

way too much (not just

financially but

emotionally as

well), and you think

it is all "owed" you.

It isn't. I will be

looking into taking

you to court for child

support, that is my

only option. And no,

you will not be taking

Robbin anywhere, he

does not want to be

with you. I have to

tell him over and over

to NOT hate you. If

you had not lied to

him, hurt his mom, and

most of all, let him

down SO MANY times, he

might not hate you,

but you have. It has

been your choice to do

so and that is the

consequences. His

emotions are his own.

I wish you a happy

life. Elsewhere.



And when he wrote me

and said "you are on

your own" this was

my reply:

I have

always been on

my own, the

one who seems

to need

someone to

live off of is

you. Sad,

that. Maybe

some day you

will take

responsibility

for your

life. Robbin

doesn't want

you here, you

have hurt him

and let him

down too many

times. I have

seen it over

and over and

it breaks my

heart to see

him want to

believe in you

and get let

down again and

again. You

just never

seem to live

up to anyone's

expectations

except your

own.



~*~Hugs-------

From:

I got

tired of



From:

|)onna

Date:

11/21/2010

1:46:51 PM

To:

MSersLife

Subject:

|)onna

On 11/21/2010

12:52 PM,

Akiba wrote:

Ok, Ihttp://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

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Message-------

From:

|)onna

Date:

11/On

11/20/2010

5:38 PM, Akiba

wrote:

Mine was

about 7k and I

had to pay the

co-pay...a

whopping $9!

(and n,

is's spelled

"cent" not

"sent" I

FINALLY ,

Jackie!

Love,

n

From:

Jackie H

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Sat, November

20, 2010

2:06:27 PM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

For

some reason I

had a hard

time accessing

the website,

but I'm pretty

sure I know

what you are

talking about

now. I

originally

they never did

bring me my

seat belt. :-(

I

liked the

Jazzy.

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

I have

Love,

n

From:

Jackie H20,

2010 12:50:37

PM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

n,

does your

either? I

think there's

a picture of

hers in the

photos. Mine

is like hers

only with a

purple base.

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

From:

Jackie H

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Sat, November

20, 2010

11:47:47 AM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

Nor

would anyone

be able to

lift mine!

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

--- On Sat

So your

chair was able

to be loaded

into the taxi?

Lucky you,

mine is huge

and would

never be able

to go in a

normal car.

From:

n

:

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Help

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Critters! Your

daily click

counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Donna,

Yep! I agree with you 110% here. Totally. I wanted nothing more when my ex and I split up to be nice to eachother, to get along for the kids sake. Yeah, well, I tried and it didn't last very long on his behalf, sadly enough :(

Jen H

To: MSersLife From: donnaisalwayz@...Date: Mon, 29 Nov 2010 08:02:45 -0500Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........

JenI always was and always will be a strong proponent of the 'BE NICE TO EACH OTHER!" way of life between two people who have a child together..First off, because at one point in time you cared about each other enough to MAKE that child.. But MORE IMPORTANTLY.. the only person who is truly hurt by all the crap that two adults can throw at each other.. is the KID! HUGS|)onna

I agree Akiba, it is better for Robbin if you are all nice to eacother. My hubby and his ex wife and USUALLY nice to eachother. He can't STAND her, but you'd never know it. But she is lucky to have an ex who is more involved with their childs life than most fathers are, and my step daughter spends almost as much time here as she does at her Moms. Jen H

To: MSersLife From: akyba@...Date: Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:30:24 -0500Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Well, for the sake of family, I am going to play nice with him. Right now he is staying at his moms, but he is paving the way to come back ON MY TERMS. He is agreeing to pay what I asked. I think his family has a LOT to do with that lol...I forwarded my emails to his sister so she could see for herself that I WAS being fair and what his answers were. I don't mind him being around, we live fairly separate lives even when he IS here, and he's good for the occasional ride to the store. And if is willing to pull his weight, well, let him. He's gotta live somewhere and it IS better for Robbin if we're all nice to each other.

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

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And it is YOU guys in this group who give me the strength to BE nice to him...you and Robbin, of course...but when he starts in and the antagonism threatens to come forth I am able to step back and take a breath and ignore it.

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

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you are teaching us patience - I do not suffer idjuts and that describes my ex God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there.

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 1:24:34 PMSubject: RE: Dear Akiba........

And it is YOU guys in this group who give me the strength to BE nice to him...you and Robbin, of course...but when he starts in and the antagonism threatens to come forth I am able to step back and take a breath and ignore it.

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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I'll bet Akiba got a A+ in kindergarten for "playing nice with others". We all love you, Akiba, and admire you for the way you deal with life.hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 12:24:34 PMSubject: RE: Dear Akiba........

And it is YOU guys in this group who give me the strength to BE nice to him...you and Robbin, of course...but when he starts in and the antagonism threatens to come forth I am able to step back and take a breath and ignore it.

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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When I was small, I was so tiny that my mom thought I'd never learn to walk...because everyone always insisted on carrying me. My nickname was "gumdrop" (repeat it and DIE!)

I was the kind of kid who would open the door to strangers and tell them mom couldn't come to the door because she was in the shower...times were more innocent then...I'd probably have ended up in the news if I were born now, and not in the good part of the news...

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

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As long as

you stay nice.. that's all that counts, and all the kids

will see.. And it will pay off in the end.. cause the kids will

know the true person the other is, once they've grown older..

HUGS

|)onna

Donna,

Yep! I agree with you 110% here. Totally. I wanted nothing more

when my ex and I split up to be nice to eachother, to get along

for the kids sake. Yeah, well, I tried and it didn't last very

long on his behalf, sadly enough :(

Jen H

To: MSersLife

From: donnaisalwayz@...

Date: Mon, 29 Nov 2010 08:02:45 -0500

Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Jen

I always was and always will be a strong proponent of the 'BE

NICE TO EACH OTHER!" way of life between two people who have a

child together..

First off, because at one point in time you cared about each

other enough to MAKE that child..

But MORE IMPORTANTLY.. the only person who is truly hurt by

all the crap that two adults can throw at each other.. is the

KID!

HUGS

|)onna

I agree Akiba, it is better for Robbin if you are all nice to

eacother. My hubby and his ex wife and USUALLY nice to

eachother. He can't STAND her, but you'd never know it. But she

is lucky to have an ex who is more involved with their childs

life than most fathers are, and my step daughter spends almost

as much time here as she does at her Moms.

Jen H

To: MSersLife

From: akyba@...

Date: Tue, 23 Nov 2010 17:30:24 -0500

Subject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Well, for the sake of family, I am going

to play nice with him. Right now he is

staying at his moms, but he is paving the

way to come back ON MY TERMS. He is agreeing

to pay what I asked. I think his family has

a LOT to do with that lol...I forwarded my

emails to his sister so she could see for

herself that I WAS being fair and what his

answers were. I don't mind him being around,

we live fairly separate lives even when he

IS here, and he's good for the occasional

ride to the store. And if is willing to pull

his weight, well, let him. He's gotta live

somewhere and it IS better for Robbin if

we're all nice to each other.



~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-------Original

Message-------

From:

Jen From:

akyba@...

Date: Sun, 21 Nov 2010 15:27:03 -0500

Subject: Rob got the boot (wasRe:

n has wheels! To Jackie and group)

This

is what I wrote him:

Rob, all I was

basically asking is

that you replace

what you use, and

that is what you

have been costing me

(and more). If you

can't see that as

fair, then I am

sorry for you. Life

is not free. You

have cost me (and

Robbin) way too much

(not just

financially but

emotionally as

well), and you think

it is all "owed"

you. It isn't. I

will be looking into

taking you to court

for child support,

that is my only

option. And no, you

will not be taking

Robbin anywhere, he

does not want to be

with you. I have to

tell him over and

over to NOT hate

you. If you had not

lied to him, hurt

his mom, and most of

all, let him down SO

MANY times, he might

not hate you, but

you have. It has

been your choice to

do so and that is

the consequences.

His emotions are his

own.

I wish you a

happy life.

Elsewhere.



And when he wrote

me and said "you

are on your own"

this was my reply:

I have

always been on

my own, the

one who seems

to need

someone to

live off of is

you. Sad,

that. Maybe

some day you

will take

responsibility

for your

life. Robbin

doesn't want

you here, you

have hurt him

and let him

down too many

times. I have

seen it over

and over and

it breaks my

heart to see

him want to

believe in you

and get let

down again and

again. You

just never

seem to live

up to anyone's

expectations

except your

own.



~*~Hugs-------

From:

I got

tired of



From:

|)onna

Date:

11/21/2010

1:46:51 PM

To:

MSersLife

Subject:

|)onna

On 11/21/2010

12:52 PM,

Akiba wrote:

Ok, Ihttp://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-------Original

Message-------

From:

|)onna

Date:

11/On

11/20/2010

5:38 PM, Akiba

wrote:

Mine was

about 7k and I

had to pay the

co-pay...a

whopping $9!

(and n,

is's spelled

"cent" not

"sent" I

FINALLY ,

Jackie!

Love,

n

From:

Jackie H

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Sat, November

20, 2010

2:06:27 PM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

For

some reason I

had a hard

time accessing

the website,

but I'm pretty

sure I know

what you are

talking about

now. I

originally

they never did

bring me my

seat belt. :-(

I

liked the

Jazzy.

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

I have

Love,

n

From:

Jackie H20,

2010 12:50:37

PM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

n,

does your

either? I

think there's

a picture of

hers in the

photos. Mine

is like hers

only with a

purple base.

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

From:

Jackie H

To:

MSersLife

Sent:

Sat, November

20, 2010

11:47:47 AM

Subject:

Re:

n has

wheels! To

Jackie and

group

Nor

would anyone

be able to

lift mine!

Hugs

from Jackie in

Oregon

--- On Sat

So your

chair was able

to be loaded

into the taxi?

Lucky you,

mine is huge

and would

never be able

to go in a

normal car.

From:

n

:

--

Help

Feed The

Critters! Your

daily click

counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

--

Help Feed The

Critters! Your

daily click

counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Gumdrop?..

not bad at all.. I won't EVEN tell you what my uncle gave me for

a nickname.. cause he's gone now.. and unless one of his kids

(my cousins) decides to remember and use it.. it isn't coming

round to haunt me ever again.. It was an awful nickname..

Oh.. who's that knocking at my door????.. some guy in a black

shroud holding a... oh NO!!!!

HUGS

|)onna

When I was small, I was so tiny that my mom

thought I'd never learn to walk...because everyone

always insisted on carrying me. My nickname was

"gumdrop" (repeat it and DIE!)

I was the kind of kid who would open the door to

strangers and tell them mom couldn't come to the

door because she was in the shower...times were more

innocent then...I'd probably have ended up in the

news if I were born now, and not in the good part of

the news...

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I'll file that cute little nickname away in my memory--only to be used in case of emergency:) SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 1:43:41 PMSubject: Re: Dear Akiba........

When I was small, I was so tiny that my mom thought I'd never learn to walk...because everyone always insisted on carrying me. My nickname was "gumdrop" (repeat it and DIE!)

I was the kind of kid who would open the door to strangers and tell them mom couldn't come to the door because she was in the shower...times were more innocent then...I'd probably have ended up in the news if I were born now, and not in the good part of the news...

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Now, Donna, you can't tease us like that! Please share the nickname:) SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 2:09:54 PMSubject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Gumdrop?..

not bad at all.. I won't EVEN tell you what my uncle gave me for

a nickname.. cause he's gone now.. and unless one of his kids

(my cousins) decides to remember and use it.. it isn't coming

round to haunt me ever again.. It was an awful nickname..

Oh.. who's that knocking at my door????.. some guy in a black

shroud holding a... oh NO!!!!

HUGS

|)onna

When I was small, I was so tiny that my mom

thought I'd never learn to walk...because everyone

always insisted on carrying me. My nickname was

"gumdrop" (repeat it and DIE!)

I was the kind of kid who would open the door to

strangers and tell them mom couldn't come to the

door because she was in the shower...times were more

innocent then...I'd probably have ended up in the

news if I were born now, and not in the good part of

the news...

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Robbin already has it figured out...as Sharon said, he's one smart kiddo...

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Use it and DIE

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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evil laugh..... SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 7:08:31 PMSubject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Use it and DIE

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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Yeah...go for it!

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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I have been Anne since I was 13 - when I came home in 1985 I walked into a florist to get flowers for a friend - this guy looked at me funny and almost said Lavinia - I guess my face showed a familiar expression - he quickly changed to Anne - his problem I was not a blond Twiggy - I was 160 lbs red head - we grew up down the street from each other

having been married twice, going to school here, and coming home twice - I can tell vaguely what era I knew them by what they call me

my sons and grandson are still called - Bobby, , and Teej - for the most part they deal with it - the MS did screw things up - at times when I was stressed or tired - the one before name (Bobby was Trevor - was Bobby etc)

when I do it now with Ellen's sons - I just say tell your brother if he is up to something - stop it - I always feel strong emotion - they boys take it good naturedly

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 10:05:57 PMSubject: Re: Dear Akiba........

evil laugh.....

SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects.

To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, November 29, 2010 7:08:31 PMSubject: Re: Dear Akiba........

Use it and DIE

 ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

-- Re: n has wheels! To Jackie and group

Nor would anyone be able to lift mine!

Hugs from Jackie in Oregon

--- On Sat

So your chair was able to be loaded into the taxi? Lucky you, mine is huge and would never be able to go in a normal car.

From:

n :

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

-- Help Feed The Critters! Your daily click counts at http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/clickToGive/

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