Guest guest Posted December 20, 2011 Report Share Posted December 20, 2011 .... and invited me and mine to a brunch next week. I told her *I* wasn't available and she should contact my adult kids to work it out with them. This is my first try at going NC without announcing it directly. I am on steroids to combat adrenal exhaustion, mostly from dealing with her. I will no longer compromise my health for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2011 Report Share Posted December 21, 2011 GOOD FOR YOU!! i am so proud of you, girl!! You deserve to be well. I'm glad you did it. > > ... and invited me and mine to a brunch next week. I told her *I* wasn't available and she should contact my adult kids to work it out with them. This is my first try at going NC without announcing it directly. > > I am on steroids to combat adrenal exhaustion, mostly from dealing with her. I will no longer compromise my health for her. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2011 Report Share Posted December 21, 2011 Good for you for going NC - it isn't easy but losing your health to her is not an option. Often in the past I have felt that my nada was trying to " kill me " as my health deteriorated further and further (I had breast cancer) and all she could do was make it about her and push me to keep " doing " for her. I had to go NC at that point because I knew she didn't give a shit about me. I have LC with her now but she refers to that time as when I was " being difficult and awkward " . LOL what a cow. > > ... and invited me and mine to a brunch next week. I told her *I* wasn't available and she should contact my adult kids to work it out with them. This is my first try at going NC without announcing it directly. > > I am on steroids to combat adrenal exhaustion, mostly from dealing with her. I will no longer compromise my health for her. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2011 Report Share Posted December 21, 2011 Lordy lordy, can you imagine what a nuclear meltdown the nadas would have if they ever could see how we have all seen thru them and how we REALLY feel about them? You would see nada heads exploding all over the world! > > > > ... and invited me and mine to a brunch next week. I told her *I* wasn't available and she should contact my adult kids to work it out with them. This is my first try at going NC without announcing it directly. > > > > I am on steroids to combat adrenal exhaustion, mostly from dealing with her. I will no longer compromise my health for her. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2011 Report Share Posted December 21, 2011 LOL! > > > > > > ... and invited me and mine to a brunch next week. I told her *I* wasn't available and she should contact my adult kids to work it out with them. This is my first try at going NC without announcing it directly. > > > > > > I am on steroids to combat adrenal exhaustion, mostly from dealing with her. I will no longer compromise my health for her. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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