Re: Undiagnosed BP Mother - Horrible Impact on Daugther's Emotional

[Guest guest]

if ever there were an example of someone to stay away from...this would be it.

i know how you feel about not wanting to abandon your mother...but she is

horribly and openly and proven destructive to your girl. There are no ifs or

buts. This is clearcut child abuse to your daughter...and to you.

I would make the break from her and try not to look back. I would have a hard

time living with myself if I didn't protect my daughter above anyone else. Your

mom had her chance. It's now your turn and your daughter's turn to live a happy

life. You and your daughter will have a long road of recovery ahead of you...but

it's do-able. You are stronger than you think.

I wish strength of conviction on you...Lord knows I have not been the picture of

strength with my mother. She muddies the lines of abuse...to where I'm second

guessing myself...but your mother has no remorse and has been proven to have

done a ton of hurtful and painful damage.

Save yourselves.

And I will try to take my own advice.

Good luck to you and your girl.

barrycove@...