Guest guest Posted January 1, 2012 Report Share Posted January 1, 2012 hello everyone i have been nc with my nada for the last 18mths...we live in the same city. she has tried every possible way to see my kids and i have been clear with ehr that until we (as in me and my husband) have a somewhat healthy relationship its not good fro anyones well being for her to come and see the kids. i can read her like a open book...she wants to emotionally blackmail my kids. the other day we say at her gathering unexpected and i quickly got the kids and went home. one of her flyinf monkeys (my aunt) tipped her off that iw as there with the kids and she decided to rock up. thhe next day i heard from a freiend that apparently she had embroidered on her shirt the names of all my 3 kids, and telling everyone about it. there is no doubt in mind she is telling people that i am the cruel mother who is not letting her see her grandchildren. my husband has been telling me for a while that we should just pack and leave the country...i am hesistant. i know she has no control over my life anymore but as long as we are here she will do these stunts every few months.reasons i dont want to leave is becaseu of great freinds my kids have here and the support system i have established, also my brother and dad are here who have also been rejected by nada. feel so overwhlemed at times about what i should do but i know i just have to deal with it. just needed to vent a bit. thanyou for reading Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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