Guest guest Posted January 9, 2012 Report Share Posted January 9, 2012 after the recent stunt of finding out me, hubby and my 3 kids were at a local event nada rocked up afer being 2 years NC with the names of my kids knitted on her shirt. we left before she could see us and she made it a very public event chirping or blackening my name as the bad daughter who doesnt let her see her grandchildren. playing the victim to the tee and behind closed doors the aggressor which i am sure you are all too familiar with. my hubby and i have been really thinking about moving away from her geographically. as in to another country. its a hard descison but i just feel as long as i am here she will somehow try to create chaos and havoc and she knows where the kids go to school and where we live. she ahs already pulled the stunt of showing up at my kids school and knocking on our front door uninvited. my hubby suggested moving to a different area in our city but still its the same city and word will eventaully get around we are located. my husband is from the usa and we thought going there where his parents and friends are would be a ncie change. its such a hard descion especially when at times you are involved in this viscious game that your nada pulls you in. anyone else been in a similar situation? any advice apprecaited Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 10, 2012 Report Share Posted January 10, 2012 Hi M19728, I can sure understand wanting to get the hell out of dodge! It seems to me moving from one country to another is a very big step though which only makes sense if it is good for you as a family. I find when I make decisions solely based on issue with my nada or fada that sometimes the decision isn't good for me in other ways. So if it's a good move then go for it, but if not maybe just move to another city in your present country? eliza > > after the recent stunt of finding out me, hubby and my 3 kids were at a local event nada rocked up afer being 2 years NC with the names of my kids knitted on her shirt. we left before she could see us and she made it a very public event chirping or blackening my name as the bad daughter who doesnt let her see her grandchildren. playing the victim to the tee and behind closed doors the aggressor which i am sure you are all too familiar with. my hubby and i have been really thinking about moving away from her geographically. as in to another country. its a hard descison but i just feel as long as i am here she will somehow try to create chaos and havoc and she knows where the kids go to school and where we live. she ahs already pulled the stunt of showing up at my kids school and knocking on our front door uninvited. my hubby suggested moving to a different area in our city but still its the same city and word will eventaully get around we are located. my husband is from the usa and we thought going there where his parents and friends are would be a ncie change. its such a hard descion especially when at times you are involved in this viscious game that your nada pulls you in. anyone else been in a similar situation? any advice apprecaited > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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