Guest guest Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 I am just beginning the process of trying to make sure I don't depend on nada and my dad for anything. Right now they keep my child while I work. I am having an enormous amount of guilt for trying to find alternate childcare. It is paralyzing. But I think back to last night when my nada called 4 times in 2 hours.....demanding to be heard....she has no mercy and is sucking the life out of me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2011 Report Share Posted July 11, 2011 Sometimes we only change when the current situation becomes unbearable. So we put up with a great deal of stress, trauma, anxiety, pain and suffering until it just reaches that tipping point where you know that you just can't take it anymore. Change, even good change, can be scarier than what you know. You are the only one who can determine what you, personally, can and can't tolerate. When it gets bad enough, you'll make different choices. But your baby does not have the option to make any choices at any point in time, so, that's something to take into consideration also. Your baby is relying on you to make the best, safest, wisest choices for his or her needs. -Annie > > I am just beginning the process of trying to make sure I don't depend on nada and my dad for anything. Right now they keep my child while I work. I am having an enormous amount of guilt for trying to find alternate childcare. It is paralyzing. > But I think back to last night when my nada called 4 times in 2 hours.....demanding to be heard....she has no mercy and is sucking the life out of me. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2011 Report Share Posted July 12, 2011 Get your child OUT of there. It isn't safe for the child. That's my opinion though, I don't know them personally. N > I am just beginning the process of trying to make sure I don't depend on nada and my dad for anything. Right now they keep my child while I work. I am having an enormous amount of guilt for trying to find alternate childcare. It is paralyzing. > But I think back to last night when my nada called 4 times in 2 hours.....demanding to be heard....she has no mercy and is sucking the life out of me. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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