Re: my update (debbi brant)

December 22, 2010

i hope every one get what they need not just the wants but the needs..as for me, i will making lasagna here at my house for every one, ( wish we luck) and then the dinner for his mother, looks like tk day all over again, just this time, i hope no one ends up in the hosp.all the kids will be here for dinner, i do not know who all will be at mrs b house, for tk day it was to be 5 up there i ended up with 14.so we will see...i wish you peace>>debbi brant Subject: Re: my updateTo: MSersLife Date: Wednesday, December 22, 2010, 6:51 PM

Have a wonderful Christmas with your family. Margaret A. CoteTo: MSersLife Sent: Tue, December 21, 2010 4:29:51 PMSubject: Re: my update

We just bought our tree yesterday, Sharon. It is making my house so aromatic! I just love the scent of pine. We wait until Christmas eve to decorate it; all the kids will be here then. Later on, we go to either a 8 or 11pm service at the Old Dutch Church of Sleepy Hollow,1685 (yes, the same churchyard as the Legend of Sleepy Hollow; Washington Irving was from the area). It is lit only by candlelight, as there is no electricity. There is a big pot belly stove that is stoked with wood, as the only heat source. They have a big kettle of mulled apple cider warming on the stove as we worship and sing. We enjoy the cider after service.When we go back home, the kids have fun putting the gifts they got for one another under the tree. Lloyd and I put out the rest of the gifts once everyone is fast asleep;

sometimes we have to wait an hour or so, I get sleepy! I'm not sure if , nearly 11 and in 5th grade, still believes in Santa or not. It just hasn't come up this year, so I'm uncertain.We have a 21 lb turkey that my husband got for free from the market--our grocery store has a policy that if you have spent enough $ in a certain time-frame, you can get either a turkey or ham. The limit is 21 lbs, and wouldn't you know, Lloyd just happened upon 1, exactly that weight. It is thawing in the fridge, and he wants to smoke it, but I'm not sure about that method...anyway, I'm going to leave him alone about it, as it would just start a fight...So, lasagna Christmas eve, and turkey Christmas day. I SO wish it would snow on Christmas, but they are predicting not, but perhaps a bit the day after.I hope all my MS buddies are feeling well, and enjoying their holidays!love to each, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Mon, December 20, 2010 1:05:47 PMSubject: Re: my update

I'm sorry, Kate. I'm sorry you and hubby are at this point. I am glad he has agreed to marriage counseling. I know it's hard for you to give up on your marriage so it's a good thing to do anything possible to see if it can be saved. Good! I will be hopeful the counseling will make a huge difference for you both. When do the kids come home? Are you planning any special meals or events while they are all there with you? Enjoy your time with the offspring!love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in

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20, 2010

4:48:53 AMSubject: my update

Hi all,I have been reading mostly. I've been feeling on the one hand, elated that all my kids will be gathered here, but depressed and anxious about my marital situation. We have decided to seek a marriage counselor--I NEVER thought that my husband would agree to go. We had a big go-around last night, with him accusing me of twisting things around so that I can see him as the bad guy or something like that. It was an ugly fight, and I think we need to bring it to the therapist today.We have a water bed, and I know I need to get out of that bed due to the fact that I want nothing to do with him. Yesterday, I was making the bed, and noticed a wet spot...yup, the darn thing was leaking! Oh brother. I couldn't find the zipper on the mattress to get into the thing, so I just left it

alone and went to bed. I told my husband and he was understandably upset, so we have resolved to get a new bed. He came up with the perfect solution; we buy 2 twin beds...so I think that is what we are going to do.This is so hard for me...I do see divorce in our future, and I know that God hates divorce, it is just that I'm miserable, and have been for years.Well, thanks for listening to me vent!Love to all,Christmas blessingsand Holiday Hugs,Kate

December 22, 2010

Debbi,

Please don't over do. Let some of the others do the work. You need your rest.

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> my update

>

> Hi all,

> I have been reading mostly. I've been feeling on the one hand, elated

> that all my kids will be gathered here, but depressed and anxious about

> my marital situation. We have decided to seek a marriage counselor--I

> NEVER thought that my husband would agree to go. We had a big go-around

> last night, with him accusing me of twisting things around so that I can

> see him as the bad guy or something like that. It was an ugly fight, and

> I think we need to bring it to the therapist today.

> We have a water bed, and I know I need to get out of that bed due to the

> fact that I want nothing to do with him. Yesterday, I was making the bed,

> and noticed a wet spot...yup, the darn thing was leaking! Oh brother. I

> couldn't find the zipper on the mattress to get into the thing, so I just

> left it

> alone and went to bed. I told my husband and he was understandably

> upset, so we have resolved to get a new bed. He came up with the perfect

> solution; we buy 2 twin beds...so I think that is what we are going to

> do.

> This is so hard for me...I do see divorce in our future, and I know that

> God hates divorce, it is just that I'm miserable, and have been for

> years.

> Well, thanks for listening to me vent!

> Love to all,

> Christmas blessings

> and Holiday Hugs,

> Kate

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December 22, 2010

it is ok, i think i need to do this, i rest, i do get very weak fast, but i want to do this,,this is part of living...right...i want to do the things i did before..just going to take me longer, so they do not eat at 12, they will eat at 1, and supper will be at 6 and i got back up ..i got the herb...and he can cook ..but i do think i need to do this..i wish you peace >>debbi brant

>

> Subject: Re: my update

> To: MSersLife

> Date: Wednesday, December 22, 2010, 6:51 PM

>

> Have a wonderful Christmas with your family.

> Margaret A. Cote

>

> To: MSersLife

> Sent: Tue, December 21, 2010 4:29:51 PM

> Subject: Re: my update

>

> We just bought our tree yesterday, Sharon. It is making my house so

> aromatic! I just love the scent of pine. We wait until Christmas eve to

> decorate it; all the kids will be here then. Later on, we go to either a

> 8 or 11pm service at the Old Dutch Church of Sleepy Hollow,1685 (yes, the

> same churchyard as the Legend of Sleepy Hollow; Washington Irving was

> from the area). It is lit only by candlelight, as there is no

> electricity. There is a big pot belly stove that is stoked with wood, as

> the only heat source. They have a big kettle of mulled apple cider

> warming on the stove as we worship and sing. We enjoy the cider after

> service.

> When we go back home, the kids have fun putting the gifts they got for

> one another under the tree. Lloyd and I put out the rest of the gifts

> once everyone is fast asleep;

> sometimes we have to wait an hour or so, I get sleepy! I'm not sure if

> , nearly 11 and in 5th grade, still believes in Santa or not. It just

> hasn't come up this year, so I'm uncertain.

> We have a 21 lb turkey that my husband got for free from the market--our

> grocery store has a policy that if you have spent enough $ in a certain

> time-frame, you can get either a turkey or ham. The limit is 21 lbs, and

> wouldn't you know, Lloyd just happened upon 1, exactly that weight. It is

> thawing in the fridge, and he wants to smoke it, but I'm not sure about

> that method...anyway, I'm going to leave him alone about it, as it would

> just start a fight...So, lasagna Christmas eve, and turkey Christmas day.

> I SO wish it would snow on Christmas, but they are predicting not, but

> perhaps a bit the day after.

> I hope all my MS buddies are feeling well, and enjoying their holidays!

> love to each, Kate

>

> To: MSersLife

> Sent: Mon, December 20, 2010 1:05:47 PM

> Subject: Re: my update

>

> I'm sorry, Kate. I'm sorry you and hubby are at this point. I am

> glad he has agreed to marriage counseling. I know it's hard for you to

> give up on your marriage so it's a good thing to do anything possible to

> see if it can be saved. Good! I will be hopeful the counseling will

> make a huge difference for you both.

>

> When do the kids come home? Are you planning any special meals or events

> while they are all there with you? Enjoy your time with the offspring!

>

> love

> Sharon

> This email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in

> spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in

> no way are to be considered flaws or defects.

>

> To: MSersLife

> Sent: Mon, December 20, 2010

> 4:48:53 AM

> Subject: my update

>

> Hi all,

> I have been reading mostly. I've been feeling on the one hand, elated

> that all my kids will be gathered here, but depressed and anxious about

> my marital situation. We have decided to seek a marriage counselor--I

> NEVER thought that my husband would agree to go. We had a big go-around

> last night, with him accusing me of twisting things around so that I can

> see him as the bad guy or something like that. It was an ugly fight, and

> I think we need to bring it to the therapist today.

> We have a water bed, and I know I need to get out of that bed due to the

> fact that I want nothing to do with him. Yesterday, I was making the bed,

> and noticed a wet spot...yup, the darn thing was leaking! Oh brother. I

> couldn't find the zipper on the mattress to get into the thing, so I just

> left it

> alone and went to bed. I told my husband and he was understandably

> upset, so we have resolved to get a new bed. He came up with the perfect

> solution; we buy 2 twin beds...so I think that is what we are going to

> do.

> This is so hard for me...I do see divorce in our future, and I know that

> God hates divorce, it is just that I'm miserable, and have been for

> years.

> Well, thanks for listening to me vent!

> Love to all,

> Christmas blessings

> and Holiday Hugs,

> Kate

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December 22, 2010

Best not overdo sweetie! Lasagna is an involved meal...I know, that's what I'm making Christmas Eve here. Hopefully, you won't have as huge a crowd as Thanksgiving!love to you, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Wed, December 22, 2010 2:02:04 PMSubject: Re: my update (debbi brant)

i hope every one get what they need not just the wants but the needs..as for me, i will making lasagna here at my house for every one, ( wish we luck) and then the dinner for his mother, looks like tk day all over again, just this time, i hope no one ends up in the hosp.all the kids will be here for dinner, i do not know who all will be at mrs b house, for tk day it was to be 5 up there i ended up with 14.so we will see...i wish you peace>>debbi brant Subject: Re: my updateTo: MSersLife Date: Wednesday, December 22, 2010, 6:51 PM

Have a wonderful Christmas with your family. Margaret A. CoteTo: MSersLife Sent: Tue, December 21, 2010 4:29:51 PMSubject: Re: my update

We just bought our tree yesterday, Sharon. It is making my house so aromatic! I just love the scent of pine. We wait until Christmas eve to decorate it; all the kids will be here then. Later on, we go to either a 8 or 11pm service at the Old Dutch Church of Sleepy Hollow,1685 (yes, the same churchyard as the Legend of Sleepy Hollow; Washington Irving was from the area). It is lit only by candlelight, as there is no electricity. There is a big pot belly stove that is stoked with wood, as the only heat source. They have a big kettle of mulled apple cider warming on the stove as we worship and sing. We enjoy the cider after service.When we go back home, the kids have fun putting the gifts they got for one another under the tree. Lloyd and I put out the rest of the gifts once everyone is fast asleep;

sometimes we have to wait an hour or so, I get sleepy! I'm not sure if , nearly 11 and in 5th grade, still believes in Santa or not. It just hasn't come up this year, so I'm uncertain.We have a 21 lb turkey that my husband got for free from the market--our grocery store has a policy that if you have spent enough $ in a certain time-frame, you can get either a turkey or ham. The limit is 21 lbs, and wouldn't you know, Lloyd just happened upon 1, exactly that weight. It is thawing in the fridge, and he wants to smoke it, but I'm not sure about that method...anyway, I'm going to leave him alone about it, as it would just start a fight...So, lasagna Christmas eve, and turkey Christmas day. I SO wish it would snow on Christmas, but they are predicting not, but perhaps a bit the day after.I hope all my MS buddies are feeling well, and enjoying their holidays!love to each, KateTo: MSersLife Sent: Mon, December 20, 2010 1:05:47 PMSubject: Re: my update

I'm sorry, Kate. I'm sorry you and hubby are at this point. I am glad he has agreed to marriage counseling. I know it's hard for you to give up on your marriage so it's a good thing to do anything possible to see if it can be saved. Good! I will be hopeful the counseling will make a huge difference for you both. When do the kids come home? Are you planning any special meals or events while they are all there with you? Enjoy your time with the offspring!love SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in

spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, December

20, 2010

4:48:53 AMSubject: my update

Hi all,I have been reading mostly. I've been feeling on the one hand, elated that all my kids will be gathered here, but depressed and anxious about my marital situation. We have decided to seek a marriage counselor--I NEVER thought that my husband would agree to go. We had a big go-around last night, with him accusing me of twisting things around so that I can see him as the bad guy or something like that. It was an ugly fight, and I think we need to bring it to the therapist today.We have a water bed, and I know I need to get out of that bed due to the fact that I want nothing to do with him. Yesterday, I was making the bed, and noticed a wet spot...yup, the darn thing was leaking! Oh brother. I couldn't find the zipper on the mattress to get into the thing, so I just left it

alone and went to bed. I told my husband and he was understandably upset, so we have resolved to get a new bed. He came up with the perfect solution; we buy 2 twin beds...so I think that is what we are going to do.This is so hard for me...I do see divorce in our future, and I know that God hates divorce, it is just that I'm miserable, and have been for years.Well, thanks for listening to me vent!Love to all,Christmas blessingsand Holiday Hugs,Kate

December 22, 2010

When I lived in Connecticut, a gal from across the way (not sure what to call the bunch of tri-plexes that were built in a grouping, but owned by different landlords, but she was across the "common area") used a strange technique when making her Lasagna.. She didn't cook the noodles before putting it all together.. but added extra water to the baking pan, and by the time the Lasagna was finished.. the noodles were soft.. I personally thought it wouldn't turn out and that the dish would end up "swimming" in soup.. but it didn't.. go figure..Not sure how this would work on a large baking pan, like my mother, I or most likely either of you two will make, but for her square baking pan, it came out just great.. I think that's where I learned to use the half & half cottage/ricotta cheese mixture as well.. though I didn't go for the Kraft American Slices on top.. I still prefer to use either cheddar or a cheddarella mixture for the top.. that's how she did hers, and it did come out pretty darn spiffy.. Just another added two cents..HUGS|)onna, who is beginning to think Lasagna might be a yummy just about now.. my update

Hi all,I have been reading mostly. I've been feeling on the one hand, elated that all my kids will be gathered here, but depressed and anxious about my marital situation. We have decided to seek a marriage counselor--I NEVER thought that my husband would agree to go. We had a big go-around last night, with him accusing me of twisting things around so that I can see him as the bad guy or something like that. It was an ugly fight, and I think we need to bring it to the therapist today.We have a water bed, and I know I need to get out of that bed due to the fact that I want nothing to do with him. Yesterday, I was making the bed, and noticed a wet spot...yup, the darn thing was leaking! Oh brother. I couldn't find the zipper on the mattress to get into the thing, so I just left it

alone and went to bed. I told my husband and he was understandably upset, so we have resolved to get a new bed. He came up with the perfect solution; we buy 2 twin beds...so I think that is what we are going to do.This is so hard for me...I do see divorce in our future, and I know that God hates divorce, it is just that I'm miserable, and have been for years.Well, thanks for listening to me vent!Love to all,Christmas blessingsand Holiday Hugs,Kate

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