Re: trying to maintain LC - Eliza!

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ha ha " I need to go watch Braveheart! "

that cracked me up!!

thanks for giving me a chuckle!

Fiona

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> > So, how do I deal with her when I do finally call? And how do I keep myself

from feeling the dread and guilt over what I know she's feeling?

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> Hi D, I struggle with this too - being too " tuned in " to what my nada is

feeling. The goal which I only achieve occasionally is to let her own her

feelings and truly feel it to be separate from me. Taking the internal

attitude of " She's mad, well that's HER problem. " I've only been able to

achieve this during times when I'm very Zen doing a lot of meditation or on

antidepressants. It IS possible though. And in the end I think it's where

healing takes us because isn't it about time that their emotions stop ruling

ours? Isn't it about time that we stop having to suffer because they suffer?

Isn't it about time we declare FREEEEEDOOOOM! Okay I need to go watch

Braveheart.

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> Eliza

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