Guest guest Posted February 2, 2012 Report Share Posted February 2, 2012 I have had to go thru my share of female friends that had qualities that were similar to nada. One of my last close female friends I always knew was a bit flakey, but she really started going off the deep end about four years ago. I now only keep prefunctory comunnication with her. This was a better parting than one of my earlier friends that started treating me like her emotional whipping boy. After considering her my best friend for years, she gave me the emotional version of whip lash, as she started lashing out at me. She really gave me no inkling that she would turn on me like that. She was a little off the wall strange, but never seemed mean. I know me and I know that my nada is the reason that I have always preferred the company of men and other skittish KO's like myself. I have so many KO friends that it seems like I attract them. C > > > > > > > > > > Well, as fate would have it, I had two PD parents. The gift that I came out with is an uncanny ability to " read " body language and facial expressions. I know what people are feeling even when they do not and I can almost always tell when someone is lying. It is pretty handy. > > > > > > > > > > HC > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2012 Report Share Posted February 3, 2012 When it comes to my female friends, I've tended to choose (and be chosen by) women who at first act " normal " - kind, funny, fun, generous-hearted, warm - but suddenly, out of the blue, turn on me and get incredibly nasty, and then apologize, and then get nasty again, and then apologize, and then get nasty again, and then they just stop apologizing and keep acting nastier and nastier until I have to cut them out of my life for my own emotional well-being.(These women have had a sort of paranoid tinge to them) I have to say, though, that I do have a few wonderful long-time gal pals. > ** > > > I have had to go thru my share of female friends that had qualities that > were similar to nada. One of my last close female friends I always knew was > a bit flakey, but she really started going off the deep end about four > years ago. I now only keep prefunctory comunnication with her. This was a > better parting than one of my earlier friends that started treating me like > her emotional whipping boy. After considering her my best friend for years, > she gave me the emotional version of whip lash, as she started lashing out > at me. She really gave me no inkling that she would turn on me like that. > She was a little off the wall strange, but never seemed mean. > > I know me and I know that my nada is the reason that I have always > preferred the company of men and other skittish KO's like myself. I have so > many KO friends that it seems like I attract them. > > C > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Well, as fate would have it, I had two PD parents. The gift that > I came out with is an uncanny ability to " read " body language and facial > expressions. I know what people are feeling even when they do not and I can > almost always tell when someone is lying. It is pretty handy. > > > > > > > > > > > > HC > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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