Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 sorry..why would no one call you..did they not know your # or add...again i am sorry ....i wish you peace >>.debbi brantSubject: lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 My email address hasn't changed, it would be super easy to find me online and I know my sister uses a PC. I tried calling her but it seems she has vanished as well...also dead? I don't know, but her phone is disconnected. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Mom died Feb 7, and my sister died March 2nd. I just found both of their obituaries. Since their deaths were so close, I wonder if they were in an accident? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Since my sister died as well, that explains why nobody told me. My relatives in NJ have no clue how to find me and no idea that I go by Akiba. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Oh Lord, Akiba...I just don't know WHAT to say...any words seem futile. My heart aches for you inboth of these losses in your life. What a shock!You went online and found their obituaries?I'm so sorry honey,love to you my friend, Kate lovely> To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > (said sarcastically)> I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details.> Nice, huh?> > ~*~Hugs~*~> ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > love and blessings,Kate Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Ok, Mom died of colon cancer, Bev died of a massive (prescription) drug overdose. It was ruled accidental. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- Re: lovely(debbi brant) Oh Lord, Akiba...I just don't know WHAT to say...any words seem futile. My heart aches for you inboth of these losses in your life. What a shock!You went online and found their obituaries?I'm so sorry honey,love to you my friend, Kate lovely> To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > (said sarcastically)> I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details.> Nice, huh?> > ~*~Hugs~*~> ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > love and blessings,Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Akiba you and Robbin are in my prayers. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com Re: lovely(debbi brant) Oh Lord, Akiba...I just don't know WHAT to say...any words seem futile. My heart aches for you inboth of these losses in your life. What a shock!You went online and found their obituaries?I'm so sorry honey,love to you my friend, Kate lovely> To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > (said sarcastically)> I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details.> Nice, huh?> > ~*~Hugs~*~> ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > love and blessings,Kate Share photos & screenshots in seconds... Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Prayers, for them and for you. in WY Practical Blackwork Designs " You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... " http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com http://practicalblackwork.com Re: lovely(debbi brant) Oh Lord, Akiba...I just don't know WHAT to say... any words seem futile. My heart aches for you in both of these losses in your life. What a shock! You went online and found their obituaries? I'm so sorry honey, love to you my friend, Kate lovely > To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM > > > > (said sarcastically) > I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details. > Nice, huh? > > ~*~Hugs~*~ > ~*~Akiba~*~ > > > > > > > > > love and blessings, Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 Well at least that mystery is solved. Now I wonder what happened? How old were they? SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Mon, July 19, 2010 9:14:47 AMSubject: Re: lovely(debbi brant) Since my sister died as well, that explains why nobody told me. My relatives in NJ have no clue how to find me and no idea that I go by Akiba. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 19, 2010 Report Share Posted July 19, 2010 My sister died of a massive overdose. Prescription drugs, ruled an accident. She was 61. Mom died of colon cancer, she was 81. I have to go down and retrieve their effects from the police, and then go through the house to see if there is a will. I also need to call the probate office and see if there was anything filed there (doubtful) ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 Be sure and take care of yourself during this time - estranged or not, there is still huge grief and loss, and many threads to untangle. Prayers! in WY Practical Blackwork Designs " You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... "    http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com    http://practicalblackwork.com lovely To: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM  (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh?   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~   Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 I spent a lot of time last night thinking, not sleeping. I have to go through her house, there has been nobody there since March so I have no idea what I will find, the electric is probably turned off so it will be hot as the hinges in there, and the stuff in the fridge is undoubtedly rotten, let's not even *think* about meat in the freezer, she had dogs so the house might be waist deep in fleas (her friend has the dogs, I will let them stay there, for one thing I have enough to deal with, for another they are happy there, they don't know me, why disrupt their little lives once again?) I have to look for a will, I called the probate office, there is nothing filed for either of them...also have to see if I can find if there is a mortgage or deed, what about the cars, got to see about getting services restored and can I move in while I am getting it all settled, since I HAVE to move from here by the 12th and it doesn't make sense to sign a years lease when I own a home. I have to talk to Jim (the sheriff) about it. My poor mind is reeling from it all. Somewhat surprised I haven't been thrown into a flair! ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically)I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details.Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 sometimes things work out the way we least expect them in ways we could not imagine - sorry about everything - it feels like a last wish for you to be safe and in a home To: MSersLife Sent: Tue, July 20, 2010 9:37:36 AMSubject: RE: lovely(debbi brant) I spent a lot of time last night thinking, not sleeping. I have to go through her house, there has been nobody there since March so I have no idea what I will find, the electric is probably turned off so it will be hot as the hinges in there, and the stuff in the fridge is undoubtedly rotten, let's not even *think* about meat in the freezer, she had dogs so the house might be waist deep in fleas (her friend has the dogs, I will let them stay there, for one thing I have enough to deal with, for another they are happy there, they don't know me, why disrupt their little lives once again?) I have to look for a will, I called the probate office, there is nothing filed for either of them...also have to see if I can find if there is a mortgage or deed, what about the cars, got to see about getting services restored and can I move in while I am getting it all settled, since I HAVE to move from here by the 12th and it doesn't make sense to sign a years lease when I own a home. I have to talk to Jim (the sheriff) about it. My poor mind is reeling from it all. Somewhat surprised I haven't been thrown into a flair! ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically)I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details.Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 What a mess for you Akiba. Just take it one day at a time. You will remain in my prayers. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically)I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details.Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~ Publish your photos in seconds for FREE Try IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 Not too sure about that, apprently the home is in forclosure...probably because she stopped paying and they don't know she's dead ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- lovelyTo: mserslife@yahoogrou ps.comDate: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically)I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details.Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 Wow, Akiba,No wonder your mind is reeling. Look at all you haveto take care of! I don't think I'd be sleeping well either.Yet you need to take care of yourself, sleep well, eatwell, and try to shake off the stress, which I know iseasier said than done. You can't afford a flare-up, nowor ever. Can the sheriff do a walk-through the house withyou; just so you'll have someone with you? Are youplanning on having Robbin with you, or will he stay withyour neighbor? Try and stay as calm as you can, sweetie.We're here for you hun.Keep the faith.love, Kate lovely> To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > (said sarcastically)> I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details.> Nice, huh?> > ~*~Hugs~*~> ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > love and blessings,Kate Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 I am trying. Finally talked with Bev's friend, got more questions then answers, like, I don't know if they ever WERE buried much less WHERE. He is supposed to call me again this evening. He did rehome the dogs. Rob said he should be home by the weekend, I wish he could make it before Fri, at least. I have a friend who might be able to take me there before so I can at least get the keys and when Rob comes we can go together and he can help me look for the papers I will need. Robbin will come with me. I'm not leaving him for a minute. Neighbor is going to take me to the local convenience store this afternoon, I really think I need a drink, Going to get some beer to have on my birthday (tomorrow) and might even get some for tonight. My poor head. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- Re: RE: lovely(debbi brant) Wow, Akiba,No wonder your mind is reeling. Look at all you haveto take care of! I don't think I'd be sleeping well either.Yet you need to take care of yourself, sleep well, eatwell, and try to shake off the stress, which I know iseasier said than done. You can't afford a flare-up, nowor ever. Can the sheriff do a walk-through the house withyou; just so you'll have someone with you? Are youplanning on having Robbin with you, or will he stay withyour neighbor? Try and stay as calm as you can, sweetie.We're here for you hun.Keep the faith.love, Kate lovely> To: mserslife > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > (said sarcastically)> I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > might know the details.> Nice, huh?> > ~*~Hugs~*~> ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > love and blessings,Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 Yeah, all of this certainly is not birthday gift for you!I understand with keeping Robbin nearby.Hopefully Rob WILL be home by Friday for you. That'sthe least he can do.Enjoy your drink.love, Kate lovely> > To: mserslife > > Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > (said sarcastically)> > I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell > me. > > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > > might know the details.> > Nice, huh?> > > > ~*~Hugs~*~> > ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > love and blessings,> Kate> > > > > love and blessings,Kate Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 Oh, mercy, it's one thing after another! On the good side, it's very possible the mortgage co. will want to work out a deal with you - ain't like real estate is a booming market right now! Maybe legal aid can advise you the best way to approach it... in WY Practical Blackwork Designs " You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... "    http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com    http://practicalblackwork.com lovely To: mserslife@yahoogrou ps.com Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM  (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh?   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~      Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 And Lord knows Rob ALWAYS does the least he can do! ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- Re: RE: lovely(debbi brant) Yeah, all of this certainly is not birthday gift for you!I understand with keeping Robbin nearby.Hopefully Rob WILL be home by Friday for you. That'sthe least he can do.Enjoy your drink.love, Kate lovely> > To: mserslife > > Date: M onday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > (said sarcastically)> > I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell > me. > > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > > might know the details.> > Nice, huh?> > > > ~*~Hugs~*~> > ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > love and blessings,> Kate> > > > > love and blessings,Kate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 20, 2010 Report Share Posted July 20, 2010 lol, ain't that the truth~ lovely> > > To: mserslife > > > Date: M onday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM> > > > > > (said sarcastically)> > > I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell > > me. > > > Apparentlylast year. I have a call in to the one cousin who > > > might know the details.> > > Nice, huh?> > > > > > ~*~Hugs~*~> > > ~*~Akiba~*~> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > love and blessings,> > Kate> > > > > > > > > > > > love and blessings,> Kate> > > > > love and blessings,Kate Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 21, 2010 Report Share Posted July 21, 2010 Have you talked to lyn lately. I had ordered a lot of her 5 herb balm cream a few yrs ago and had people who was using it. I need to order somemore from her. ' in Texas Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running for cover! Subject: lovelyTo: mserslife Date: Monday, July 19, 2010, 12:45 AM (said sarcastically) I just found out my Mother died. And nobody thought to tell me. Apparently last year. I have a call in to the one cousin who might know the details. Nice, huh? ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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