Guest guest Posted July 20, 2011 Report Share Posted July 20, 2011 Had to visit Nada yesterday because I needed to talk with a roofing company about her roof. (I own her house. Yeah, I know, bad idea.) Anywho, we were having a halfway decent visit when she decided to use her VOICE on me, as she always does, out of the blue and for no particular good reason except that I broke one of her arbitrary, petty " rules. " Well, I wasn't in a good mood yesterday. I hadn't had much sleep. So I turned around, glared at her and said, in a very firm voice, DON'T YELL AT ME LIKE THAT. Then I informed her that instead of going to lunch with her, I was going home that instant. I had my daughter with me. Nada doesn't get to see her granddaughter very often because I just don't think it's healthy for her to be around Nada. For the first time EVER there was an apology on my answering machine when I got home. Now, of course, I feel like I should call her and work things out---sort of. I'm torn between two options: 1) Ignoring her for awhile until I can stomach seeing her again and just acting like nothing happened or 2) Calling her and letting her know that though no one EVER calls her on it, she's been using THE VOICE on EVERYONE for as long as I have a memory and I for one will NOT PUT UP WITH IT ANY LONGER. Period. Thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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