Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 I like to read humor sites, and one of my favorites is the cheezeburger network of sites. On Fail Blog, I saw this series of text messages. I think this guy should RUN... my PD sense is tingling. Seriously this gave me the heebie jeebies. It's a series of text messages between 2 people: JJ – 11:18am (Dec 3rd) Hey . Would u like to get together tonight? im off work tomorrow! Besides, I want to see ur face again:) – 12:07pm Just woke up. Man I am dead. Actually I already have plans playing cards tonight. Sorry. I will text u later. Have fun at work JJ – 1:35 pm Oh… JJ – 2:20 pm Dont worry abot texting me later. Talk to u some other time JJ – 5:30 pm Thought u said all u had going on today was paperwork when I asked u yesterday Ya. I did that today. My friends asked me to play cards this morning. JJ So between 2am when I left and 11am when I asked to hang out u made plans? that is since you wok up at 12. Are u kidding me? He texted me at 10am JJ Funny how a guy always gets laid and wants nothing more to do w/ me but my mistake. Take care Kev. Im sorry to have bothered u. JJ – 6:06 pm Please delete my number. JJ – 6:23 pm I dont have any friends , thats why I ask to hang out, and I assumed since you like me, u wouldnt mind getting together more than one a week Anyway Im having a horrible day as it is and I dont like things to end badly. So just want to say, I really do wish the best of lick. Ur a good man Im glad to have met u. Nevermind, my day just got worse…u took me off facebook. And im sitting in a stupid commuter lot cryin. JJ – 6:51 pm . Ur a amazing man, and I dont want to lose u. So is this goodbye? Look, Im on my way over to ur place to apologize. And if u dont like what I have to say, I wont bother u again. JJ – 8:14 pm Well, I just dropped by ur house, but all u guys are gone. I tried my best efforts and even went to ur home to apologize in person. Anyway Im truely sorry . JJ – 8:33 pm Im going back to ur place to wait for u. I already embarassed myself tonight, and I have nothing else to lose. But its worth a try. JJ – 0:06 pm Ur friend was home, knocked on the door to see if by any chance u would be gome even though ur car isnt. But he didnt answer. Look im going to wat for u in this parking lot right by ur house. I know u probably think im crazy, but Im now. Just having the worst dat today and I just want to fix this, because I messed up, and its a crappy feeling. JJ – 9:15pm And if I have to, I will wait all night…because I really like u and I havent felt this excited about anyone, like I do u. JJ – 9:46 pm Please say something , anything. JJ – 10:01 pm U always gome for that good scene, as u see in the movies. Guy/girl waits at the persons front porch that she cares about, all night. And he finally comes home seeing her sat there. they have a conversation and everything is better than it was before. But In my case I ambarassed and made byself look bad by sending un-Godly amout of texts followed by many calls. And now sitting in a parking lot by ur house hoping by some chance u feel the same as I do, and call me, and come 10ft down from your house to tell me everything is ok, u forgive me, and give me a kiss. JJ – 1:12 am (Dec 4) Goodbye . JJ – 3:36 pm (Dec 5) Ok, I lied. I dont want to part ways. Im supposed to go on a date tonight, but I cancelld. I want to date and get to know u . I know I freaked out on u Saturday and scared u, and Im very sorry. Im asking if u will give me a second chance. Im off Friday and Saturday. I was wondering if u let me take u ice skating? =) JJ – 2:43 om Hey , I just want u know, I think ur a great man and Im glat I have got the chance to meet u. Its been a long time since I have been this excited about anyone. But I know ur not going to come around and speak to me after Saturday, so I will part my way. Thanks for making me smile. no one has made me smile like u have. =) Take care of yourself ok? Bye . JJ – 3:49 pm Do u honestly not want to see me anymore? I have a big heart and I care about people, thats why I get persistant at time and has been worst enemy as u can see. I care about u kevin, so if u dont want to see me anyone, please tell me. And I give u my word, I wont call/text u anymore. – 4:06pm I don’t feel comfortable seeing u anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 I dated a guy who was seriously JUST like this. Took about 3 months before he finally stopped texting. So creepy! > I like to read humor sites, and one of my favorites is the > cheezeburger network of sites. On Fail Blog, I saw this series of > text messages. I think this guy should RUN... my PD sense is > tingling. > > Seriously this gave me the heebie jeebies. It's a series of text > messages between 2 people: > > > > JJ – 11:18am (Dec 3rd) > Hey . Would u like to get together tonight? im off work > tomorrow! Besides, I want to see ur face again:) > > – 12:07pm > Just woke up. Man I am dead. Actually I already have plans playing > cards tonight. Sorry. > I will text u later. Have fun at work > > JJ – 1:35 pm > Oh… > > JJ – 2:20 pm > Dont worry abot texting me later. Talk to u some other time > > JJ – 5:30 pm > Thought u said all u had going on today was paperwork when I asked u yesterday > > > Ya. I did that today. My friends asked me to play cards this morning. > > JJ > So between 2am when I left and 11am when I asked to hang out u made > plans? that is since you wok up at 12. > > > Are u kidding me? He texted me at 10am > > JJ > Funny how a guy always gets laid and wants nothing more to do w/ me > but my mistake. Take care Kev. Im sorry to have bothered u. > > JJ – 6:06 pm > Please delete my number. > > JJ – 6:23 pm > I dont have any friends , thats why I ask to hang out, and I > assumed since you like me, u wouldnt mind getting together more than > one a week > > Anyway Im having a horrible day as it is and I dont like things to end > badly. So just want to say, I really do wish the best of lick. Ur a > good man > > Im glad to have met u. > > Nevermind, my day just got worse…u took me off facebook. And im > sitting in a stupid commuter lot cryin. > > JJ – 6:51 pm > . Ur a amazing man, and I dont want to lose u. > > So is this goodbye? > > Look, Im on my way over to ur place to apologize. And if u dont like > what I have to say, I wont bother u again. > > JJ – 8:14 pm > Well, I just dropped by ur house, but all u guys are gone. I tried my > best efforts and even went to ur home to apologize in person. Anyway > Im truely sorry . > > JJ – 8:33 pm > Im going back to ur place to wait for u. I already embarassed myself > tonight, and I have nothing else to lose. But its worth a try. > > JJ – 0:06 pm > Ur friend was home, knocked on the door to see if by any chance u > would be gome even though ur car isnt. But he didnt answer. > > Look im going to wat for u in this parking lot right by ur house. I > know u probably think im crazy, but Im now. Just having the worst dat > today and I just want to fix this, because I messed up, and its a > crappy feeling. > > JJ – 9:15pm > And if I have to, I will wait all night…because I really like u and I > havent felt this excited about anyone, like I do u. > > JJ – 9:46 pm > Please say something , anything. > > JJ – 10:01 pm > U always gome for that good scene, as u see in the movies. Guy/girl > waits at the persons front porch that she cares about, all night. And > he finally comes home seeing her sat there. they have a conversation > and everything is better than it was before. But In my case I > ambarassed and made byself look bad by sending un-Godly amout of texts > followed by many calls. And now sitting in a parking lot by ur house > hoping by some chance u feel the same as I do, and call me, and come > 10ft down from your house to tell me everything is ok, u forgive me, > and give me a kiss. > > JJ – 1:12 am (Dec 4) > Goodbye . > > JJ – 3:36 pm (Dec 5) > Ok, I lied. I dont want to part ways. Im supposed to go on a date > tonight, but I cancelld. I want to date and get to know u . > > I know I freaked out on u Saturday and scared u, and Im very sorry. Im > asking if u will give me a second chance. > > Im off Friday and Saturday. I was wondering if u let me take u ice skating? =) > > JJ – 2:43 om > Hey , I just want u know, I think ur a great man and Im glat I > have got the chance to meet u. > Its been a long time since I have been this excited about anyone. But > I know ur not going to come around and speak to me after Saturday, so > I will part my way. Thanks for making me smile. no one has made me > smile like u have. =) Take care of yourself ok? Bye . > > JJ – 3:49 pm > Do u honestly not want to see me anymore? > I have a big heart and I care about people, thats why I get > persistant at time and has been worst enemy as u can see. > I care about u kevin, so if u dont want to see me anyone, please tell > me. And I give u my word, I wont call/text u anymore. > > – 4:06pm > I don’t feel comfortable seeing u anymore. > > > ------------------------------------ > > **This group is based on principles in Randi Kreger's new book The Essential Family Guide to Borderline Personality Disorder: New Tips and Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells, available at www.BPDCentral.com.** Problems? Write @.... DO NOT RESPOND ON THE LIST. > > To unsub from this list, send a blank email to WTOAdultChildren1-unsubscribe . > > Recommended: " Toxic Parents, " " Surviving a Borderline Parent, " and " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (hard to find) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 Oh wow Sunehri, I'm glad he's an ex now. Yikes! > > > > I dated a guy who was seriously JUST like this. Took about 3 months before he finally stopped texting. So creepy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 Yes... obsessive, persistent, unwelcome attempts at communicating, aka stalking. I guess a lot of us have experienced that at one time or another. It made me feel anxious just reading that sample! " Stalking is a crime of obsession, and is often associated with different types of psychopathology, often an Axis II, Cluster B personality disorder [antisocial, borderline, narcissistic, and histrionic] (Mullen 1999). " full article: http://tami-port.suite101.com/personality-of-a-stalker-a32237 I guess " " is lucky that all " JJ " did was send a lot of unwanted, whiney texts; the stalkers who become hostile and revengeful are the dangerous ones who want to " get you back " in physical ways for rejecting them. -Annie > > > > > > > > I dated a guy who was seriously JUST like this. Took about 3 months before he finally stopped texting. So creepy! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 Uggghhhh....if that text " exchange' is real, it's super creepy. should definitely run, and run fast. JJ is most definitely PD, very needy. Nothing good would come from making further contact with JJ. It just sucks that JJ knows where he lives! > > I like to read humor sites, and one of my favorites is the > cheezeburger network of sites. On Fail Blog, I saw this series of > text messages. I think this guy should RUN... my PD sense is > tingling. > > Seriously this gave me the heebie jeebies. It's a series of text > messages between 2 people: > > > > JJ – 11:18am (Dec 3rd) > Hey . Would u like to get together tonight? im off work > tomorrow! Besides, I want to see ur face again:) > > – 12:07pm > Just woke up. Man I am dead. Actually I already have plans playing > cards tonight. Sorry. > I will text u later. Have fun at work > > JJ – 1:35 pm > Oh… > > JJ – 2:20 pm > Dont worry abot texting me later. Talk to u some other time > > JJ – 5:30 pm > Thought u said all u had going on today was paperwork when I asked u yesterday > > > Ya. I did that today. My friends asked me to play cards this morning. > > JJ > So between 2am when I left and 11am when I asked to hang out u made > plans? that is since you wok up at 12. > > > Are u kidding me? He texted me at 10am > > JJ > Funny how a guy always gets laid and wants nothing more to do w/ me > but my mistake. Take care Kev. Im sorry to have bothered u. > > JJ – 6:06 pm > Please delete my number. > > JJ – 6:23 pm > I dont have any friends , thats why I ask to hang out, and I > assumed since you like me, u wouldnt mind getting together more than > one a week > > Anyway Im having a horrible day as it is and I dont like things to end > badly. So just want to say, I really do wish the best of lick. Ur a > good man > > Im glad to have met u. > > Nevermind, my day just got worse…u took me off facebook. And im > sitting in a stupid commuter lot cryin. > > JJ – 6:51 pm > . Ur a amazing man, and I dont want to lose u. > > So is this goodbye? > > Look, Im on my way over to ur place to apologize. And if u dont like > what I have to say, I wont bother u again. > > JJ – 8:14 pm > Well, I just dropped by ur house, but all u guys are gone. I tried my > best efforts and even went to ur home to apologize in person. Anyway > Im truely sorry . > > JJ – 8:33 pm > Im going back to ur place to wait for u. I already embarassed myself > tonight, and I have nothing else to lose. But its worth a try. > > JJ – 0:06 pm > Ur friend was home, knocked on the door to see if by any chance u > would be gome even though ur car isnt. But he didnt answer. > > Look im going to wat for u in this parking lot right by ur house. I > know u probably think im crazy, but Im now. Just having the worst dat > today and I just want to fix this, because I messed up, and its a > crappy feeling. > > JJ – 9:15pm > And if I have to, I will wait all night…because I really like u and I > havent felt this excited about anyone, like I do u. > > JJ – 9:46 pm > Please say something , anything. > > JJ – 10:01 pm > U always gome for that good scene, as u see in the movies. Guy/girl > waits at the persons front porch that she cares about, all night. And > he finally comes home seeing her sat there. they have a conversation > and everything is better than it was before. But In my case I > ambarassed and made byself look bad by sending un-Godly amout of texts > followed by many calls. And now sitting in a parking lot by ur house > hoping by some chance u feel the same as I do, and call me, and come > 10ft down from your house to tell me everything is ok, u forgive me, > and give me a kiss. > > JJ – 1:12 am (Dec 4) > Goodbye . > > JJ – 3:36 pm (Dec 5) > Ok, I lied. I dont want to part ways. Im supposed to go on a date > tonight, but I cancelld. I want to date and get to know u . > > I know I freaked out on u Saturday and scared u, and Im very sorry. Im > asking if u will give me a second chance. > > Im off Friday and Saturday. I was wondering if u let me take u ice skating? =) > > JJ – 2:43 om > Hey , I just want u know, I think ur a great man and Im glat I > have got the chance to meet u. > Its been a long time since I have been this excited about anyone. But > I know ur not going to come around and speak to me after Saturday, so > I will part my way. Thanks for making me smile. no one has made me > smile like u have. =) Take care of yourself ok? Bye . > > JJ – 3:49 pm > Do u honestly not want to see me anymore? > I have a big heart and I care about people, thats why I get > persistant at time and has been worst enemy as u can see. > I care about u kevin, so if u dont want to see me anyone, please tell > me. And I give u my word, I wont call/text u anymore. > > – 4:06pm > I don't feel comfortable seeing u anymore. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2012 Report Share Posted February 26, 2012 Yeah, me too lol. I think that's probably the only example I've seen of a waify needy type male potential bpd. Seems to me most of the bpd men lean towards the NPD category. > Oh wow Sunehri, I'm glad he's an ex now. Yikes! > > > > > > > > > > I dated a guy who was seriously JUST like this. Took about 3 months before he finally stopped texting. So creepy! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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