Anne...Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

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Thanks Anne,..its nice to know you all feel that way about me because my home family is really screwed up right now, and its been affecting me pretty bad. I'm so glad you are all here! :-)

Hugs and love, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

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birth certificate families and in laws and out laws do not understand - many don't want to - their problem - not ours

a hot shower or bubble bath is a great stress reliever

everyone of us can say - been there - done that - wore out the @#$%^ & ^ tee shirt God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there.

To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, January 20, 2011 5:43:02 PMSubject: Anne...Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

Thanks Anne,..its nice to know you all feel that way about me because my home family is really screwed up right now, and its been affecting me pretty bad. I'm so glad you are all here! :-)

Hugs and love, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

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Anne,...I don't mean this to sound "woe is me", but I have plenty of family around the area, but no one calls or comes over. In fact most of them don't even ask how I am. My kids are so involved in their own stuff they turn to me for comfort as I have been their sounding board always. I've tried to tell them that things have changed in me and I can't handle all the stress the way I use to, but it doesn't seem to get thru. I feel like I'm not being a good mother if I don't listen, and if I say I can't then I don't hear from them.

Steve is getting just as disabled with his Lupus and now fibromyalgia that between the 2 of us its all we can do to do the bare minimum. We are going to be making a move soon to a small community that will have many amenities I will be able to get outside help to relieve him of some of his burdens.

A hot bath with foo foo was my stress reliever, but I can't get in or out of a bathtub now, and barely can get in the shower, so we do spit bathing these days. How i'd give anything to get into a tub. The pool where we are moving to has a therapy pool, and a hoyer lift and I am so excited to try it out. :-)

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php

[Guest guest]

to one degree or another we all deal with family - heart family is there for you - the others can't or won't deal with reality and what goes on with us - take care of you - the detach and release part takes a while to master

hang in there God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there.

To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, January 20, 2011 6:07:39 PMSubject: Re: Anne...Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

Anne,...I don't mean this to sound "woe is me", but I have plenty of family around the area, but no one calls or comes over. In fact most of them don't even ask how I am. My kids are so involved in their own stuff they turn to me for comfort as I have been their sounding board always. I've tried to tell them that things have changed in me and I can't handle all the stress the way I use to, but it doesn't seem to get thru. I feel like I'm not being a good mother if I don't listen, and if I say I can't then I don't hear from them.

Steve is getting just as disabled with his Lupus and now fibromyalgia that between the 2 of us its all we can do to do the bare minimum. We are going to be making a move soon to a small community that will have many amenities I will be able to get outside help to relieve him of some of his burdens.

A hot bath with foo foo was my stress reliever, but I can't get in or out of a bathtub now, and barely can get in the shower, so we do spit bathing these days. How i'd give anything to get into a tub. The pool where we are moving to has a therapy pool, and a hoyer lift and I am so excited to try it out. :-)

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php