Re: Jackie----Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

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you are normal - they are wierd and their manners leave a lot to be desired God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there.

To: MSersLife Sent: Fri, January 21, 2011 1:41:34 PMSubject: Jackie----Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

YOU? A troublemaker??? lol You will never be reprimanded here! I can't believe anyone would consider you a troublemaker:)I am so glad you are back! I am sorry to hear your family is having a drama party lately. Hopefully all that will settle down soon. How is your husband? Has he heard if he will have to work elsewhere and, is so, are you moving?love

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To: MSersLife Sent: Thu, January 20, 2011 2:22:42 PMSubject: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

Hi Kate,....thanks for the welcome back. I feel like I need to explain why I keep leaving and coming back. I use to belong to several yahoo groups, and with only being able to type one handed I had to switch off posting to only one group at a time to preserve my hand so I could rest it for being able to keep up with my personal hygiene, etc. Then for awhile now there has been a lot of high drama taking place in my family, from break ups, to fights between siblings and spouses, and all of that has caused massive flares in all my illnesses, and thrown me into a big depression. I keep trying to shake it, and then something else happens and I find myself back into the depths of despair. I never use to let stuff get me so down that I didn't or couldn't pull myself up eventually and get past it. I think now because there's been one thing after another it doesn't give me time to rest. Just lately I stood up for

someone on another group I was in, and I got reprimanded for being a trouble maker, so now I feel cautious about what I can or should say. So I thought because everyone here has been so supportive of me, and happy I am part of you all, I'd stick with one group from now on. I hope I don't say anything here to scew it up! :-0

How is it going with you and everyone else too? I really need you guys/gals to talk with me as I am in a bad place right now and need the support. Dang, I feel so needy, and I'm usually the one trying to encourage others. :-(

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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Hi Sharon,......I guess when you think you are doing the right thing by standing up and defending someone there are others who will view you as making waves. How things have changed in our world. :-(

Of all the years this group has been going I don't remember a time where anyone had been disrespectful to another member. If so I probably would have stood up for the one who was being bashed. Thats the way I was raised and what I believe to be the right thing to do. As far back as 1st grade I remember coming to the rescue of a girl who was mentally challenged and wet her pants on the school grounds and the other kids made fun of her. I felt so bad for her I helped her up and took her to the school nurse. At 6 yrs old I knew it wasn't right to make fun of someone or belittle them. So you can imagine my shock when I was told I was the troublemaker for telling the "bully" of that group to stop making disparaging remarks to everyone. I'm still with that group, but only for info and maybe an occasional input about the medical condition.

I don't know what is going to happen about the move and when. Some days its all I can do in waiting to hear when or if its going to happen for sure. The little town we want to relocate to is so perfect and in my mind I've already placed myself there and in the pool, and a nice big house so I can finally use my power chair inside. I have such high and idealistic hopes and get so disappointed if it doesn't pan out. But, I've been told when one door closes another better one opens. So thats what I have to focus on.

My family is calm for the moment. My son's fiancee` broke off the marriage 2 days before they were going to get married. No reason, no warning, nothing out of the ordinary, but saying it wasn't his fault but hers. He was devastated because he had allowed himself to let this one capture his heart. And the girls loved her and bonded with her more so than anyone else. Plus a couple days before she did this she took his dog and gave it back to its original owner and he was pretty broken up about that.

So they are all trying to make sense of it as well as me and Steve.

Before all that happened my son and Tina's hubby got into a knock down drug out fight and now neither one of them will be in the same house together, and this happened before Thanksgiving and so we had split holiday's for the second year in a row. [last year something similar happen too between them] and Nana and PopPop always get drug into it and placed in the middle and expected to choose sides which we do not, but each one thinks we do.

Yi, yi yi,.......:-0

On top of all of this Steve has been having higher and higher pain levels, and memory problems which has been progressing even before any of the drama started. I worry about Steve because he isn't a very strong person that can take much pain or emotional stress. He shuts down, and its always been me who has been his "cheerleader" and now I am stuck in the mire with him. So we need to do something different to help ourselves and thats why I am hoping this move will go thru.

Thanks for caring Sharon, you've always been a good friend. All my other close friends have died within the last few years, so I think that has played a part of my depression too. I will overcome this with the Lords help, it just takes time. :-) I already feel better with the comments and encouragement I recieved here. So grateful for all of you. :-)

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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Wow, I am SO sorry for your son! Why did she give away his dog? Then leave him? How heartless! Hate to say it but if that is the way she is, maybe she did him a favor. Of course he won't see that for some time but that's what I see.

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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-- RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

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She said because the dog was making messes in the apt. she couldn't stand the smell. Plus he had chewed a hole in the bathroom door. He's still a puppy for garsh sakes. If she had planned on leaving then what was it to her if he kept the dog? CUTE puppy, I even fell in love with him [Nugget]. In fact all our Christmas pictures have him in it, and now what a bad memory to go with them. I had bought a crate for him [still sitting in my living room because she got rid of him before we had a chance to get it to them] so he could go in there with his blankey until came home for lunch, and then after work he would just stay out with the fam until work the next morn. We think whoever she got the dog from wanted him back. Plus

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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Well it was just SO wrong of her to do that. What a <insert alternate word for female of the canine species>.

Get him another dog, it will help him heal.

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~*~Akiba~*~

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-- RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

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I looked for him yesterday from "petfinders" found the most cutest Westie, spendy, but soooooo cute, but he says he just can't get another dog right away. Plus this engagement was his first after 10 yrs of being divorced, and he really thought he had found "the one" this time. I feel really bad for him because it seems like he gets the raw end of the deals, but on the other hand he's the luckiest person I've known when it comes to finding money! lol..

Hindsight will eventually show him the signs of who she really was. :-(

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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Are they in touch or did she just dump him and vanish?

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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-- RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

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They texted for a few days until he found out she was telling everyone he was forcing her into marrying him which was the furthest from the truth. She needs help, come to find out this is her MO, and isn't the first time she's done this to someone. Stays long enough to suck the life and money out of them, and then bolts. He had the locks on his apt. changed and told her he wanted to be there when she came to get the rest of her stuff. She had someone at the office let her in the day before, and they all denied someone would do that so he has no proof. Even the police says they can't do anything about it. Now he's worried about when the next time she will come in when he's not home, and who will she bring with her and what will she take? He can't move because he just signed a 9 mo lease a couple days before she pulled all of this thinking

they would be able to afford $1000+ a mo. with her income too. This whole thing just goes so deep and thats what has him so angry, and emotionally wrecked. Oh, and she took his last food card and went out and bought food for herself and left him $30. for the rest of the month. He didn't renew his food stamps because he upped his hours at the clinic so he could make enough money to support them. His daycare was taken away too. :-( He was on partial disability because he has painful back problems and Dercums too, but when he and she made all these plans he sucked it up and added more hours which raised his income.

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

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I stand by my female canine assessment

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-- RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

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Oh, this is just awful stuff, Jackie. She sounds like she has some real and serious chronic problems. My heart aches for your son, what a terrible predicament he is in! I hope something will 'give' and he'll either get a room mate with whom he can share rent and expenses, or be able to reapply for food stamps, and perhaps be granted them, even with the bit extra income. I hope this can resolve quickly and happily.gentle hugs, KateTo:

MSersLife Sent: Fri, January 21, 2011 5:20:02 PMSubject: Re: Jackie----Re: KATE and ALL [was]Re: Robbin

They texted for a few days until he found out she was telling everyone he was forcing her into marrying him which was the furthest from the truth. She needs help, come to find out this is her MO, and isn't the first time she's done this to someone. Stays long enough to suck the life and money out of them, and then bolts. He had the locks on his apt. changed and told her he wanted to be there when she came to get the rest of her stuff. She had someone at the office let her in the day before, and they all denied someone would do that so he has no proof. Even the police says they can't do anything about it. Now he's worried about when the next time she will come in when he's not home, and who will she bring with her and what will she take? He can't move because he just signed a

9 mo lease a couple days before she pulled all of this thinking

they would be able to afford $1000+ a mo. with her income too. This whole thing just goes so deep and thats what has him so angry, and emotionally wrecked. Oh, and she took his last food card and went out and bought food for herself and left him $30. for the rest of the month. He didn't renew his food stamps because he upped his hours at the clinic so he could make enough money to support them. His daycare was taken away too. :-( He was on partial disability because he has painful back problems and Dercums too, but when he and she made all these plans he sucked it up and added more hours which raised his income.

Hugs, Jackie

Subject: RobbinTo: mserslife Date: Wednesday, January 19, 2011, 9:13 PM

Robbin is the only kid I have ever heard of who "self-punishes". If he does something wrong, which is very rare, he will punish himself. Just now he did something "wrong", which could have damaged his bike but thankfully did not. When I went past his PC just now, he wasn't there. Where are you? He was in his closet! He self-punishes! It is SO cute there are no words....I told him that was not necessary...damn but he is just such an awesome kid!

  ~*~Hugs~*~

~*~Akiba~*~

Pragmatic Visionary

http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php