Talking behind my back >:/

[Guest guest]

My Eskie had two puppies that just turned old enough to get adopted out now. So

I was in a rush trying to get everything ready for the family who was going to

come look at them. As I came back in from the porch where they are playing with

the puppies I catch nada telling my fada in a low, conspirational tone that I

don't want to help him book his hotels etc. when he is traveling abroad. So I

interrupted her by saying, " Because you'll help him with that? Gimme a break! " I

told them that even though I seemed short-tempered sometimes when I had too much

on my plate I STILL pulled through for them. The only thing I told fada was to

please take the time difference into consideration because he woke me up at 2am

before and I have to get up to go to work early. Nada has NEVER booked ANYTHING

for fada or anyone else for that matter. Well maybe when I was a kid but now I

am her travel agent! You would think on the last trip we took to Texas to see

HER sister that she would help out? Hell no. I had to buy the tickets, call

transit agencies, you name it. She's got some nerve...then again you can't rely

on a crazy person.

[Guest guest]

oh honey, it's the same thing I go through. My mother can make me feel

sooooooooooooooooooo guilty for not helping fada with his various projects in

his yard. (Were he a normal human being and not a bitter, abusive creep I would

love to help him because god knows I would be eternally grateful to have learned

from him anything he could have taught me about woodworking and construction).

Can you believe that I am almost 43 and I JUST realized that SHE never helps

him? SHE NEVER HAS. Why? Because she doesn't like working outside and because

she doesn't want to be subject to his abuse. It's unbelievable to me I never

thought of this before, she is so busy manipulating me to feel like a rotten

piece of crap that I never even notice she doesn't help with crap.

It just goes to prove, for all time, that the BPD and the co-BPD are in

cahoots...in cahoots...in cahoots. In law enforcement they call it 'good cop/bad

cop' but they are so up each other's butthole. Sorry to be crude it just gets me

so angry.

Hugs.

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> My Eskie had two puppies that just turned old enough to get adopted out now.

So I was in a rush trying to get everything ready for the family who was going

to come look at them. As I came back in from the porch where they are playing

with the puppies I catch nada telling my fada in a low, conspirational tone that

I don't want to help him book his hotels etc. when he is traveling abroad. So I

interrupted her by saying, " Because you'll help him with that? Gimme a break! " I

told them that even though I seemed short-tempered sometimes when I had too much

on my plate I STILL pulled through for them. The only thing I told fada was to

please take the time difference into consideration because he woke me up at 2am

before and I have to get up to go to work early. Nada has NEVER booked ANYTHING

for fada or anyone else for that matter. Well maybe when I was a kid but now I

am her travel agent! You would think on the last trip we took to Texas to see

HER sister that she would help out? Hell no. I had to buy the tickets, call

transit agencies, you name it. She's got some nerve...then again you can't rely

on a crazy person.

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