Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This time, though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not the rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too cold out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got some groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he just...well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry yesterday...and paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a son, well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's, but he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to stay that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it or not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 Your a better woman than I am Akiba. After what he has pulled I wouldn't be as understanding. Good luck. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world " " May the Lord Bless you and keep you, May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever " Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancer Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com The Cancer Club www.cancerclub.com > himself > > JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This > time, > though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not > the > rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too > cold > out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got > some > groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he > just.. > well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry yesterday...and > paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a > son, > well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's, > but > he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to stay > that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it or > not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok. > > > > > > ~*~Hugs~*~ > > ~*~Akiba~*~ > > Pragmatic Visionary > > http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php ____________________________________________________________ TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5 Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 I don't do it for me, I sure don't do it for him, I do it for Robbin, and you would too. You are a Mother.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php -- himself> > JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> time,> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> the> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> cold> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> some> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> just..> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry yesterday...and> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> son,> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> but> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to stay> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it or> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> > > > > > ~*~Hugs~*~> > ~*~Akiba~*~> > Pragmatic Visionary> > http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php__________________________________________________________TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friendsthrough IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 I am a Mother but wouldn't do it. Since the kids were tiny my motto has been, you can mess with me, but do NOT mess with my kids. I would allow Rob to visit Robbin IF he didn't upset him. If did that would be it Its not mentally healthy for him to keep doing the things he does to Robbin, or you.. He has hurt him way too many times. Sorry but thats how I am. Hugs nne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world " " May the Lord Bless you and keep you, May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever " Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancer http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancer Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com The Cancer Club www.cancerclub.com > himself > >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This > >> time, > >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not > >> the > >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too > >> cold > >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got > >> some > >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he > >> just.. > >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry >> yesterday...and > >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a > >> son, > >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's, > >> but > >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to >> stay > >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it >> or > >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok. > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~ > >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~ > >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary > >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php > > > > __________________________________________________________ > > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5 > > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends > > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST! ____________________________________________________________ Publish your photos in seconds for FREE TRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 I am a mom and a grandma - I held my tongue for years - now even the youngest knows his dad for what he is - an idjut I am concerned with what will happen the next time Rob acts out to you - Robbin will protect his mom God, grant me the strength of eagles wings, the faith and courage to fly to new heights, and the wisdom to rely on his spirit to carry me there. To: mserslife Sent: Wed, January 26, 2011 4:03:16 PMSubject: RE: himself I am a Mother but wouldn't do it. Since the kids were tiny my motto has been, you can mess with me, but do NOT mess with my kids. I would allow Rob to visit Robbin IF he didn't upset him. If did that would be it Its not mentally healthy for him to keep doing the things he does to Robbin, or you.. He has hurt him way too many times. Sorry but thats how I am.HugsnneTo the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com> himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 It will be fine, Robbin and I talk about it all the time. I keep him prepared for anything, and let him know how much he is loved all of the time. It is his choice to have Rob around, I have given him the option, he says as long as dad is being nice he likes having him here. When Rob is on his good behavior, he actually is nice to be around.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php -- himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011  Wow Akiba, are you sure you know what you're doing? Isn't all the 'in' and 'out' confusing enough for Robbin and no way should a child have to protect his mother. Question for you which you certainly don't have to answer but please think about ... do you still have feelings for Rob and how much factors in that occasionally he can be helpful? Please know I'm not being critical or judgemental but I think of why I stayed with my idiot so long ... I allowed him to make me believe I needed him. I just couldn't see it or probably wouldn't admit to seeing it ... hugs, Cait himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 Good luck and I hope Rob doesn't screw up again. What the heck am I saying??? Of course he will screw up because he IS Rob:) lol..... You are a kind and generous person, Akiba, and he is lucky to have a place to stay. hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: mserslife Sent: Wed, January 26, 2011 1:34:56 PMSubject: himself JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This time, though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not the rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too cold out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got some groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he just...well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry yesterday...and paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a son, well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's, but he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to stay that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it or not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 I don't know if I have feelings for him or not. I was angry and hurt for so long, but I HAD to release that because it would have killed me. He can be helpful when he wants to be, and I am well aware that he has a cruel streak a mile wide. But it is better to get along with him then to not, better for Robbin. Do I know what I am doing? Does anyone? The future is just that...the future, what I have to deal with is the now. And like I said, he is being very good right now, so my better choice is to just run with it and try and make it last, and be as smooth as possible for Robbin. One thing I have learned is just as I should never underestimate Rob, I should also never underestimate Robbin. He is a smart kid and knows where it's at. He and I are a team and even Rob now knows he can never break that up.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php -- Re: himself  Wow Akiba, are you sure you know what you're doing? Isn't all the 'in' and 'out' confusing enough for Robbin and no way should a child have to protect his mother. Question for you which you certainly don't have to answer but please think about ... do you still have feelings for Rob and how much factors in that occasionally he can be helpful? Please know I'm not being critical or judgemental but I think of why I stayed with my idiot so long ... I allowed him to make me believe I needed him. I just couldn't see it or probably wouldn't admit to seeing it ... hugs, Cait himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 Enjoy the good Rob while you can. I'm glad Robbin can see him being nice for now. That's good for Robbin:)hugs SharonThis email is a natural hand made product. The slight variations in spelling and grammar enhance its individual character and beauty and in no way are to be considered flaws or defects. To: MSersLife Sent: Wed, January 26, 2011 4:02:09 PMSubject: Re: himself I don't know if I have feelings for him or not. I was angry and hurt for so long, but I HAD to release that because it would have killed me. He can be helpful when he wants to be, and I am well aware that he has a cruel streak a mile wide. But it is better to get along with him then to not, better for Robbin. Do I know what I am doing? Does anyone? The future is just that...the future, what I have to deal with is the now. And like I said, he is being very good right now, so my better choice is to just run with it and try and make it last, and be as smooth as possible for Robbin. One thing I have learned is just as I should never underestimate Rob, I should also never underestimate Robbin. He is a smart kid and knows where it's at. He and I are a team and even Rob now knows he can never break that up.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php -- Re: himself  Wow Akiba, are you sure you know what you're doing? Isn't all the 'in' and 'out' confusing enough for Robbin and no way should a child have to protect his mother. Question for you which you certainly don't have to answer but please think about ... do you still have feelings for Rob and how much factors in that occasionally he can be helpful? Please know I'm not being critical or judgemental but I think of why I stayed with my idiot so long ... I allowed him to make me believe I needed him. I just couldn't see it or probably wouldn't admit to seeing it ... hugs, Cait himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 26, 2011 Report Share Posted January 26, 2011 Thanks. HE can be good when he wants to, and Robbin needs to see the power of forgiveness and tolerance. He can be somewhat intolerant at times and needs to learn flexibility. Hopefully I am teaching him that.   ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Pragmatic Visionary http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php -- Re: himself  Wow Akiba, are you sure you know what you're doing? Isn't all the 'in' and 'out' confusing enough for Robbin and no way should a child have to protect his mother. Question for you which you certainly don't have to answer but please think about ... do you still have feelings for Rob and how much factors in that occasionally he can be helpful? Please know I'm not being critical or judgemental but I think of why I stayed with my idiot so long ... I allowed him to make me believe I needed him. I just couldn't see it or probably wouldn't admit to seeing it .. hugs, Cait himself> >> > >> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This> >> time,> >> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not> >> the> >> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too> >> cold> >> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got> >> some> >> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he> >> just..> >> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry>> yesterday...and> >> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a> >> son,> >> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's,> >> but> >> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to>> stay> >> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it>> or> >> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok.> >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> ~*~Hugs~*~> >> > >> ~*~Akiba~*~> >> > >> Pragmatic Visionary> >> > >> http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> > > > __________________________________________________________> > TRY FREE IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if5> > Capture screenshots, upload images, edit and send them to your friends> > through IMs, post on Twitter®, Facebook®, MySpace™, LinkedIn® – FAST!__________________________________________________________Publish your photos in seconds for FREETRY IM TOOLPACK at http://www.imtoolpack.com/default.aspx?rc=if4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2011 Report Share Posted January 27, 2011 Well... Congratulations is in order, I guess! And a wish for good luck with the days ahead.love/Reb>> JUst letting all y'all know that Rob seems to have moved back in. This time,> though, he is playing by the rules...MY rules. How did this happen? Not the> rules, the staying here I mean. Well, the other night it was just too cold> out for man nor beast, so I let him stay. The next day he went and got some> groceries, and stayed that night too (it was also very cold). Then he just..> well...stayed. He is being very nice, even did my laundry yesterday...and> paid for it! Robbin likes having him around, and as long as we share a son,> well, Robbin's feelings matter. He isn't the greatest fan of his dad's, but> he does love him and for the reasons I mentioned before I want it to stay> that way. *sigh* I guess Rob will be part of my life whether I like it or> not. As long as he behaves, I guess it's ok. > >   > ~*~Hugs~*~ > ~*~Akiba~*~ > Pragmatic Visionary > http://www.affiliates-natural-salt-lamps.com/pages/156.php> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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