Guest guest Posted August 12, 2010 Report Share Posted August 12, 2010 , you have been reading my mind. . .again!(what is left of it),Love,nTo: MSersLife Sent: Thu, August 12, 2010 1:48:53 PMSubject: RE: today I'm afraid if there is no legal custody order in place, there can be no kidnapping charge - maybe I'm wrong, but I've seen enough cases to worry. (And in many jurisdictions it don't matter squat what Robbin wants...) Call legal aid in your area and find out. I really really don't want to see you find out the hard way if Robb decides again that being a "poor pitiful single father ooo give us a home babe" works in his favor with some floozy again, you know? Just sayin'.... in WY Practical Blackwork Designs "You get a wonderful view from the point of no return..." http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com http://practicalblackwork.com today Ok, yesterday I found a guy on craigslist to help Rob with the house (my sister's), he has a truck. It will cost me a big chunk of change but the stuff WILL get here and with someone else there I think it will be harder for Rob to get away with stuff. His Mom took him there, and is staying to help and bring stuff in her truck as well (she has one of those huge ram trucks). Once that part is over, I will find an estate dealer to buy the rest, then to get the house sale-able and put it on the market. This is all assuming I can forestall the foreclosure, which I think I have done, so far, since I called them and explained it all so they know she's not a deadbeat, she's just the "dead" part of that (morbid humor, sorry). I'll let y'all know how it goes. Rob has been getting itchy to get back to "his life", even said "you know as soon as this is over, I am outta here, I have a life to live". Well good luck with that, since one of the first things *I* am going to do is take him to court for child support. I am biding my time because I want this done and he is really the only one who can do it. So, yes, I guess I am using him a little, but after all of the crap he has put ME through, well, this is minimum payback, doesn't really even begin to cover....not to mention having to put up with his attitude these last few weeks. Only made worse by my not letting him in my bed. Oh yes, the FIRST night that he was back he hit on me...I'd JUST lost my mom and sister and the dog put the moves on me! I declined, said I really just needed to sleep...and he has been cold as ice since. *sigh* well he will be gone soon, WITHOUT Robbin. Robbin stays with me, and if Rob pulls any crap and tries to take him, well, the last time they let him because we were still married, not this time, and Robbin does NOT want to go with him, so he's lost this round. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Send your photos by email in seconds... Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2010 Report Share Posted August 12, 2010 Hopefully I'm just a big old OCD worrywart - but better safe than sorry where our kids are concerned, yes? in WY Practical Blackwork Designs " You get a wonderful view from the point of no return... " http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com http://practicalblackwork.com today Ok, yesterday I found a guy on craigslist to help Rob with the house (my sister's), he has a truck. It will cost me a big chunk of change but the stuff WILL get here and with someone else there I think it will be harder for Rob to get away with stuff. His Mom took him there, and is staying to help and bring stuff in her truck as well (she has one of those huge ram trucks). Once that part is over, I will find an estate dealer to buy the rest, then to get the house sale-able and put it on the market. This is all assuming I can forestall the foreclosure, which I think I have done, so far, since I called them and explained it all so they know she's not a deadbeat, she's just the " dead " part of that (morbid humor, sorry). I'll let y'all know how it goes. Rob has been getting itchy to get back to " his life " , even said " you know as soon as this is over, I am outta here, I have a life to live " . Well good luck with that, since one of the first things *I* am going to do is take him to court for child support. I am biding my time because I want this done and he is really the only one who can do it. So, yes, I guess I am using him a little, but after all of the crap he has put ME through, well, this is minimum payback, doesn't really even begin to cover....not to mention having to put up with his attitude these last few weeks. Only made worse by my not letting him in my bed. Oh yes, the FIRST night that he was back he hit on me...I'd JUST lost my mom and sister and the dog put the moves on me! I declined, said I really just needed to sleep...and he has been cold as ice since. *sigh* well he will be gone soon, WITHOUT Robbin. Robbin stays with me, and if Rob pulls any crap and tries to take him, well, the last time they let him because we were still married, not this time, and Robbin does NOT want to go with him, so he's lost this round. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ Send your photos by email in seconds... Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.com Works in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2010 Report Share Posted August 12, 2010 In Florida it matters. Rob already has the latest floozy bamboozled, but not Robbin, who is onto him. All Robbin has to do is tell the police that he was taken against his will and he does not want to be there. I AM trying to contact legal aide, it is hard around here, they are always busy and have short hours to boot. ~*~Hugs~*~ ~*~Akiba~*~ -- RE: today I'm afraid if there is no legal custody order in place, there can be nokidnapping charge - maybe I'm wrong, but I've seen enough cases to worry.(And in many jurisdictions it don't matter squat what Robbin wants...)Call legal aid in your area and find out. I really really don't want tosee you find out the hard way if Robb decides again that being a "poorpitiful single father ooo give us a home babe" works in his favor with somefloozy again, you know?Just sayin'.... in WYPractical Blackwork Designs"You get a wonderful view from the point of no return..." http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com http://practicalblackwork.com-----Original Message-----From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On BehalfOf AkibaSent: Thursday, August 12, 2010 2:22 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: RE: today There is no custody in place, BUT, I have the SSI and as such am primary,and he lives with me. If Rob were to try and take off with him it WOULD bekidnapping and prosecuted as such, especially with his history. But hewon't, Robbin does NOT want to go with him. ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~-------Original Message------- From: ThallasDate: 8/12/2010 4:14:49 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: RE: today Good! And refresh my memory - who has LEGAL custody? If it's not spelledout, get it so - and be sure Robb's visitation is "supervised" - I'm surethe fact that he's taken off with Robbin before should work in your favor onthis.And isn't the new home of Akiba And Robbin gonna be grand! :-D :-D :-D in WYPractical Blackwork Designs"You get a wonderful view from the point of no return..." http://practical-blackwork.blogspot.com http://practicalblackwork.com-----Original Message-----From: MSersLife [mailto:MSersLife ] On BehalfOf AkibaSent: Thursday, August 12, 2010 1:38 PMTo: MSersLife Subject: RE: today I'm not going to have to throw him out, he can't WAIT to go. He doesn't knowabout the child support nor does he know that I am planning on signingRobbin up for the Big Brother program ad soon as Rob clears the driveway. ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~-------Original Message------- From: nne SvihlikDate: 8/12/2010 3:00:35 PMTo: mserslife Subject: RE: today Get all you can from him and then throw him out!Hugsnne To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might bethe world""May the Lord Bless you and keep you,May the Lord Make his face shine upon you, and give you Peace...Forever"Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://breastcancerpatientssoulmatesforlife.bravehost.com/ Anxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancerAngel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com-----Original Message-----From: akyba@...Sent: Thu, 12 Aug 2010 13:31:28 -0400 (Eastern Daylight Time)To: mserslife , wayofthewingedheart Subject: today Ok, yesterday I found a guy on craigslist to help Rob with the house (mysister's), he has a truck. It will cost me a big chunk of change but thestuff WILL get here and with someone else there I think it will be harderfor Rob to get away with stuff. His Mom took him there, and is staying tohelp and bring stuff in her truck as well (she has one of those huge ramtrucks). Once that part is over, I will find an estate dealer to buy therest, then to get the house sale-able and put it on the market. This is allassuming I can forestall the foreclosure, which I think I have done, so far,since I called them and explained it all so they know she's not a deadbeat,she's just the "dead" part of that (morbid humor, sorry). I'll let y'allknow how it goes. Rob has been getting itchy to get back to "his life", even said "you know assoon as this is over, I am outta here, I have a life to live". Well goodluck with that, since one of the first things *I* am going to do is take himto court for child support. I am biding my time because I want this done andhe is really the only one who can do it. So, yes, I guess I am using him alittle, but after all of the crap he has put ME through, well, this isminimum payback, doesn't really even begin to cover....not to mention havingto put up with his attitude these last few weeks. Only made worse by my notletting him in my bed. Oh yes, the FIRST night that he was back he hit onme...I'd JUST lost my mom and sister and the dog put the moves on me! Ideclined, said I really just needed to sleep...and he has been cold as icesince. *sigh* well he will be gone soon, WITHOUT Robbin. Robbin stays withme, and if Rob pulls any crap and tries to take him, well, the last timethey let him because we were still married, not this time, and Robbin doesNOT want to go with him, so he's lost this round. ~*~Hugs~*~~*~Akiba~*~Send your photos by email in seconds...Try FREE IM ToolPack at www.imtoolpack.comWorks in all emails, instant messengers, blogs, forums and social networks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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