askin for support with DCF

November 14, 2011

I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking so

bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and nervous but not

interfered with there ability to care for there child...and if any one can state

their house gets really messy and dirty at times that would be a plus too...

the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of neglect

or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is concerned with

this..also she found some things on my floor which she considers unsafe for an

autism kid....leggo piece?

the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called father

intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives that beat

the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my arms. YAY! good

call DCF!

anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..

channa

November 14, 2011

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.

She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to

make your case.

Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.

.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...

askin for support with DCF

>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking

>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline

>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and

>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and

>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that

>would be a plus too...

> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of

> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is

> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she

> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?

> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called

> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives

> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my

> arms. YAY! good call DCF!

> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..

> channa

>

> ------------------------------------

>

November 14, 2011

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 14, 2011

All my prayers r wth u, all my love God is not blind, hang on in there and u will come out of this stronger.Sent from my iPhone

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 14, 2011

So sorry to hear your going through all this Channa.

~ Antiviral Therapy 101~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com/ ~~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 14, 2011

Ok if any one want to trade lives with me?? maybe for a couple weeks..think of it as combat training...

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 11:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

So sorry to hear your going through all this Channa.

~ Antiviral Therapy 101

~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com/ ~

~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 15, 2011

Those fuckers! That's so warped about bringing his father back...Sorry, channa, that social worker sounds like she has in for you. She sounds like a few bitch people that I've had contact with -- like a public speech therapist that we had a long time ago and this early intervention specialist who said that there was something " wrong " because my 2.5 y.o. couldn't dress herself -- yeah, no shit, she has motor planning problems and global apraxia -- and her way of " helping " us was to print off this stupid fucking developmental checklist and coming over and saying that we should do everything that's on this list. Um, if we could do those things, then I wouldn't have sought an autism diagnosis, would I?

Seriously, some of these people are these haughty taughty jerks who are serious psychopaths. I think this woman that you're dealing with is a psychopath. There was this one speech therapist that we had from our public speech services and this a-hole said, " What kind of mother doesn't have a kleenex in her purse with two kids. " Dude, seriously, I had a 2.5 y.o. and a 6 month old who wasn't walking yet and I forgot to put some washcloths in my purse to wipe their noses. And then because Maia really liked the reinforcer that was used in the session, the speech therapist accused me of not feeding her breakfast because I was " trying to save some money. " WTF? I swear, Maia went there after eating a very full breakfast. I could see where it was going.

IThis is totally harassment. She's using her position (role of authority) to abuse people. Chances are that if she's doing this to you, she's doing this to other people, too. She sees that you don't have an adequate support network of people around you (family, friends) and sees you as a target that she can bully and using your son as a type of social hostage. Not cool at all.

If your son's school is on your side, you should enlist the help of a liaison through the school system to talk to her office (not her). It might even be more effective if you can get your son's principal to call her supervisor or her supervisor's boss. Then, she's aware that other people are aware of it. Abusers (and that social worker does sound like she's an abuser) like to isolate their victims or tend to target victims that are socially isolated. The more people that are involved, the less likely they'll be to get involved. That horrible first speech therapist (who was terrible at what she did, btw) Maia had was like that and the more people that got involved, the less involved she wanted to be in the situation until so many people were involved (with behavior consultants, assessment teams, etc) that she transferred our services to come from another part of the agency. These abuser types know what they are and they're afraid of being outed.

After what happened with that first speech therapist (and having her insinuate that I'm neglectful), I learned to get LOTS of people involved with both my children. I put them in lots of public and private (when we can afford it) programs. We're involved and I get the names of at least five individuals from different public agencies that we come into contact with and more people from private agencies that we're involved with. I have a list of at least 30 people that we're involved with at this point, not even including medical professionals. The more names that they see, I find the less likely that abusive types will want to be involved with you. The minute that someone tries to be an asshole to me, I give their boss the names of about 20 people they'd be able to call and you'd be surprised how fast the abusive types back off. I carry a stack of everyone's business cards in my wallet.

I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that would be a plus too...

the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?

the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my arms. YAY! good call DCF!

anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..

channa

November 15, 2011

Would be happy to.Sent from my iPhoneOk if any one want to trade lives with me?? maybe for a couple weeks..think of it as combat training...

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 11:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

So sorry to hear your going through all this Channa.

<skullsignatureb & wsepiahandcoloredsmall.png>~ Antiviral Therapy 101

~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com/ ~

~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 15, 2011

, you already had plenty combat training.. your the one that keep stealing my angry eyes

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 8:48 AMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Would be happy to.

Sent from my iPhone

Ok if any one want to trade lives with me?? maybe for a couple weeks..think of it as combat training...

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 11:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

So sorry to hear your going through all this Channa.

<skullsignatureb & wsepiahandcoloredsmall.png>~ Antiviral Therapy 101

~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com/ ~

~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 15, 2011

Praying hard, in terms of letters to support u I would love to write one just let me know, mayb uo social worker can ve a free trip to London to see me, she will soon no what highly strung is, I just first say to pple ve to excuse me I am a bit MAD, that gives me the green light to share my MADNESS!!Sent from my iPhone

, you already had plenty combat training.. your the one that keep stealing my angry eyes

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 8:48 AMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Would be happy to.

Sent from my iPhone

Ok if any one want to trade lives with me?? maybe for a couple weeks..think of it as combat training...

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 11:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

So sorry to hear your going through all this Channa.

<skullsignatureb & wsepiahandcoloredsmall.png>~ Antiviral Therapy 101

~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com/ ~

~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to make your case.Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward... askin for support with DCF>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking >so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline >describing

how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and >nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and >if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that >would be a plus too...> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > arms. YAY! good call DCF!> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> channa>>>>

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November 15, 2011

Hi Channa,

I am so sorry that you are going through such tough times. But this bad time

would be over soon. I was wondering if there are any local associations from the

state. We are in NJ and we have autismnj which provides a lot of support to

parents. If you have any such local organization, they might be able to give you

some legal support also. We are all praying for you and your child. Remember,

God will not give you any trouble that you are not capable of handling and we

all know that you are a very strong person.

Good luck

is

> >

> >Â

> >>

> >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local

newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

> >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in

front of the other..

> >>

> >>________________________________

> >>

> >>To: mb12valtrex

> >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM

> >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF

> >>

> >>Â

> >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.

> >>

> >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to

> >>make your case.

> >>

> >>Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.

> >>

> >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...

> >>

> >> askin for support with DCF

> >>

> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking

> >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline

> >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and

> >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and

> >>>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that

> >>>would be a plus too...

> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of

> >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is

> >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she

> >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?

> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called

> >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives

> >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my

> >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!

> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..

> >>> channa

> >>>

> >>> ------------------------------------

> >>>

November 15, 2011

funny you should say this is....i been praying this last hour and all I kept saying to god was...remember....your not suppose to give me more then i can handle..I am trying to remind God of this promise..in case he forget.!

maybe God spoke back thru you. that would make you an angel is:)

I dont feel strong thou...feel very weak...going to many domestic violence agencys for help.

the good news is I stole my sons valerian tonight since my panic attacks are back..and happy to report wooah!

the stuff rocks! I mean seriuosly folks the stuff is amazing...if you take enuff of it voila! valium! hehe

Thank you is..

channa

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Hi Channa,I am so sorry that you are going through such tough times. But this bad time would be over soon. I was wondering if there are any local associations from the state. We are in NJ and we have autismnj which provides a lot of support to parents. If you have any such local organization, they might be able to give you some legal support also. We are all praying for you and your child. Remember, God will not give you any trouble that you are not capable of handling and we all know that you are a very strong person.Good luckis> >> >Ã‚ > >>> >>> >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local

newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!> >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..> >>> >>> >>> >>________________________________> >>> >>To: mb12valtrex > >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM> >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF> >>> >>> >>Ã‚ > >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.> >>> >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to > >>make your case.> >>> >>Now gather the domestic violence documents and

evidence.> >>> >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...> >>> >> askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one can

state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>>

>>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 15, 2011

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Please, don't post this stuff at this time....

askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 15, 2011

ï»¿

matter of fact - maybe the mods will delete these 3 posts

askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 16, 2011

Sometimes things that are first mistaken as obstacles or stumbling blocks are put before us and we cry in confusion, frustration and fear. After time, we realize they were not obstacles at all. And with great relief, we learn those "stumbling" blocks were actually building blocks that helped us emerge stronger and more faithful than ever. A blessing will come from this. Watch and see."The Lord is my strength and my light...whom shall I fear?" Prayer is the ultimate weapon. Faith is bigger than anything.It takes a strong person to have faith when trials seems bigger than you.You ARE that strong.You

fixed a leaky gut...surely you can handle a social worker..... ; )-TammyP.S. Were any of those links useful?To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:56 PMSubject: Re: Re: askin for support with DCF

funny you should say this is....i been praying this last hour and all I kept saying to god was...remember....your not suppose to give me more then i can handle..I am trying to remind God of this promise..in case he forget.!

maybe God spoke back thru you. that would make you an angel is:)

I dont feel strong thou...feel very weak...going to many domestic violence agencys for help.

the good news is I stole my sons valerian tonight since my panic attacks are back..and happy to report wooah!

the stuff rocks! I mean seriuosly folks the stuff is amazing...if you take enuff of it voila! valium! hehe

Thank you is..

channa

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Hi Channa,I am so sorry that you are going through such tough times. But this bad time would be over soon. I was wondering if there are any local associations from the state. We are in NJ and we have autismnj which provides a lot of support to parents. If you have any such local organization, they might be able to give you some legal support also. We are all praying for you and your child. Remember, God will not give you any trouble that you are not capable of handling and we all know that you are a very strong person.Good luckis> >> >Ã‚ > >>> >>> >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the

editor of my local

newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!> >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..> >>> >>> >>> >>________________________________> >>> >>To: mb12valtrex > >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM> >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF> >>> >>> >>Ã‚ > >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.> >>> >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to > >>make your case.> >>> >>Now gather the domestic violence documents

and

evidence.> >>> >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...> >>> >> askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one

can

state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>>

>>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 16, 2011

Well put Tammy, Channa I hope u take Tammy's words and keep them close thru all this!!!!!Sent from my iPhone

Sometimes things that are first mistaken as obstacles or stumbling blocks are put before us and we cry in confusion, frustration and fear. After time, we realize they were not obstacles at all. And with great relief, we learn those "stumbling" blocks were actually building blocks that helped us emerge stronger and more faithful than ever. A blessing will come from this. Watch and see."The Lord is my strength and my light...whom shall I fear?" Prayer is the ultimate weapon. Faith is bigger than anything.It takes a strong person to have faith when trials seems bigger than you.You ARE that strong.You

fixed a leaky gut...surely you can handle a social worker..... ; )-TammyP.S. Were any of those links useful?To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:56 PMSubject: Re: Re: askin for support with DCF

funny you should say this is....i been praying this last hour and all I kept saying to god was...remember....your not suppose to give me more then i can handle..I am trying to remind God of this promise..in case he forget.!

maybe God spoke back thru you. that would make you an angel is:)

I dont feel strong thou...feel very weak...going to many domestic violence agencys for help.

the good news is I stole my sons valerian tonight since my panic attacks are back..and happy to report wooah!

the stuff rocks! I mean seriuosly folks the stuff is amazing...if you take enuff of it voila! valium! hehe

Thank you is..

channa

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Hi Channa,I am so sorry that you are going through such tough times. But this bad time would be over soon. I was wondering if there are any local associations from the state. We are in NJ and we have autismnj which provides a lot of support to parents. If you have any such local organization, they might be able to give you some legal support also. We are all praying for you and your child. Remember, God will not give you any trouble that you are not capable of handling and we all know that you are a very strong person.Good luckis> >> >Ã‚ > >>> >>> >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the

editor of my local

newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!> >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..> >>> >>> >>> >>________________________________> >>> >>To: mb12valtrex > >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM> >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF> >>> >>> >>Ã‚ > >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.> >>> >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to > >>make your case.> >>> >>Now gather the domestic violence documents

and

evidence.> >>> >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...> >>> >> askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one

can

state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>>

>>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 16, 2011

you are right it does take a strong person to have faith when trials are bigger then us. I realized I am not that strong person.. I wonder where God is because I dont feel him near me anymore.

i dont know Tammy it doesnt look good for me or my son right now..but we will see..

I havent tried the links yet but plan too...i been busy with contacting my local domestic violence resources..we will see what happens. thank you guys for the kind words..really it does my soul so much good.

channa

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Wednesday, November 16, 2011 9:04 AMSubject: Re: Re: askin for support with DCF

Sometimes things that are first mistaken as obstacles or stumbling blocks are put before us and we cry in confusion, frustration and fear. After time, we realize they were not obstacles at all. And with great relief, we learn those "stumbling" blocks were actually building blocks that helped us emerge stronger and more faithful than ever. A blessing will come from this. Watch and see.

"The Lord is my strength and my light...whom shall I fear?"

Prayer is the ultimate weapon.

Faith is bigger than anything.

It takes a strong person to have faith when trials seems bigger than you.

You ARE that strong.

You fixed a leaky gut...surely you can handle a social worker..... ; )

-Tammy

P.S. Were any of those links useful?

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex >Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:56 PMSubject: Re: Re: askin for support with DCF

funny you should say this is....i been praying this last hour and all I kept saying to god was...remember....your not suppose to give me more then i can handle..I am trying to remind God of this promise..in case he forget.!

maybe God spoke back thru you. that would make you an angel is:)

I dont feel strong thou...feel very weak...going to many domestic violence agencys for help.

the good news is I stole my sons valerian tonight since my panic attacks are back..and happy to report wooah!

the stuff rocks! I mean seriuosly folks the stuff is amazing...if you take enuff of it voila! valium! hehe

Thank you is..

channa

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 15, 2011 9:31 PMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Hi Channa,I am so sorry that you are going through such tough times. But this bad time would be over soon. I was wondering if there are any local associations from the state. We are in NJ and we have autismnj which provides a lot of support to parents. If you have any such local organization, they might be able to give you some legal support also. We are all praying for you and your child. Remember, God will not give you any trouble that you are not capable of handling and we all know that you are a very strong person.Good luckis> >> >Ã‚ > >>> >>> >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor

of my local newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!> >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in front of the other..> >>> >>> >>> >>________________________________> >>> >>To: mb12valtrex > >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM> >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF> >>> >>> >>Ã‚ > >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.> >>> >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing to > >>make your case.> >>> >>Now gather the domestic violence

documents and evidence.> >>> >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...> >>> >> askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if

any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>>

>>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 16, 2011

I agree with you Tammy too.

If you beat the puzzle of leaky gut, yeast/metal issues/viral/bacteria/learning

difficulties, and I wish I had myself, you can lick this thing easy!

Stay calm, use your considerable intelligence, and remember how many people

admire you for what you have achieved, and care about you. You have helped so

many people Channa. You have friends all around the world.

Australia

> > > >

> > > >Ã‚

> > > >>

> > > >>Guy..i sent letter to dr phil ,the news, and the editor of my local

newspaper is goin to publish my story i wrote him!

> > > >>im gathering as much letters as possible in my defense..yes one foot in

front of the other..

> > > >>

> > > >>________________________________

> > > >>From: GuyW <guyiii@>

> > > >>To: mb12valtrex

> > > >>Sent: Monday, November 14, 2011 3:31 PM

> > > >>Subject: Re: askin for support with DCF

> > > >>

> > > >>Ã‚

> > > >>I'm sorry to hear that this statist drone is still harassing you.

> > > >>

> > > >>She doesn't get to make the final decision, you get an official Hearing

to

> > > >>make your case.

> > > >>

> > > >>Now gather the domestic violence documents and evidence.

> > > >>

> > > >>....one foot in front of the other, and keep moving forward...

> > > >>

> > > >> askin for support with DCF

> > > >>

> > > >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are

shaking

> > > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline

> > > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and

> > > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there

child...and

> > > >>>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times

that

> > > >>>would be a plus too...

> > > >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of

> > > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is

> > > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she

> > > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?

> > > >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called

> > > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our

lives

> > > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was

in my

> > > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!

> > > >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at

stake..

> > > >>> channa

> > > >>>

> > > >>> ------------------------------------

> > > >>>

November 16, 2011

As the author of posts, you can delete your own posts; you don't need me to do it for you. But deleting posts does not remove it from members' email.I'm always happy to remove posts when necessary, but wanted to make you all aware that you can delete any post you wrote at any time.But also an FYI, valerian is an herbal supplement. It's not valium, it's not Rx, it's not much for anyone to go on. But I *would* highly recommend that this discussion get highly self-censored. Channa, be very careful what you say. You never know what will come back to bite you in the arse. If you want me to remove the post, I can. But you can easily go in and delete it yourself.Let me know if you need me to do it.

~ Antiviral Therapy 101~ gryffinstail.wordpress.com ~~ @Gryffins_Tail ~

ï»¿

matter of fact - maybe the mods will delete these 3 posts

askin for support with DCF> >>> >>>I am in a very desperate situation...I can barely type my hands are shaking > >>>so bad....if anyone feels comfortable in writing a letter to me offline > >>>describing how being an autism mom has made them more highstrung and > >>>nervous but not interfered with there ability to care for there child...and > >>>if any one can state their house gets really messy and dirty at times that > >>>would be a plus too...> >>> the social worker is going ahead with the case despite no report of > >>> neglect or abuse....she says she believes I am too high strung and is > >>> concerned with this..also she found some things on my floor which she > >>> considers unsafe for an autism kid....leggo piece?> >>> the worst is here in good old mass they have started a program called > >>> father intitiave..so they want to bring my sons father back into our lives > >>> that beat the crap out of me my whole pregnency and while my son was in my > >>> arms. YAY! good call DCF!> >>> anyways any and all prayers are so so needed my sons future is at stake..> >>> channa> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>> ------------------------------------> >>>> >>>

November 17, 2011

Channa, I am really sorry about what you are going through. I feel the need to

vent about goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies who get in our way:

A local radio station had " Do me a favor Friday " . The way it went is: A listener

calls in saying they need something. Other listeners try to meet that need.

Years ago, a Mom called. She said, " I've been up with a sick kid all night. I

just want a single bottle of beer and a single cigarette. " You should have heard

the uproar about what a bad Mom she was. The poor woman called back and said,

" Obviously, I'm not someone who keeps any of this stuff around. I had a rough

night. I am crazy about my kid. Forget I ever called. " I felt really bad for the

woman.

My sister says my kid is hyperactive because she watches too much TV. The funny

thing is we don't even get a single TV channel. The therapists use clips of Baby

Einstein and Baby Bumblebee as reinforcers. My sister says the therapists use

these video clips too much and that's why my kid is hyperactive. I just roll my

eyes.

Until my kid's genetic test results are finalized, I am taking an

antidepressant. I don't go around advertising this because I don't want lectures

from goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies. Imagine the field day my busybody

coworker would have, if she knew.

Speaking of the busybody coworker with no kids… (she is the one who told my boss

that my office had been messy since my kid's diagnosis, causing my

pushover-boss-with-no-sense-of-right-and-wrong to come to me and say " Are your

personal problems interfering with your work? " ) While my boss and I were

discussing work one day, this coworker came in to my office and said there were

still bread crumbs on my desk after I had lunch and my stupid boss didn't say

" What's it to you? " This coworker looks in my car in the parking lot and sees

the dirty Kleenex on the floor and clucks her tongue in judgment at it. I have

quit talking with this coworker. I am certain she has figured out that I am

ignoring her. I don't even want to talk back and argue anything and I never

have. Because all I care about at this time is my kid. I don't have energy for

anyone else.

I am recovering my kid. " My house is on fire " as the saying goes. Nothing else

matters and nothing else exists (except of course my other kid who I am also

crazy about).

Last summer, during a rough patch, I bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked one

cigarette a day at a park on my way home every day. Okay, I did it for 5 days

and then gave the rest to a smoker friend. My husband does not need to know. My

teen does not need to know. Nobody who knows me needs to know. I don't need a

lecture from anyone at this time.

I am high-strung at this time, too, but I am high-strung inside. I look stoic

outside.

Our highest boss, the county manager, announced how much weight he lost thanks

to our great benefits program which includes a wellness coordinator who helped

him. I wanted to punch the guy because our benefits program, which states in the

booklet that autism treatments are covered, does not cover shit. It helps the

richest employee who needs someone else to teach him how to lose weight, but it

doesn't help a poor clerk's kid who really needs the help. Doesn't even cover

ABA therapy, which is backed by years of scientific research and evidence.

I vacuum and dust the room that the therapists use, but not the rest of the

house, because, when I am not at work, I am playing with my kid, so she doesn't

get lost in her own stimming world.

I use paper plates and plasticware so I don't have to waste time washing dishes.

The house and the environment can wait until my kid is as recovered as I can get

her.

The money my Mom gave is getting very low. Next step is taking loans out. After

that, selling the house. Nothing else matters. I am stoic and I don't say much

anymore, because I don't want anyone coming after me, not my coworker, not my

boss, not my sister, not the county manager, not the wellness coordinator, not

all the other moms at the library and the playground who stare at my hyperactive

kid, and not child welfare people who might say I am high strung or my rooms are

messy.

Since I am not saying much, I have become a good listener. People won't stop

coming to my office and going on and on about their dogs or their vacations or

their remodeling projects or the antics of their cute, smart, verbal kids. I

smile, I listen, I ask questions. You can't find a better listener than me these

days. I do genuinely care about them, but I also see how petty their so-called

problems are.

I have a list of things I will do also once my kid is recovered. They don't

involve anything mind-altering only because 11 years of Miralax abuse for my

extreme constipation has already stolen some of my brainpower. I need all the

brains I have left.

I will experiment with natural cures for my constipation, for one thing. I have

done this before and failed miserably, but I will try harder. I don't have time

to be constipated at this time, because I can't even walk when I am constipated

and I need to walk to help my kid.

Something else I'll do is, I will watch all the Bourne movies while eating bags

of sunflower seeds. I will have the lumps on my head surgically removed, like my

sister did. That's it. I don't have any imagination left to think of anything

else I would do.

November 17, 2011

Oh Mel...I can honestly say that even thou i never met you I love you with all my heart and soul ,and you are amazing beyond amazing.

this letter is so good...wish some great magazine would publish that! damn would it really give people the knock over their head they need.

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Thursday, November 17, 2011 11:55 AMSubject: Re: askin for support with DCF

Channa, I am really sorry about what you are going through. I feel the need to vent about goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies who get in our way:A local radio station had "Do me a favor Friday". The way it went is: A listener calls in saying they need something. Other listeners try to meet that need. Years ago, a Mom called. She said, "I've been up with a sick kid all night. I just want a single bottle of beer and a single cigarette." You should have heard the uproar about what a bad Mom she was. The poor woman called back and said, "Obviously, I'm not someone who keeps any of this stuff around. I had a rough night. I am crazy about my kid. Forget I ever called." I felt really bad for the woman. My sister says my kid is hyperactive because she watches too much TV. The funny thing is we don't even get a single TV channel. The therapists use clips of Baby Einstein and Baby Bumblebee as reinforcers. My sister says the therapists use these

video clips too much and that's why my kid is hyperactive. I just roll my eyes. Until my kid's genetic test results are finalized, I am taking an antidepressant. I don't go around advertising this because I don't want lectures from goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies. Imagine the field day my busybody coworker would have, if she knew.Speaking of the busybody coworker with no kidsâ€¦ (she is the one who told my boss that my office had been messy since my kid's diagnosis, causing my pushover-boss-with-no-sense-of-right-and-wrong to come to me and say "Are your personal problems interfering with your work?") While my boss and I were discussing work one day, this coworker came in to my office and said there were still bread crumbs on my desk after I had lunch and my stupid boss didn't say "What's it to you?" This coworker looks in my car in the parking lot and sees the dirty Kleenex on the floor and clucks her tongue in judgment at it. I have quit

talking with this coworker. I am certain she has figured out that I am ignoring her. I don't even want to talk back and argue anything and I never have. Because all I care about at this time is my kid. I don't have energy for anyone else. I am recovering my kid. "My house is on fire" as the saying goes. Nothing else matters and nothing else exists (except of course my other kid who I am also crazy about).Last summer, during a rough patch, I bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked one cigarette a day at a park on my way home every day. Okay, I did it for 5 days and then gave the rest to a smoker friend. My husband does not need to know. My teen does not need to know. Nobody who knows me needs to know. I don't need a lecture from anyone at this time. I am high-strung at this time, too, but I am high-strung inside. I look stoic outside. Our highest boss, the county manager, announced how much weight he lost thanks to our great benefits

program which includes a wellness coordinator who helped him. I wanted to punch the guy because our benefits program, which states in the booklet that autism treatments are covered, does not cover shit. It helps the richest employee who needs someone else to teach him how to lose weight, but it doesn't help a poor clerk's kid who really needs the help. Doesn't even cover ABA therapy, which is backed by years of scientific research and evidence. I vacuum and dust the room that the therapists use, but not the rest of the house, because, when I am not at work, I am playing with my kid, so she doesn't get lost in her own stimming world. I use paper plates and plasticware so I don't have to waste time washing dishes. The house and the environment can wait until my kid is as recovered as I can get her. The money my Mom gave is getting very low. Next step is taking loans out. After that, selling the house. Nothing else matters. I am stoic and I

don't say much anymore, because I don't want anyone coming after me, not my coworker, not my boss, not my sister, not the county manager, not the wellness coordinator, not all the other moms at the library and the playground who stare at my hyperactive kid, and not child welfare people who might say I am high strung or my rooms are messy. Since I am not saying much, I have become a good listener. People won't stop coming to my office and going on and on about their dogs or their vacations or their remodeling projects or the antics of their cute, smart, verbal kids. I smile, I listen, I ask questions. You can't find a better listener than me these days. I do genuinely care about them, but I also see how petty their so-called problems are. I have a list of things I will do also once my kid is recovered. They don't involve anything mind-altering only because 11 years of Miralax abuse for my extreme constipation has already stolen some of my

brainpower. I need all the brains I have left. I will experiment with natural cures for my constipation, for one thing. I have done this before and failed miserably, but I will try harder. I don't have time to be constipated at this time, because I can't even walk when I am constipated and I need to walk to help my kid. Something else I'll do is, I will watch all the Bourne movies while eating bags of sunflower seeds. I will have the lumps on my head surgically removed, like my sister did. That's it. I don't have any imagination left to think of anything else I would do.

November 17, 2011

Mel! I have never been this moved by any posts on this forum but right now I

just want to cry. Your post reflects a lot of emotional stuff that all warrior

mothers go through. I feel like everything is on hold in our family also while

we are trying to recover our son. I wish we were all living in the same

neighborhood and helping each other out with kids, taking turns and supporting

each other different chores. I wish people with neurotypical kids were more

understanding and would stop staring. But yesterday something happened which

gave me some confidence as a mother. I observed my son's classroom and out of 5

kids in the class, he is the only one on the diet and getting biomedical help.

While my son was working on his academics and dealing with some lack of focus,

the other 3 were screaming extremely loud non-stop, hitting classroom floor with

their chests, hitting themselves and not even able to identify colors at grade 3

level. I felt so sad for those kids as despite discussions on diet and biomed,

their moms look at me like I am talking nonsense. Those kids obviously are in a

lot of pain and as per advise of mainstream pediatricians, those parents are not

trying any biomed options. It made it even clearer to me that all us parents on

this forum are trying our level bests to recover our kids and should feel

confident and give ourselves credit for all our efforts. I pray to God to give

all of us strength to go on and to be help each other with any support we can

offer.

is

>

> Channa, I am really sorry about what you are going through. I feel the need to

vent about goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies who get in our way:

> A local radio station had " Do me a favor Friday " . The way it went is: A

listener calls in saying they need something. Other listeners try to meet that

need. Years ago, a Mom called. She said, " I've been up with a sick kid all

night. I just want a single bottle of beer and a single cigarette. " You should

have heard the uproar about what a bad Mom she was. The poor woman called back

and said, " Obviously, I'm not someone who keeps any of this stuff around. I had

a rough night. I am crazy about my kid. Forget I ever called. " I felt really bad

for the woman.

> My sister says my kid is hyperactive because she watches too much TV. The

funny thing is we don't even get a single TV channel. The therapists use clips

of Baby Einstein and Baby Bumblebee as reinforcers. My sister says the

therapists use these video clips too much and that's why my kid is hyperactive.

I just roll my eyes.

> Until my kid's genetic test results are finalized, I am taking an

antidepressant. I don't go around advertising this because I don't want lectures

from goody-two-shoes, clueless busybodies. Imagine the field day my busybody

coworker would have, if she knew.

> Speaking of the busybody coworker with no kids… (she is the one who told my

boss that my office had been messy since my kid's diagnosis, causing my