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I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in

complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the

motor and verbal area.

I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and

frightened.

i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin

to make them and tackle them.

Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or

families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I

can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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Congrats. We have had 3 children since our son was diagnosed with asd all

perfect tg we gave no vaccinations and have avoided antibiotics kept them off

dairy and gluten and. they all fine.

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oh my gosh,first of all... that is awesome!

second of all...stay far away from vaccines! stay far away from antibiotics unless life threatening..

if you were my best friend i would tell you stay away from docters period.stay away from their tests...not all people will agree with that..but that is why i would only tell this to my best friend.

find a good midwife that will deliver in a hospital..make sure you have two people guarding your baby so they cant sneak him off to get vaccinated behind your back. um,it happens all the time.

eat healthy, spend time in prayer, you will be fine...your baby will be fine.

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMSubject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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who was that gal in the bible? wasnt she like 70 when she had her son?

that would make you like a teenager compared to her:)

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 6:18 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

oh my gosh,first of all... that is awesome!

second of all...stay far away from vaccines! stay far away from antibiotics unless life threatening..

if you were my best friend i would tell you stay away from docters period.stay away from their tests...not all people will agree with that..but that is why i would only tell this to my best friend.

find a good midwife that will deliver in a hospital..make sure you have two people guarding your baby so they cant sneak him off to get vaccinated behind your back. um,it happens all the time.

eat healthy, spend time in prayer, you will be fine...your baby will be fine.

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMSubject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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It was easier for me because my son wasn't diagnosed until the end of my pregnancy with my second son. But my second is NT. Everything about it was different.I would *not* say to avoid antibiotic unless it's life threatening. I would just say avoid overusing antibiotics. A kid with strep throat or an ear infection should be treated, along with any number of non-life threatening infections. Just be aware of how antibiotics are being used and make sure it's not unnecessary.#2 is perfectly typical. Try not to worry about it (easier said than done) and enjoy your pregnancy.

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who was that gal in the bible? wasnt she like 70 when she had her son?

that would make you like a teenager compared to her:)

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 6:18 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

oh my gosh,first of all... that is awesome!

second of all...stay far away from vaccines! stay far away from antibiotics unless life threatening..

if you were my best friend i would tell you stay away from docters period.stay away from their tests...not all people will agree with that..but that is why i would only tell this to my best friend.

find a good midwife that will deliver in a hospital..make sure you have two people guarding your baby so they cant sneak him off to get vaccinated behind your back. um,it happens all the time.

eat healthy, spend time in prayer, you will be fine...your baby will be fine.

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMSubject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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That is awesome! Congratulations!I understand your concern, but I would encourage you to not be so guarded that you can't enjoy this special time, either. There's lots you can do to take proactive measures!Your post comes at an interesting time. I belong to another yahoo group - The founder has a son (recovered from autism) and even as we speak, there is a thread going about how he and his wife give their

newborn (perfectly healthy and fine, btw) probiotics everyday. So that's something to consider.I would take time choosing an ob/gyn. So many doctors these days treat pregnancy like a medical condition. If I could do it all over again, I would avoid the shots I had when I was preg, and any they they try to give post partum....ESPECIALLY if you plan to breast feed (I hope you are able to!). Unless the baby (or myself) was in danger, I would have skipped the pitocin and the saddle block and let things happen naturally. I've also read some interesting articles about waiting for the umbiblical cord to stop pulsing before cutting the cord (give it a google). And of course, I'd watch very

carefully that the baby is not given the hep b

vacc (unless of course, you are hep b positive, then there's a slight chance you could pass it on to the baby).If time and money affords, you could test for mito dysfunction, mthfr mutations so you could treat/supplement accordingly.Otherwise, try to create a healthy atmosphere. Get rid of room deodorizers, filter your water, ditch harsh detergents and soaps. Avoid cooking with aluminum. Eat organic as much as possible and as tempting as it is, DON'T put new carpeting in baby's nursery unless you can afford chemical free "green" carpets.Try to keep stress levels down, nutrition way up, and enjoy this awesome time with your family.Oh! And save baby's cord blood just because you never know....-Tammy To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PM Subject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area.

I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.

i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.

Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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oh yah,and get a organic matress for baby..no bad chemicals in it..i would spend time in nature sitting on the ground in warm appropriate clothes of course...earth is healing..and of course breast milk is so good..as all the cornsyrup and lead they have found in baby formula...not very good

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 7:54 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

That is awesome! Congratulations!

I understand your concern, but I would encourage you to not be so guarded that you can't enjoy this special time, either. There's lots you can do to take proactive measures!

Your post comes at an interesting time. I belong to another yahoo group - The founder has a son (recovered from autism) and even as we speak, there is a thread going about how he and his wife give their newborn (perfectly healthy and fine, btw) probiotics everyday. So that's something to consider.

I would take time choosing an ob/gyn. So many doctors these days treat pregnancy like a medical condition. If I could do it all over again, I would avoid the shots I had when I was preg, and any they they try to give post partum....ESPECIALLY if you plan to breast feed (I hope you are able to!). Unless the baby (or myself) was in danger, I would have skipped the pitocin and the saddle block and let things happen naturally. I've also read some interesting articles about waiting for the umbiblical cord to stop pulsing before cutting the cord (give it a google). And of course, I'd watch very carefully that the baby is not given the hep b vacc (unless of course, you are hep b positive, then there's a slight chance you could pass it on to the baby).

If time and money affords, you could test for mito dysfunction, mthfr mutations so you could treat/supplement accordingly.

Otherwise, try to create a healthy atmosphere. Get rid of room deodorizers, filter your water, ditch harsh detergents and soaps. Avoid cooking with aluminum. Eat organic as much as possible and as tempting as it is, DON'T put new carpeting in baby's nursery unless you can afford chemical free "green" carpets.

Try to keep stress levels down, nutrition way up, and enjoy this awesome time with your family.

Oh! And save baby's cord blood just because you never know....

-Tammy

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMSubject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go. Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic are the more important for a healty pregnancy.Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things, you can google it.This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this diet with some improvements after a month.God bless you and your baby. Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMTo: mb12valtrex Subject: 48 years old and pregnant! I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened. i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them. Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.Reply to sender | Reply to group | Reply via web post |[The entire original message is not included]

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I have two children, they are about 20 months apart. I didn't do anything different between the two pregnancies. My 1st child (6) has pretty severe communication difficulties, and my 2nd child (4) has advanced communication skills. My son has been in therapy since he was 2.5. I can't think of a single family that we've encountered where the youngest child has the difficulties. He has been in therapy with two sets of twins (one identical and one fraternal), where one child had difficulties, and the other did not.I agree that once you do the research, you are the only one that can make the best decision for you. :-) I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go. Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic are the more important for a healty pregnancy.Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things, you can google it.This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this diet with some improvements after a month.God bless you and your baby. Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMTo: mb12valtrex Subject: 48 years old and pregnant! I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened. i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them. Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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Congrats We had a surprise pregnancy last yr my little girl born 10 days ago is

just beautifiull and i thank god for her ,Durin the pregnancy i limited gluten

dairy avoided all toxins as much as possible She is breast fed she wont be

getting any jabs Very best of luck i know the shock and worry you are going

through ..i tried to stop the worry stayed positive and ill continue with this

attitude x

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was kind enough to allow me to share this with you. If you've never visited his yahoo group, you should. He's got good things going on over

there!

-Tammy

----- Forwarded Message -----To: stopcallingitautism Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 9:46 PMSubject: RE: [stop Calling It Autism!] probiotic choice

Thanks Nikki and congratulations to you too! :)

My wife took 1 full dose of Custom Probiotics (200 Billion microorganisms) daily during her pregnancy. This was her third pregnancy and it was the healthiest one of all. She almost didn't have any water retention, minimal swelling, she was very comfortable, she worked until two weeks before the due date, her digestive system was much better and in summary she did great. She did catch a cold when she was 5 months pregnant, but she didn't take any meds for it. She got over the cold in 3 days.

My wife also delivered the baby with no epidural anesthesia, I will not lie to you, she said it was painful, compared with our first two boys, but the baby was so alert just a few minutes after he was born. That is one of the cutest things I have witnessed in my whole life. My wife's recovery was much quicker as well and after just two days she was walking around and looking like she didn't have a baby just two days ago. Of course, I got her a few nice presents for being so brave, I was there during the delivery and just knowing that my wife didn't take any medications during her pregnancy and during the delivery it was a breath of fresh air considering how we loaded with medications when he was very sick. A lot of the staff from the hospital came to visit and ask my wife "Where you the mom that delivered the baby with no epidural?", some of them

said "Wow, that is you, when is my turn I will be taking the epidural!" :)

The baby and mom are still taking probiotics. Them and the rest of the family will continue taking probiotics for the rest of our lives.

About the vaccines, we are now following the vaccine manufacturers recommendations which we never did before. This time around we ordered the SCIA lab test panel for the baby's cord blood. During one of the OB/GYN appointments we asked the doctor and he agreed. He was very nice and prearranged everything for us, we called the lab company ahead of time, figured out all the logistics and I had all the contact information handy for when we were ready to go to the hospital for the delivery. We tested the cord blood for immune markers, cell-mediated immunity, Natural Killer Cell Function, Immunoglobulin levels, microglial activation markers, inflammation markers, autoimmune, bacterial infections and viral infection markers. The results came back and they didn't look too good, actually they were pretty scary if you ask me. So based on the vaccine

manufacturers recommendations we are holding off vaccines until we do the lab tests again. We are planning to do them either when he turns 6 months old or 1 year. The baby is really healthy and happy, but what I learned is that the immune system in newborns is very immature, fragile and deregulated.

Probiotics During Pregnancy

The benefits of probiotics for mom-to-be

http://www.babyzone.com/pregnancy/health_wellness/article/probiotics-during-pregnancy

Why probiotics ARE a boon in pregnancy

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-562203/Why-probiotics-ARE-boon-pregnancy.html

"Pregnant women should take probiotic supplements if they want to reduce the risk of their babies suffering from childhood allergies, a study has found."

Probiotics tied to lower risk of pregnancy problem

http://news.yahoo.com/probiotics-tied-lower-risk-pregnancy-problem-200940875.html

Study Shows 'Good' Bacteria May Help Women Reduce Belly Fat After Childbirth

http://www.webmd.com/diet/news/20090507/probiotics-cut-belly-fat-after-pregnancy

Probiotics in pregnancy prove beneficial for both mom and baby

http://www.naturalnews.com/030801_probiotics_pregnancy.html

Probiotics May Help Ward Off Obesity, Study In Pregnant Women Suggests

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/05/090507055504.htm

Probiotics during pregnancy and breast-feeding might confer immunomodulatory protection against atopic disease in the infant.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11799376

"Administering probiotics during pregnancy and breast-feeding thus offers a safe and effective mode of promoting the immunoprotective potential of breast-feeding and provides protection against atopic eczema during the first 2 years of life."

Thanks,

Founder and Director of Stop Calling It Autism!

http://www.stopcallingitautism.org

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Tammy thank u for sharing this!! Thank u thank uSent from my iPhone

was kind enough to allow me to share this with you. If you've never visited his yahoo group, you should. He's got good things going on over

there!

-Tammy

----- Forwarded Message -----To: stopcallingitautism Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 9:46 PMSubject: RE: [stop Calling It Autism!] probiotic choice

Thanks Nikki and congratulations to you too! :)

My wife took 1 full dose of Custom Probiotics (200 Billion microorganisms) daily during her pregnancy. This was her third pregnancy and it was the healthiest one of all. She almost didn't have any water retention, minimal swelling, she was very comfortable, she worked until two weeks before the due date, her digestive system was much better and in summary she did great. She did catch a cold when she was 5 months pregnant, but she didn't take any meds for it. She got over the cold in 3 days.

My wife also delivered the baby with no epidural anesthesia, I will not lie to you, she said it was painful, compared with our first two boys, but the baby was so alert just a few minutes after he was born. That is one of the cutest things I have witnessed in my whole life. My wife's recovery was much quicker as well and after just two days she was walking around and looking like she didn't have a baby just two days ago. Of course, I got her a few nice presents for being so brave, I was there during the delivery and just knowing that my wife didn't take any medications during her pregnancy and during the delivery it was a breath of fresh air considering how we loaded with medications when he was very sick. A lot of the staff from the hospital came to visit and ask my wife "Where you the mom that delivered the baby with no epidural?", some of them

said "Wow, that is you, when is my turn I will be taking the epidural!" :)

The baby and mom are still taking probiotics. Them and the rest of the family will continue taking probiotics for the rest of our lives.

About the vaccines, we are now following the vaccine manufacturers recommendations which we never did before. This time around we ordered the SCIA lab test panel for the baby's cord blood. During one of the OB/GYN appointments we asked the doctor and he agreed. He was very nice and prearranged everything for us, we called the lab company ahead of time, figured out all the logistics and I had all the contact information handy for when we were ready to go to the hospital for the delivery. We tested the cord blood for immune markers, cell-mediated immunity, Natural Killer Cell Function, Immunoglobulin levels, microglial activation markers, inflammation markers, autoimmune, bacterial infections and viral infection markers. The results came back and they didn't look too good, actually they were pretty scary if you ask me. So based on the vaccine

manufacturers recommendations we are holding off vaccines until we do the lab tests again. We are planning to do them either when he turns 6 months old or 1 year. The baby is really healthy and happy, but what I learned is that the immune system in newborns is very immature, fragile and deregulated.

Probiotics During Pregnancy

The benefits of probiotics for mom-to-be

http://www.babyzone.com/pregnancy/health_wellness/article/probiotics-during-pregnancy

Why probiotics ARE a boon in pregnancy

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-562203/Why-probiotics-ARE-boon-pregnancy.html

"Pregnant women should take probiotic supplements if they want to reduce the risk of their babies suffering from childhood allergies, a study has found."

Probiotics tied to lower risk of pregnancy problem

http://news.yahoo.com/probiotics-tied-lower-risk-pregnancy-problem-200940875.html

Study Shows 'Good' Bacteria May Help Women Reduce Belly Fat After Childbirth

http://www.webmd.com/diet/news/20090507/probiotics-cut-belly-fat-after-pregnancy

Probiotics in pregnancy prove beneficial for both mom and baby

http://www.naturalnews.com/030801_probiotics_pregnancy.html

Probiotics May Help Ward Off Obesity, Study In Pregnant Women Suggests

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/05/090507055504.htm

Probiotics during pregnancy and breast-feeding might confer immunomodulatory protection against atopic disease in the infant.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11799376

"Administering probiotics during pregnancy and breast-feeding thus offers a safe and effective mode of promoting the immunoprotective potential of breast-feeding and provides protection against atopic eczema during the first 2 years of life."

Thanks,

Founder and Director of Stop Calling It Autism!

http://www.stopcallingitautism.org

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I have friends who have multiply children with problems. You have to think that every child is a gift to be able to live without regret. Each person makes their own decision but I am grateful I didn't have the choice for my daughter to keep or not. Even though it is the hardest thing to live with ASD, we all have difficulties and that forms us. My friend just had her 5th girl. 4 have ASD. She has 2 service dogs.She is amazing. She is amazing as we all are. Virginia 341-22nd Street West Owen Sound ON N4K 4E9 To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 10:05:00 PM Subject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have two children, they are about 20 months apart. I didn't do anything different between the two pregnancies. My 1st child (6) has pretty severe communication difficulties, and my 2nd child (4) has advanced communication skills. My son has been in therapy since he was 2.5. I can't think of a single family that we've encountered where the youngest child has the difficulties. He has been in therapy with two sets of twins (one identical and one fraternal), where one child had difficulties, and the other did not.I agree that once you do the research, you are the only one that can make the best decision for you. :-)

I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go. Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic are the more important for a healty pregnancy.Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things, you can google it.This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this diet with some improvements after a month.God bless you and your baby. Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PMTo: mb12valtrex Subject: 48 years old and pregnant! I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area. I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened. i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them. Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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our kids force us to become superheroes...think about how great is that?

imagine if when we all were kids if someone told us we would become a super hero one day...

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, November 23, 2011 1:55 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have friends who have multiply children with problems. You have to think that every child is a gift to be able to live without regret. Each person makes their own decision but I am grateful I didn't have the choice for my daughter to keep or not. Even though it is the hardest thing to live with ASD, we all have difficulties and that forms us. My friend just had her 5th girl. 4 have ASD. She has 2 service dogs.She is amazing. She is amazing as we all are.

Virginia

341-22nd Street West

Owen Sound ON N4K 4E9

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 10:05:00 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have two children, they are about 20 months apart. I didn't do anything different between the two pregnancies. My 1st child (6) has pretty severe communication difficulties, and my 2nd child (4) has advanced communication skills.

My son has been in therapy since he was 2.5. I can't think of a single family that we've encountered where the youngest child has the difficulties. He has been in therapy with two sets of twins (one identical and one fraternal), where one child had difficulties, and the other did not.

I agree that once you do the research, you are the only one that can make the best decision for you. :-)

I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go. Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic are the more important for a healty pregnancy.Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things, you can google it.This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this diet with some improvements after a month.God bless you and your baby.

Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43

PMTo: mb12valtrex Subject: 48 years old and pregnant!

I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the motor and verbal area.I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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Just wanted to say my son born to me at 35 has ASD.beautiful child with severe

language difficulties.His sister was botn when I was almost 41 years old.She is

also a beautiful child and neurotypical.I did do things diffterent with her.No

vaccines, we ate more whole foods,used supplements and had midwives in my care

rather than doctors.She was nursed for 2 years my son couldnt nurse bc my milk

production was low unfortunately.I believe my son suffered many assaults on his

system to get to where he was.Alot of antibiotics and vaccines.I didnt know any

better.There are obviously no gaurantees but I thought i would tell you my

story.Good luck.God Bless :)

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> > I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the

only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go.

> > Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic

are the more important for a healty pregnancy.

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> > Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things,

you can google it.

> > This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this

diet with some improvements after a month.

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> > God bless you and your baby.

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> > I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and

in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit hard in the

motor and verbal area.

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> > I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and

frightened.

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> > i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to

begin to make them and tackle them.

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> > Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances

or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure

I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.

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wonderful story, wish more people could here it.

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Thursday, November 24, 2011 11:07 AMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

Just wanted to say my son born to me at 35 has ASD.beautiful child with severe language difficulties.His sister was botn when I was almost 41 years old.She is also a beautiful child and neurotypical.I did do things diffterent with her.No vaccines, we ate more whole foods,used supplements and had midwives in my care rather than doctors.She was nursed for 2 years my son couldnt nurse bc my milk production was low unfortunately.I believe my son suffered many assaults on his system to get to where he was.Alot of antibiotics and vaccines.I didnt know any better.There are obviously no gaurantees but I thought i would tell you my story.Good luck.God Bless :)> > > I am 40 years old trying to adopt because I am afraid like you, you are the only one who can make the best desiciones wich way to go. > > Acording to my researchs, vitamin D, B (all 12, 6), idionine and probiotic are

the more important for a healty pregnancy.> > > > Also I found Weston A Price fundation, they explain a lot of good things, you can google it.> > This has similar principals as GAPS, after my research my son started this diet with some improvements after a month.> > > > God bless you and your baby.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Sent: Tuesday, November 22, 2011 4:43 PM> > To: mb12valtrex > > Subject: 48 years old and pregnant!> > > > > > I have just found out I am pregnant (about 3 weeks). I am 48 years old and in complete and utter shock. My daughter is 7 years old. She was hit

hard in the motor and verbal area.> > > > I feel like I am in completely unchartered territory and feel scared and frightened.> > > > i know we have all these decisions to make and am not sure how to even to begin to make them and tackle them.> > > > Just wanted to know if there is any other family under similar circumstances or families who have had a second child who are born fine or not. I am not sure I can handle the latter am already overwhelmed.> > > > > > > >>

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Just wanted to thank you for all your posts and the encouragement, my favorite

was the biblical one of the 70 year old giving birth, so I am equivalent to a

teenager!.....my husband and I laughed hard!

Unfortunately yesterday morning I had a very early miscarriage. Funny how

invested you are in this potential life in such a short time. I have allowed

myself a day or two to wallow in a large dollop of self pity, mourning the what

could have been....perhaps the wonderful journey to have watched a child develop

typically..crawl and walk and talk without extensive therapies and protocols.

Yesterday evening my daughter treated me to a intricate dance she has just made

up sprinkled with wild cart wheels and a running apraxic but detailed

imaginative commentary...and I was in awe in just how far we have come with our

floppy baby. So today I try and stand in the place of thanks for what I have and

what we will continue to work for in her life.

Best wishes to all of you on this journey.

Leigh

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> Just wanted to say my son born to me at 35 has ASD.beautiful child with

severe language difficulties.His sister was botn when I was almost 41 years

old.She is also a beautiful child and neurotypical.I did do things diffterent

with her.No vaccines, we ate more whole foods,used supplements and had midwives

in my care rather than doctors.She was nursed for 2 years my son couldnt nurse

bc my milk production was low unfortunately.I believe my son suffered many

assaults on his system to get to where he was.Alot of antibiotics and vaccines.I

didnt know any better.There are obviously no gaurantees but I thought i would

tell you my story.Good luck.God Bless :)

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Hi leighI am so sorry to hear this ye must heartbroken.we had 2 miscarragies both at 8 weeks and I know your pain.I don't know if you are religious but we had a mass and named both with a unisex name.it just made it easier to accept .we pray for. Them both every night jordan would now be 10 and cameron 5. When you are up to it maybe a naming cermony might help.God bless ye at this sad time,I also ask them to stay with our special boy and keep him safeYour daughter now has another angel to look out for herLet your email find you with BlackBerry® from VodafoneSender: mb12valtrex Date: Thu, 24 Nov 2011 19:01:11 -0000To: <mb12valtrex >ReplyTo: mb12valtrex Subject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant! Just wanted to thank you for all your posts and the encouragement, my favorite was the biblical one of the 70 year old giving birth, so I am equivalent to a teenager!.....my husband and I laughed hard!Unfortunately yesterday morning I had a very early miscarriage. Funny how invested you are in this potential life in such a short time. I have allowed myself a day or two to wallow in a large dollop of self pity, mourning the what could have been....perhaps the wonderful journey to have watched a child develop typically..crawl and walk and talk without extensive therapies and protocols.Yesterday evening my daughter treated me to a intricate dance she has just made up sprinkled with wild cart wheels and a running apraxic but detailed imaginative commentary...and I was in awe in just how far we have come with our floppy baby. So today I try and stand in the place of thanks for what I have and what we will continue to work for in her life.Best wishes to all of you on this journey.Leigh>> Just wanted to say my son born to me at 35 has ASD.beautiful child with severe language difficulties.His sister was botn when I was almost 41 years old.She is also a beautiful child and neurotypical.I did do things diffterent with her.No vaccines, we ate more whole foods,used supplements and had midwives in my care rather than doctors.She was nursed for 2 years my son couldnt nurse bc my milk production was low unfortunately.I believe my son suffered many assaults on his system to get to where he was.Alot of antibiotics and vaccines.I didnt know any better.There are obviously no gaurantees but I thought i would tell you my story.Good luck.God Bless :)>

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Oh Leigh...I am so so sorry...I send out all my love and peace to you and your family. God is so strange with all the things he allows in our life or doesnt allow in out life..I cant make sense of half the things he does..

but we just got to have faith that he knows what he is doin.

big hug to you,

channa

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Thursday, November 24, 2011 2:01 PMSubject: Re: 48 years old and pregnant!

Just wanted to thank you for all your posts and the encouragement, my favorite was the biblical one of the 70 year old giving birth, so I am equivalent to a teenager!.....my husband and I laughed hard!Unfortunately yesterday morning I had a very early miscarriage. Funny how invested you are in this potential life in such a short time. I have allowed myself a day or two to wallow in a large dollop of self pity, mourning the what could have been....perhaps the wonderful journey to have watched a child develop typically..crawl and walk and talk without extensive therapies and protocols.Yesterday evening my daughter treated me to a intricate dance she has just made up sprinkled with wild cart wheels and a running apraxic but detailed imaginative commentary...and I was in awe in just how far we have come with our floppy baby. So today I try and stand in the place of thanks for what I have and what we will continue to work for in her

life.Best wishes to all of you on this journey.Leigh>> Just wanted to say my son born to me at 35 has ASD.beautiful child with severe language difficulties.His sister was botn when I was almost 41 years old.She is also a beautiful child and neurotypical.I did do things diffterent with her.No vaccines, we ate more whole foods,used supplements and had midwives in my care rather than doctors.She was nursed for 2 years my son couldnt nurse bc my milk production was low unfortunately.I believe my son suffered many assaults on his system to get to where he was.Alot of antibiotics and vaccines.I didnt know any better.There are obviously no gaurantees but I thought i would tell you my story.Good luck.God Bless

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I'm sorry also.We also had two early m/c, after our first two children.I named one of them, the one we had genetically tested from the D & C and found was a girl.I named her Lanae Celeste for heavenly birth, and she is a special part of our family, for without her

loss and the second, I would not have found out about my MTHFR and then I never would have googled MTHFR, celiac and found Stan's mailing list. :-) She is saving my earthly kids.Hugs to you, Leigh.

 

Hi leighI am so sorry to hear this ye must heartbroken.we had 2 miscarragies both at 8 weeks and I know your pain.I don't know if you are religious but we had a mass and named both with a unisex name.it just made it easier to accept .we pray for. Them both every night jordan would now be 10 and cameron 5. When you are up to it maybe a naming cermony might help.

God bless ye at this sad time,I also ask them to stay with our special boy and keep him safeYour daughter now has another angel to look out for her

Toni

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