Guest guest Posted September 12, 2011 Report Share Posted September 12, 2011 Hi all. i am new on this journey with my bp mom. I have spent a life time trying to be me, not realizing until about 2 years ago that my family life was not " normal " . I'd had my mom ring health nurses, with out my consent, and when she got no where, ring higher up and nearly cost that person their job. I'd had mom get mad at my teachers in school when they didn't do what she wanted, ringing them at night. I'd had mom report my kids to family services but didn't tell me until last week that she did this, 2 years later. I'd had mom write letters to say that my husband controls my every move, when it's HER trying it. I'd struggled to get out for under this control. I used to shut down when mom tried her tactics on me. I used to try to please but alternately give up because it was so hard. I'm at the point of almost NC with my mom and stepfather. However, one thing stops me. It's the kids. I have 3 of them. My parents still send my stuff for the kids. What could happen if i go NC? Will they fight for the kids? I fear what they might do. Any one relate to me? I feel reY allone right now... Thanks. Musiclady Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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