Homeschooling and getting a break

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I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less expensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. Most times the boys don't really bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different

response for you. lolErrands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through

the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church

with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. Curriculum is

easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol-Tammy

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Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive

experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is

still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload

or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now,

but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.

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>  I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.

> The truth?  I don't.  My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and

demanding. So it's pretty much  me.  I could make more of an effort and take

advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while.  But the

older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So

it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time.  lol.

 

>

> Most times the boys don't really bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being

around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by.

 Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately.  And if it continues much longer,

I may have a very different response for you. lol

>

> Errands aren't bad.  I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home

and some, I drag the boys along to do.  The house sometimes gets neglected -

mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports.  But the house...and all

the housework...will always be there. 

>

> I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are.

 Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe.  I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent

teacher than you give yourself credit for.  I was terrified at first, but

finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the

school was.  You're the mom. You know your child better than anyone else in the

world.  If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd  be able to do

it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider

receiving therapies through the school dept.  But he is no trouble.  The

youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not

violent or self injurious.  Just naughty.

>

> The kids are pretty social.  My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets

him out quite a bit.  While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids

on his teams, they have become   " family " or  a " community " of sorts.  The same

familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles

them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my

younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave

the house). We've got a very active library and our city has a pretty decent

recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join

scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL

shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more

like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough.  I'll tell

you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of

their time with.  I

> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering

homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was " What about the socialization?

He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization..... "

BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce

of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids

who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him.  I just couldn't see how subjecting

him to rejection day after day could possibly be any good for him.  And I was

right.  He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once

again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. 

>

> Curriculum is easy enough.  I use the city's framework and hand pick my own

materials to meet my kids' specific needs.  With Dr Google, a world of material

and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair

once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it.

 Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes.  lol) so

he may be able to help for a while.  My ultimate goal is to teach them how to

learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests

specific to them.  But you know what they say:   " If you want to hear God laugh,

tell Him your plans "  Lol

>

> -Tammy

>

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I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do

laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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Hi MelindaAm in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)Many thanksSent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do

laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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Oh yes, we have challenging days. But they are fewer and far between as we go along. It took us a while to find our groove and the approach that works best for them. The only problem we're having currently is that both boys tend to lean on me a bit too much and I have to push them to be a little more independent. If we are at the park or a party, they will come get me or call my name waaaaay more than all the other kids combined. We'll work it out. As far as socializing, it's nice to have a say in who they spend the majority of their time with. They see the people they enjoy spending time with and life has become much more pleasant now that my oldest isn't faced with the daily stress

of spending his days with those who are "less than kind". Tom (pdd) has really good intuition when it comes to who he should and should not approach. I've learned not to push him to approach someone to play or talk because his instinct is almost always spot on. Not too shabby for a kid who, 4 years ago, barely acknowledged the existance of other kids. My younger guy generally doesn't care for people. He has the skills he needs to clearly communicate and deal with people in various situations- he just prefers to keep his circle very small. And that's fine, too. Everybody's different. I love love love homeschooling. I only wish I would have done the same with my daughters. -Tammy To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 3:36 AM Subject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do

laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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As far as i know tinnus smit died some time ago we followed his protocol for vaccination detoxLet your email find you with BlackBerry® from VodafoneSender: mb12valtrex Date: Tue, 20 Dec 2011 06:51:31 -0800 (PST)To: mb12valtrex <mb12valtrex >ReplyTo: mb12valtrex Subject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,MelindaTo: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break Hi MelindaAm in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)Many thanksSent from my iPod I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure whatthe original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.MelindaTo: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't reallybother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your childbetter than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library andour city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day couldpossibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >-Tammy>

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Thanks Melinda,Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidaysSent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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Date: Tue, 20 Dec 2011 06:51:31 -0800 (PST)To: mb12valtrex <mb12valtrex >ReplyTo: mb12valtrex

Subject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???Sent from my iPod

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To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

[Guest guest]

Just google Madrona Homeopathy and the email address and numbers are on the website.He is very kind and good about answering phone calls and emails.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:39 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???

Sent from my iPod

- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

[Guest guest]

Thank you MelindaSent from my iPod

Just google Madrona Homeopathy and the email address and numbers are on the website.He is very kind and good about answering phone calls and emails.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:39 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???

Sent from my iPod

- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

[Guest guest]

-You are welcome,I hope he can help you all as much as he has helped us.Blessings, Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Thursday, December 22, 2011 2:09 PMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Thank you MelindaSent from my iPod

Just google Madrona Homeopathy and the email address and numbers are on the website.He is very kind and good about answering phone calls and emails.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:39 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???

Sent from my iPod

- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

[Guest guest]

Here is the homeopath Melisa recommendedSent from my iPod

Just google Madrona Homeopathy and the email address and numbers are on the website.He is very kind and good about answering phone calls and emails.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:39 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???

Sent from my iPod

- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re:

Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

Sent from my iPod

I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what

the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really

bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child

better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and

our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could

possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> >

-Tammy>

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To: mb12valtrex From: tendaimatambanadzo@...Date: Tue, 3 Jan 2012 12:01:53 +0000Subject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Here is the homeopath Melisa recommendedSent from my iPod

Just google Madrona Homeopathy and the email address and numbers are on the website.He is very kind and good about answering phone calls and emails.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Wednesday, December 21, 2011 10:39 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

That is good, Melinda, how do I contact him???

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- He sees many patients internationally as well via Skype.

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 10:33 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Thanks Melinda,

Would ve done so if in USA, am in UK, and ve called one who works wth Caese the book seems to make sense, he says they work wth one toxin then another, ie if antibiotic damage then work on vaccine damage and so on and so on.

Will meet wth her after Xmas and see if we will use this.

Many thanks Melinda good luck to u too, happy holidays

Sent from my iPod

Its classical homeopathy.Only one remedy and if he gets the remedy right it is usually the only one.I have heard of Tinus and would like to get some of his books.Our homeopath cowrote a book with another couple discussing the use of homeopathy for kids on the Spectrum and ADHD/ADD.I believe about 60%,maybe more of his clients are on the Spectrum so he has lots of experience,You could email him your questions or call his office.I called him to talk about my son before we decided to see him.Madrona Homeopathy is the name of his practice.Best wishes for you and your son,Melinda

To: "mb12valtrex " <mb12valtrex > Sent: Tuesday, December 20, 2011 5:17 AMSubject: Re: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Hi Melinda

Am in process of reading up on homeopathy, ve a book by tinus smyth(splet the surname wrong feeding baby and book upstairs) its called beyond despair, he developed caese therapy.

My question is which type of homeopathy is ur therapist using?? R u finding it helpful for him and how long ve u bin using it?

I am thinking of doing it for him after Xmas (him being my four yr old)

Many thanks

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I agree with alot of things you said Tammy.We homeschool and use Sonlight cirriculum.My son loves it so much he goes and gets some of the workbooks on his own and does them during "nonschool" time.It only takes us 2 hours each day and allows plenty of time for therapy,field trips and other outings.I love it and so does he.We tried public school and he regressed into the worst shape I have ever seen him in.As far as socialization,he just wasnt interested until the last 4 or 5 months since we have been doing homeopathy.His SLP is teaching him how to introduce himself to others and carry on conversations and now he seems to make friends every where we go.Plus, although he is young, he is learning life skills being at home,he loves to help me cook,run errands,grocery shop,do laundry,etc.It also allows me to have a part time job and my husband works full time.We have a lot of choices for homeschoolers in our area as well so that helps.Not sure what the original post was but best of luck to the person if they are trying to decide.And BTW,its not all roses some days are challenging but I love that me and my boy work through it together.Melinda

To: mb12valtrex Sent: Tuesday, December 13, 2011 4:36 PMSubject: Re: Homeschooling and getting a break

Good for you. Wish I had done that when school stopped being a positive experience in third grade. I work in special ed. As hard as we work, it is still a negative experience for some students who suffer from sensory overload or overwhelming anxiety. My son is included in regular ed independently now, but he doesn't enjoy school or feel like he belongs there.> > > > I lost the original post asking how do I ever get a break homeschooling.> The truth? I don't. My husband runs a restaurant, the hours are long and demanding. So it's pretty much me. I could make more of an effort and take advantage of opportunities to get out and away for a little while. But the older I get, the more I realize how much I like my house and dislike people. So it's easier (and far less exhpensive) just to stay home most of the time. lol. > > Most times the boys don't really bother me or get on my nerves. I enjoy being around them. I have two grown daughters so I realize how fast time goes by. Georgie's been a little pain the a** lately. And if it continues much longer, I may have a very different response for you. lol> > Errands aren't bad. I try to divide them up so I do some when my hubby's home and some, I drag the boys along to do. The house sometimes gets neglected - mostly during the months my oldest is busy with sports. But the house...and all the housework...will always be there. > > I don't know how severe you son's issues, cognition, or behaviors are. Fortunately, we deal with nothing severe. I bet you'd be a MUCH more competent teacher than you give yourself credit for. I was terrified at first, but finally settled on the fact that I couldn't possibly do any worse than the school was. You're the mom. You know your child better than anyone else in the world. If my son had behavioral issues, it is very doubtful I'd be able to do it without the help of a respite worker and I would probably have to consider receiving therapies through the school dept. But he is no trouble. The youngest...eh....he's trying my patience lately - but his behaviors are not violent or self injurious. Just naughty.> > The kids are pretty social. My oldest is very active in sports, so that gets him out quite a bit. While he's not necessarily friends with many of the kids on his teams, they have become "family" or a "community" of sorts. The same familiar cast of characters year after year.And for the most part, he handles them just fine.He's got a couple of really good friends who are very sweet to my younger son (who isn't terribly social at all and would prefer to never leave the house). We've got a very active library and our city has a pretty decent recreation dept. so there's always stuff to do. They have both asked to join scouts - which is great and we'll give that a shot next year and I'm STILL shopping around for a church with a great children's ministry. (Ok, It's more like I'm waiting for one to fall in my lap.) They're social enough. I'll tell you it's awesome when you have more of a hand in who your kids spend most of their time with. I> remember when I first told my son's teacher that I was considering homeschooling, all I heard from his IEP team was "What about the socialization? He needs the socialization. Socialization, socialization, socialization....." BEHHHH! I heard that word til I wanted to puke. It was not doing him one ounce of good sending him off to school everyday and prompting him to go talk to kids who clearly wanted NOTHING to do with him. I just couldn't see how subjecting him to rejection day after day could possibly be any good for him. And I was right. He's much happier. Much more relaxed. He is happy in his own skin once again and is able to focus and actually LEARN. > > Curriculum is easy enough. I use the city's framework and hand pick my own materials to meet my kids' specific needs. With Dr Google, a world of material and resources are right at my fingertips. I'm not sure how I'm going to fair once they surpass me at math, but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. Fortunately, my husband was a math major (turned restaurant GM, yes. lol) so he may be able to help for a while. My ultimate goal is to teach them how to learn so they can direct their own education and hone the skills and interests specific to them. But you know what they say: "If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him your plans" Lol> > -Tammy>