Guest guest Posted September 24, 2011 Report Share Posted September 24, 2011 I'm interested in your thoughts. I've recently begun to interact with my niece more than we ever have. She's 24 and has been on her own for about 5 years now. She was raised by my nada, her g-nada, for her first 6 years (while I was NC; I didn't even know she existed!) Then my brother and her mother split, and she basically went to live with her mother, visiting g-nada once a month or so for the weekend for the next 12-13 years. And she's been LC with my brother for about 3 years, actually NC for the last year or so; NC with her g-nada. So ... she seems quite capable of splitting people golden or black, seeks buttons to push, and generally manipulates the h--l out of the people who are in her life full time (her mother, co-workers, roommate). And delights in retelling the stories to me. I find myself intrigued with figuring out what is up with her, and at the same time, these red flags keep popping up - basically, I feel unsafe around her. Crazy, since she's 10 years younger than my own daughter... but ?? Thoughts?? Fleas, or bpd?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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