FROM RANDI RE: I need your help + Are there BPs in here?

September 25, 2011

L and I discussed this extensively yesterday and I have no idea why it

wasn't taken care of yet. It is too early for me to call her, but I will do

so as soon as I can this morning. I am so sorry-this is not like her. Please

be assured we will have a safe environment again and there is no need to

worry about the future, and I am sorry about the past.

From: Fiona

Sent: Saturday, September 24, 2011 7:39 PM

Cc: Randi@...

Subject: Re: I need your help + Are there BPs in here?

I agree, I think someone suffering with BPD, or even someone who has

previously been diagnosed, would get more support from another group

dedicated to fellow sufferers.

Randi, could you offer some guidance in this situation?

Thank you!

Fiona

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> I only have 2 questions (and I admit I haven't read all the posts yet

related to this):

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> 1. Why would a BPD person want to hang out on a forum for those who have

suffered or are still suffering from the treatment they received from a BPD

person in their life?

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> 2. Is there a moderator that can deal with this uncomfortable situation?

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> As for me, I don't know you so I still feel free to share how I feel about

my nada and the crap she pulls on me. And I don't agree that many people

raised by BPD parents end up as BPD themselves. It's something we watch for

constantly and fear; we question our every comment and attitude hoping we

don't become like our nada's and fada's. In that respect I think we have a

head start on healing.

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