Guest guest Posted October 5, 2011 Report Share Posted October 5, 2011 My friend is succumbing to leukemia. My sister already told me my Nada is planning on coming to the funeral. She said she was going to 'go right away to pay her respects and leave so she didn't have to see me.' I call BS. Said friend who is dying hated my Nada, always. I wish I could do something to prevent her from attending. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 5, 2011 Report Share Posted October 5, 2011 What a sad thing to be going through, its such a helpless feeling to know a dear friend is dying and you can't do anything about it. Its also sad and very, very frustrating to accept that there is really nothing you can do about it if your nada chooses to attend your friend's funeral... unless you are the one who is in charge of making the arrangements, I suppose. If that is the case, then it would be in your power to hire security services for the funeral and make it their task to prevent your nada from entering the chapel / building for the service. But if you are not making the arrangements, then its pointless to spend time thinking of ways to control your nada's behaviors; its just not possible. You'll just be torturing yourself. All you can do is decide how you will handle yourself if your nada does show up. Sometimes reality really sucks. -Annie > > My friend is succumbing to leukemia. > My sister already told me my Nada is planning on coming to the funeral. > She said she was going to 'go right away to pay her respects and leave so she > didn't have to see me.' > I call BS. > > Said friend who is dying hated my Nada, always. > > I wish I could do something to prevent her from attending. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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